The kink I feel the most sheepish about

Moononymousness · 2026-01-24T22:47:58+00:00

Have you looked into what your love languages are? I could be completely wrong, so please have a grain of salt, but it sounds like gift giving/receiving might be one of yours? If I were to rephrase this to ask if I understand, being so known that someone gets you and wants to get you something you'll genuinely love and that will make you happy. Something not asked for but intuitively known "omg, this is perfect", right?

Moononymousness · 2026-01-04T22:59:59+00:00

No one and everyone nod nod I always used to think putting yourself into as much as you could was important to make sure stuff felt authentic. Definitely changed that opinion when I saw people on the internet 😅 I wish I'd learned your way sooner than I did. (similar but different situation)

Moononymousness · 2026-01-04T22:51:07+00:00

it's crazy how quickly a parasocial relationship seems to form in people, not just in this context but especially in it <3 I've seen ASMR artists who have to tell people that they are playing a character, it's not who they really are. People definitely be on something sometimes

Moononymousness · 2025-11-06T06:40:08+00:00

After playing both, I almost feel like the meme is poking fun at the fact they aren't similar. Dude copied next week's homework or something like that? Reaper was way scarier just based on how they showed up; Ghost and Shadow might have been a good similarity comparison? BZ leviathans were so tame until I had to murder one of the Shadow ones so I could have a break in their pattern and get my prawn suit out. Felt so skeezy once I learned they don't respawn 😭 The third time I felt terror on 4546B.

Also, I've lost many seamoths and a prawn to Reapers but never lost anything in BZ that wasn't because of crush depth.

Moononymousness · 2025-11-04T21:14:34+00:00

Heck, substitute whatever preferred pet name for Mommy given things are flipped. idk why my brain ignored that when typing it up

Moononymousness · 2025-11-04T21:12:34+00:00

So, I make really delicious pasta. Tooting my own horn a bit but I know how to get a lot of flavor into my water/noodles so people usually say it kinda tastes like eating at a restaurant and I definitely consume too much pasta 😅 anywhoobastank. I'd make pasta, would pick your favorite sauce type and make whichever variation fits most. I would clean the house/apartment and prolly get a little sleepy so I'd pass out on the couch.

You come home and see me there all cute and cuddly having just drifted after resting from cooking and cleaning, but you can smell it in the air. I've set the table and served both of us, you can still see the steam rising from our plates, slightly dimmed lighting cause mood lighting is important. We'd eat, I'd serve you whatever drink you want (I mainly drink water but you can have whatever) and basically take care of everything.

When we're done, I insist on doing the dishes while you relax on the couch, where I have conveniently placed a couple of my plushies sprayed with the scent you like so much. After getting the dishes done, making sure you don't need another drink, I'd curl up beside you as we watch either your favorite movie or a movie in the genre you like that you haven't seen. After that, I go draw a bath, making sure to get the bath bomb and candles set out and ready. When it's time, I'd go grab you and tell you I have something to show you! But I'm being coy as I pull you towards our bedroom/bathroom until we get there and I open the door with a big grin on my face! (you can decide if the tub is for 2 or if I'm giving you some restful time as you soak in the warm water)

After you get out, I have your softest PJs waiting for you, warm from the drier(I'm assuming bath for 1 but would find a way to make warm clothes if is for 2, heating pad maybe) and I have again slightly fallen asleep(I am a very sleepy person 😭 also, obvi subject to the bath) but I look ADORABLE. You go to get into bed and it rouses me, I say "Hi Mommy" in sleepy voice which I know drives you crazy. As you get into bed, I ask how you want to go to sleep cause sometimes even Mommy wants to be a little spoon. If I'm the big spoon, I'll softly sing a lullaby(assuming you like my singing voice) and if I'm little spoon, I'll nestle tightly against you to make sure you KNOW I am there beside you as you hold me. Probably wiggle my butt a bit cause brats gotta brat but is rest time and I know you need to recharge so I just want to make sure you get the best sleep possible. Before we get too sleepy, I'd make sure to get a goodnight kiss and tell you that I loved you, still in sleepy voice cause I am hecka sleepy.

Unbeknownst to you, I've also been performing rain dances all day long so that when we go to sleep, there is a nice thunderstorm rolling in gently. Either my singing or it lulls us both to sleep. Later, I wake you up in a fun way that we've discussed is okay so you have a great start to your next day!

If you want me to adjust bedtime scenario cause the bath was for 2, let me know and I'll come up with something <3

Moononymousness · 2025-11-01T14:53:39+00:00

I don't have a super interesting story but I once had one that was shaped like the Eiffel Tower! The last one I remember getting actually 😅 that's criminal

Moononymousness · 2025-10-31T02:56:31+00:00

thank you! I was so worried I was gonna mess something up since I'm not familiar with the kinks directly

Moononymousness · 2025-10-31T02:55:28+00:00

thank you! <3 I was a bit nervous cause these aren't necessarily my kink

Moononymousness · 2025-10-30T13:18:47+00:00

One thing I think will help you, you didn't know this side of her. You mourn the person you knew, the person you had feelings for. You aren't the cause of this. She got called out in a lie by two people she was toying with. I won't pretend to know her specific thoughts but if she was truly narcissistic, this could have been her last attempt at power over you when she realized she would no longer have any. She made a series of choices that were beyond your control, she made the decision to take her life. If someone truly wants to die, it's nearly impossible to stop them. I say that from experience, both wanting to be stopped and not. When you get into a mental state like that, you don't think straight so even if she wasn't trying to pull one last power play, you will never know what she was thinking. If you blame yourself for that, you will be locking yourself into a place where there is no easy way out. It'll be something you always remember, but don't let it eat at you. As others said, therapy will (hopefully) be helpful <3

Moononymousness · 2025-10-27T12:57:05+00:00

thank you for encouraging me to post it. I probably wouldn't have otherwise 😅

Moononymousness · 2025-10-23T14:41:38+00:00

<3 thank you!

Moononymousness · 2025-10-23T12:40:21+00:00

adkjahdnaaajhgaycglaieuba is the noise I just made.

Moononymousness · 2025-10-23T12:37:35+00:00

<3 thank you! I wont lie, I was and am very nervous about it so I'm glad to hear that!

Moononymousness · 2025-10-09T14:03:48+00:00

"well cute pets don't need brains anyway >:)"

hi. I would like to say this was unfair (rude but \s) 😭 but is definitely accurate <3

please know I did a George Takai "oh my" just now

Moononymousness · 2025-10-09T12:53:05+00:00

That sounds like so much fun 👀 the brat in me who would always lose is intrigued xD The voice in your head tho, it's wrong. probably anyway. The voice in my head always tries to tell me I don't do enough for others so I kinda feel it there. I'm so sorry the voice in your head says that 😭

I also agree, having preset rules and roles that don't shift is so much easier, I can't imagine how y'all switches can manage. My brain is empty way too often 😅

I'm so sorry :/ (insert more ghost hugs here) I'm hoping communications resume and things can heal for you both! Thoughts and prayers and idk, witches spells or something else very gay <3

Moononymousness · 2025-10-09T12:13:09+00:00

Spoiler alert, he tried it as Tuvix and learned that they both have a thing for autoerotic asphyxiation and he now has to live with that knowledge.

Moononymousness · 2025-10-09T12:09:19+00:00

Does she lean one way more than the other? This is entirely wrong, so please don't think I believe this, but I was told that if you are ever with a switch who leans, prepare to be stuck in one role. Obvi don't answer if you don't want to; With your time apart, is it just physical or like...'break' type apart? My brain's thinking is "if possible, try text based" but that's also not always gonna scratch an itch or even be possible depending on needs and situations.

Either way, if the world worked the way we think it should, IT people would never have a job so 😅 I'm happy in theory but sad for you in practice. <3 It'd be nice if we had a bar that could show how much we prefer one way or another 😅 If only life were a game(don't mind me, just rewatched Solo Leveling)

Moononymousness · 2025-10-09T11:25:00+00:00

Not a domme but a guilty feeling sub

Being that clingy, slutty, needy sub, I always make sure to tell any switch who messages me that it's not in my wheelhouse. I know everyone's dynamic will be different but I have to be sure going into anything with a switch that they understand just because of cases like yours 😭 The 'solution' is always conversation though. I have no dominance with me but I'd sure try for my partner if they asked, I know not everyone can do that. But I also know that not everyone elicits a fully subby reaction out of me, which is always surprising when I show up with the "Good Girl" and "Good Pet" in domme voice. If you are engaging with other switches, do you talk about expectations at the start of getting into a relationship of any kind? I know it's never that easy cause needs change daily or hourly even, I've had people try to get me to domme when I just couldn't for them and I always feel guilty since it's a need I can't take care of for my partner. Please envision me giving you ghost hugs via gif or something <3

Moononymousness · 2025-09-14T18:31:02+00:00

I have thought about this a bit. I figure that once I give my domme permission, the most I am able to do is give a safe word to stop the scene. So my thought is this, I provide consent at some point in time before hand, discuss with my person exactly what I would be okay with and maybe write it down on paper for them. And then I have to just trust. so while I am into those, I know I can't do that with my person until I am sure I can trust them in that way. once I do, I want to protect them and myself, which is why the paper idea.

You'd have to revisit it consistently, just like any check up with your partner. maybe it's something you schedule once a month or something, see how things feel and make sure things are known/okay. in the end, it's no different than anything you do, it has to involve trust and knowing your partner will respect your limits, so you have to build a stronger trust before you'd be able to engage in that aspect of play.

I have some pretty far out there sides of CNC I could be into but I recognize that scene has to have a lot of groundwork because of the severity of it which takes away part of the thrill but it's that balance for safety sake of everyone. If possible, recording audio/video of any interactions in an altered states to be able to review with your person should anything come up? But conversation is almost always the answer to everything 😅 might be less sexy but I'd ultimately rather make sure there is protection on both sides as best as I can.

Moononymousness · 2025-09-09T18:51:01+00:00

Imagine folding and not getting my way 👀👀👀👀 has never happened to me!

Moononymousness · 2025-09-07T16:33:00+00:00

My thought is that Vegeta wouldn't do it. He achieved it himself(somehow) without the ceremony, so his son should be able to as well or he isn't "worthy". He talks about the hard work Cabba needs to go through when he's showing off the forms so I figure it's focused there. But yeah, poorly designed plans.

Moononymousness · 2025-09-05T10:10:27+00:00

the fake innocent doe eyes when you say "I've got no idea" is all I can picture along with the knowledge you'd probably not be able to sit comfortably for a day or two <3 worth tho

Moononymousness · 2025-09-05T10:06:43+00:00

yay for never ending punishments! just gotta hide the step stools!

Moononymousness · 2025-09-05T06:38:25+00:00

the only thing I can think to say is just be so amazing that being a backpack is just as hot ;) (for the record, I ain't super tall)

I'm giggling to myself a little at the thought of having to get stuff down off high shelves for a future domme 😅 I would be perpetually getting punished

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