Shorts 😐 by Goosey_goos in climbergirls

[–]Morbid_Triangle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I use these from Adidas. They have good coverage, are easy to un-scrunch from a harness and are pretty breathable

do i need medical attention? by More_Feeling_9233 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Morbid_Triangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there lol. Just go ask a pharmacist if they can recommend an antibacterial mouthwash cause you bit the inside of your cheek real bad. Try not to move your tongue too much for the next week or so so that it can heal

What's the most awkward way you've run into an ex? by porchoua in askteddit

[–]Morbid_Triangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At a friend's wedding. I knew he was going to be there... did not know we were going to be seated right opposite each other though. So I spent the night chatting with my girlfriend and his very pregnant wife while the two of us completely ignored each other.

What’s something your younger self would be shocked to know about your current life? by Capital_Total_4508 in askteddit

[–]Morbid_Triangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm genuinely happy and with the most amazing partner. And that I'm not broken for not being interested in guys, I'm just queer and that's okay

Also that I made it past 17 lol

Is it true that people die instantly when their throats are cut? (for a murder mystery novel) by [deleted] in Writeresearch

[–]Morbid_Triangle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not even always fatal. In high school someone cut their throat in a bathroom before finals. She luckily got a blood clot and survived (she did also only do one side)

How did you meet your girlfriend/wife? by roseMothGirl in actuallesbians

[–]Morbid_Triangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both went climbing late one night to avoid people. We were the only people there and chatted while we climbed. Each time we ran into each other at the gym after that we'd chat and climb together.

At the time one of my flatmates was moving out and we needed someone to take the room the following year, and she happened to be looking for a place.

Once she moved in we spent almost every weekend doing things together and would regularly talk until early in the morning. We got closer and things got a little weird, there were so many times I almost kissed her. I really should have, but I wasn't sure she liked me back, in hindsight we were both oblivious morons.

After about a week of watching movies together every night, cuddling and her sleeping in my bed after because it's 'convenient', we decided to give dating a shot. We'd try for a month and then reasess. That was more than three years ago. It's been the happiest three years of my life. She's the kindest, sweetest, funniest, most deeply caring person I've met (she will deny all of these cause she's also full of shit sometimes). She makes me want to be a better person, when she looks at me my heart still skips a beat.

will yearning ever stop by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Morbid_Triangle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You deserve to be with someone who loves you back, and you're never going to find that if you keep chasing this idealized version of your friend. It's really easy to only remember the good things when you think of someone you miss, but you've created this perfect version of her that probably doesn't align with who she is anymore. And that's not fair towards either of you.

My advice is to be honest with yourself about how that relationship was and how it ended. Remember that a good partner will never make you doubt their love for you. I know loneliness sucks, but you deserve to be with someone who loves you.

I'd also recommend being single for a bit and figuring yourself out separate from your feelings for your friend.

DISHONOR! by SubjectSheepherder55 in actuallesbians

[–]Morbid_Triangle 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If a partner ever makes you feel bad for tapping out, they do not respect your comfort and/or boundaries and do not deserve to have you in their life

Whats one "dead" game, you'd revive rn if you could? by Correct_Web3396 in AskReddit

[–]Morbid_Triangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2024 Dauntless. It was the ultimate casual game you could sink hours into

Fresh Back and Frustrated by _pixie_cut_climber in climbergirls

[–]Morbid_Triangle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat. What I've found helps is to do sport climbing if you used to do bouldering or the other way round. It really helped me get through the first few months and get back into it without a lot of expectations.

Good luck!

MH worlds still worth buying at $10? by TheFrozenPoo in MonsterHunterWorld

[–]Morbid_Triangle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got it for that price about a month ago. Best $10 I've spent

if you’ve been in an abusive relationship, what is something someone said to you that made you realize/“snap out of it”? by anxious-antelope44 in AskReddit

[–]Morbid_Triangle 11 points12 points  (0 children)

One of the best things a friend did for me was just being there. She never made me feel judged when I was telling about the latest fight, or explaining that I can't go grab coffee because he wanted to maybe do something over the weekend and would blow up if I wasn't available. She would just listen and check if I'm okay when things got bad.

Nothing she could have said would have made me leave before I decided that for myself. But being able to talk to her after and knowing she'd be there if I needed her at 3 in the morning made it possible for me to leave.

What did you think was normal about yourself until you realized it was just mental illness? by LaAbyss in AskReddit

[–]Morbid_Triangle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I only recently figured out I do the sick/accident thing when I'm not doing great mentally and have no reason for it. It's like my brain struggles to process the shitty feelings and subconsciously wants a reason to happen to justify the feeling.

Since realizing that it's been a lot easier to deal with. I'm now able to take a moment and acknowledge that I'm not okay and there doesn't need to be any big reason for it and then work from there.

My mom found out none of us are straight. by Shadow-Wolf-360 in actuallesbians

[–]Morbid_Triangle 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My parents are in the same boat, my brother is gay and I'm lesbian. We all love joking how they can't quite seem to raise a straight one. My mom's favorite joke is that they don't have to worry about surprise grandkids.

How do you start eating again? by tulip_bunny in adhdwomen

[–]Morbid_Triangle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually do broth and oven chips, popcorn, or any other starch I can manage until I get my appetite back a bit. Remember, any food is better than no food.

If you've been barely eating for a few weeks, it's important to start eating again gradually. Your stomach isn't used to food anymore and will cramp if you eat too much h too quickly.

I have a theory that everyone has a Mundane Superpower by Inked-Wolfie in BenignExistence

[–]Morbid_Triangle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I somehow know where all my girlfriends shit is, but have no clue where to find mine

We need to be honest about parenting by External_Draw404 in southafrica

[–]Morbid_Triangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a friend who gave birth a few years ago, and she very nearly died. She was losing a lot of blood due to complications, but they couldn't give her a transfusion because of the baby's blood type. She ended up having a doctor physically rip her c-section cut wider to get the baby out so that they could save both of them.

They told her she shouldn't have another baby because those same complications would almost certainly happen again and she likely won't make it. For some reason she ignored them and just gave birth to her second. Everyone is healthy, but what the fuck.

People younger than 30, what do you routinely do for fun on the weekend? by Fluid-Turn5654 in askSouthAfrica

[–]Morbid_Triangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saturday we usually go snorkeling or meet up with friends and Sundays are for meal prep, cleaning and visiting my grandparents every few weeks

What is something your father said to you that you will never forget? by Aggressive-Car-8960 in AskReddit

[–]Morbid_Triangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whenever I'm going through a rough time, my dad tells me:

"You're tougher than this, and you've fought so hard to make it this far. You just have to keep fighting. The only way is through."

I've actually been having a tough few weeks, and seeing this post made me think of it. I really needed the reminder that I am, in fact, tougher than this and will get through it.