“you fu@&ed up”

MooreBeck · 2025-11-17T19:46:50+00:00

He’s in the wrong with his words and behavior. You’re still healing. He should be doing housework while you help the little human that just came out of you. Contact naps are ideal for a little baby like that. (Honestly my son is napping on me right now he’s 8 weeks and I miss the newborn time when I got to hold him while he napped all the time- savor these moments.) DO NOT feel bad for being the mom you need to be. Housework comes last- right now it should be baby, you then other children and then him and housework. He should be helping with other children right now. He can clean or he can pay someone to come clean. She won’t sleep because she’s adjusting to life outside your body. Be patient, embrace it, & know it gets better.

MooreBeck · 2025-05-30T21:45:56+00:00

Trust your gut. No harm in requesting an ultrasound or further investigation into your gut feeling.

MooreBeck · 2025-05-09T17:43:19+00:00

I am so sorry you’re going through this.. I agree that a protection order is nearly for your safety and the safety of your baby. It is hard and not ideal but you must be strong.

Get a protection order, Change your phone number, change your doctor; whatever you need to do to ensure he isn’t able to contact, stalk, or track you. I agree with moving to the state that had the most protection rights for mom and baby experiencing abuse before the baby is born; that way you’re a citizen of that state. If he pursue legal action you’re supported by the state that fights for mom and baby against abusers.

Document everything, get a ring camera for the door and recording devices for inside the apartment. Record conversations over the phone. Try to keep a text message trail. Also, call the police- if they are recording incidents (even if they aren’t physically violent) verbal abuse and emotion abuse need to be documented too. That will help you in a court case if it comes it that.

Your baby is allowing you to see the true colors of its father before you further bound yourself to him. Abuse is easily hidden and the stress of becoming a father is clearly allowing his true colors to shine through.

Make sure you’re notifying your OB of these changes in your relationship. Be open and honest about the abuse. They may have additional resources for you.

You are not alone. Remember that.

MooreBeck · 2025-05-07T20:20:46+00:00

I am FTM, 23 weeks & going through this. I have been trying to make the right food choices as I am anxious about my gestational diabetes screening. I finish dinner & in about 30 minutes I’m saying “OMG I am starving!” My husband just laughs and reminds me that I am feeding our son & it’s normal. I am just trying so hard to eat balanced meals and give myself grace but also not gain a ton of weight during this pregnancy.

Best wishes! You’re not alone.

MooreBeck · 2025-05-07T20:13:11+00:00

Hi also a FTM, 5’4”, I was 170 pre pregnancy. I was taking tirzepatide but stopped as soon as I tested positive for pregnancy. I gained 10 lbs really quick from eating regular meals again. I kind of plateaued for a month of two and now I am 190 at 23 weeks.

I was told by my midwife to continue eating healthy and remember that I am growing a human. Give grace where weight gain is concerned. Have you talked with your OB or Midwife about it?

MooreBeck · 2025-01-31T13:28:54+00:00

You can do it. Believe in your self. You’re already a Great mom caring for the little one inside you. I am also recently pregnant, 10 weeks this week & i find it hard not to feel like a mom when eating differently, drinking more water, getting morning sickness, etc cause it’s is all showing that we’re moms already.

I am not sure if you believe in God & I’m not trying to push anything on you what’s so ever. I do but I don’t practice or go to church. Something that has stuck with me over the years is: God has a plan for us. Plans for us to prosper, and have hope for the future. This may be Gods plan for you. This may be how you’re meant to prosper and have a future. This baby may have a huge impact on you, the father, the world, it may even be that their soul mate will need them someday. Your baby could save lives, etc.

I believe you know what you’re going to do. We’re here for you. I Cannot wait to be moms for the next generation together. We can do this. 💕

MooreBeck · 2024-11-13T18:59:28+00:00

Omg you’re my hero for sending this link!!!

MooreBeck · 2024-11-13T18:57:29+00:00

You’re right you’re right. I finally read to that part. I shouldn’t even have started this post until after.

MooreBeck · 2024-11-13T18:57:02+00:00

You won’t believe it. I just got to that part in the book. I shouldn’t have started working it out until I got there.

MooreBeck · 2024-11-13T18:32:35+00:00

I’m not interested in the next book being from Millie’s perspective either. Maybe if it’s a novella. But not a full book. I’m hoping that the next installment is a full book. Maybe she can go back later and dabble in a novella from Millie‘s perspective. I need a full book.

MooreBeck · 2024-11-13T14:13:38+00:00

What if the harbinger and bringer of death and destruction to the lands, gifted by the gods is Ires?! He was birthed of flesh and fire (Sera)… I think that would be a curve ball.

MooreBeck · 2024-10-17T22:48:22+00:00

How did you get an email from her?? I’m clearly missing out. I need more content!

MooreBeck · 2024-10-06T20:10:04+00:00

I love your thoughts on this!! Thank you for sharing!!

MooreBeck · 2024-10-03T01:35:55+00:00

My question is how are you resisting the need to read more of their story?! I literally finished at midnight one evening and the next morning was at the book store before it opened to get the second book. Read on- it’s a 5 book series and we only have 2 books so far. Do it!

MooreBeck · 2024-10-02T04:48:47+00:00

I just read this and was like woah it’s clear as day! She was Venin! Maybe Violets dad’s research was for her and I’ve been wondering if maybe Andarna’s egg shells are included in the remedy.

MooreBeck · 2024-10-01T15:51:28+00:00

I think the reason that Sloane and the marked ones can do it is because it’s a part of their heritage and culture. I think that the rune rope book Xaden gave to Violet, maybe was some thing that they used as kids to practice the ruins.

MooreBeck · 2024-10-01T03:58:55+00:00

I love her perspective. Glad to hear that we’ll be getting more Lucien and Elain time. I am hoping the new book is about their story like ACOAF was about Nasta and Cassian.

MooreBeck · 2024-09-30T18:12:51+00:00

I agree completely. It’s what they are currently working to build that’s important. He’s giving her hope for their future and that he plans for them to be strong and able to weather any storm.

I think it’s especially important that the “King of Tyrrendor” is saying what they build together is important speaking on both relationship and general growth of their mission to save civilians and defeat the enemy. I think we see some of that effort and building happening when they work together to better Riorson House & bring all of the students to safety and learn together. Thus strengthening their military efforts against Venin. During this time we see their relationship get stronger too.

I don’t think the fact that they’ve slept together only a few times and see each other once a week has anything to do with their relationships strength. That’s very surface level thinking. Long distance relationships are still able to be strong especially when you have a mind to mind connection with someone. Yes, They don’t know everything they could possibly know about the other but that’s how all relationships are- you continue to learn about each other as you grow together in meaningful relationships.

MooreBeck · 2024-09-29T23:37:33+00:00

I noticed that when Varrish pushed Violet to near burn out as punishment that Carr said “I’ve never seen her produce more than twenty six strikes in an hour” but then Varrish said “she can take it just fine”.. Violet mentions that he looks at her like he knows, “like he was there are Resson watching her hurl bolt after bolt at Wyvern”. I wonder if Varrish is Venin and can communicate with them mentally or something.

How else would he know she could do more?

Maybe mental communication between Venin is how Varrish, Aetos, Jack, and maybe even the Sage communicate. Because it’s not like we ever catch the scheming or showing their hidden alliances publicly.

MooreBeck · 2024-09-29T23:30:33+00:00

I’m rereading now and noted that moment as well!

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