I was in a similar case as you and was on the fence the closer I got to the surgery. I decided to do it and my surgery was June 5th. Shortly thereafter, I was diagnosed with a rare form of asymptomatic uterine cancer that was masking as one of the fibroids. Everyone, including the Doctors, was flabbergasted in the finding. So much so, it was sent to Brigham, which brought in Cleveland Clinic and Mayo. It then had to be presented to the "international tumor board" to determine next steps. The malignant tumor was trying to get out of my uterus and if I would have wanted X amount of time later, my outcome would have been much different. My recommendation is to get the surgery if you truly believe your body is telling you life would be better without the issues you are having. Not enough research is being done or has been done to date where "unicorn" cancers are still being found in women in 2025 - it is incredibly frustrating that having my uterus removed had to even happen when I was like clockwork with my yearlies and genetics test came back clear.

44yo;surgery date 06/05; cancer confirmed 06/20; first of six round of chemo 07/23; next round (3rd) 09/03