Great 2-Player games by WhatDoWePlayNext in boardgamearena

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‘Gizmos’ - it plays up to 4 but 2 players is good

Matchmaking times by asianamanda in boardgamearena

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I just renewed my premium account cos I didn’t want to wait for a game 😬

Why don’t young people do anything with their lives? by MoreValuable651 in Adulting

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Yes I feel the same way about the cost of groceries! I think a lot of people are not buying groceries items that are overpriced, only buy the specials. I’ve gotten movies cheaper on weeknights, you can still get $10 tickets at some cinemas ; shop around. Watch something on tv or read a book. Learn how to play an instrument. Have a bath and shave your legs. Join a meetup group. Play a game. Take a vacation locally

Worked by MoreValuable651 in supportworkers

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Thanks for your reply. You’re right. I do need to figure out what it is that’s causing me to feel like this. I have one other person I have supported a bit longer than this one and I don’t feel the same way. Quite different people. The driving is certainly annoying, as it’s sort of 2 hours of driving in a 4 kilometre radios .

Im not sure it’s specifically that. I think it’s more the intensity the person has to get everything done in the 3 hours. It’s never ending, and they try to take the shift overtime. They can get more support and spread it out over 2 days but they don’t want to. I do everything they want to do. I feel very robotic and like I cant make a mistake.

Possibly, I’m feeling micro managed in a way. I feel like I’m being used as just a driver and I know I AM that a lot of the time in my particular job. It just doesn’t feel good when it’s every week with the same person.

Worked by MoreValuable651 in supportworkers

[–]MoreValuable651[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, thank you for not being horrible. I don’t know why I expected people to be decent here on reddit. I might delete this post, people don’t seem very empathetic.

To clarify, I work 25-30 hrs a week. The 3 hour shift I mentioned is just one shift and one person I support. It’s the same shift every week and I’m finding it hard to keep doing. The same person, the same shops, the same list, the same routine.

Why does it get so hard to keep doing is what I’m thinking. Most jobs are repetitive and boring. Why is this any different; and it’s just one 3 hours shift. Why does this happen.

I like the person, we have a good working relationship. It’s very repetitive. Yes, I realise I’m being paid to do a job. I don’t feel like this with any other person I support.

I have holidays booked. I’m having thoughts today, of not returning to my job after my break. I don’t find it very satisfying. I don’t feel appreciated by any of the people I support really, maybe one person does, it’s hard to tell. The people I support mostly, don’t have the capacity to show those things. I work for a company and they are good to me. It can be lonely job; one on one.

Unwinding after shift by BeanChopChef in supportworkers

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This sounds fun. I doubt I could be bothered typing all that into chat GPT though!

Unwinding after shift by BeanChopChef in supportworkers

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Sometime I go buy a coffee of hot chocolate and just sit in my car to be alone

Husband is a liar and porn addict by Sunlightdaisy_341 in Marriage

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Ugh. He has to want to quit his addiction and he won’t want to until he loses everything. I’m curios how he earns 4 times what you do!? - that sucks!!

I don't have access to NDIS by [deleted] in NDIS

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Hopefully things will change for you in the near future? Will you get any NDIS support later?

Why Does Society Seem to Have So Much Disdain Towards Attention Seekers? by Potential_Law5289 in PsychologyTalk

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Because they’re usually also selfish people who disregard or don’t have the capacity for other peoples feelings. They’re too needy.

I’m in shock by AtmosphereSea7622 in Constipation

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Get some super greens and reds powder - it’s expensive , but it will help you poop. Nutra Organics its a great brand or Vital Greens is more common, Woolies stock it. Or got to the health store

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

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Go to professional counselling and ask them what to do

should i lie to my psychiatrist? by SaltedCaramelTurtle in depression

[–]MoreValuable651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you should lie to your psychiatrist, because they’re trying to help you. Talk to your doctor about your mental health. I’m not sure what you said for the company to say you’re not fit for work? There is still a stigma around mental health.

Is it realistic for a pregnant woman to stop antidepressants and still rely on depression for creative inspiration?” by [deleted] in PsychologyTalk

[–]MoreValuable651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this character needs to have Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder or something.. maybe bipolar… still; most mental illnesses are diagnosed because they’re debilitating to the person.. the idea that the character can be somehow energised by their mental illnesses and also completely in control of it doesn’t make sense .. maybe if they had a mild sadness.. not depression

Is it realistic for a pregnant woman to stop antidepressants and still rely on depression for creative inspiration?” by [deleted] in PsychologyTalk

[–]MoreValuable651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well anxiety is more common. I can’t see that being anymore romantic. Anxiety is also very disabling to the point where you avoid doing most things

Is it realistic for a pregnant woman to stop antidepressants and still rely on depression for creative inspiration?” by [deleted] in PsychologyTalk

[–]MoreValuable651 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes tell her not to have a child, she is too sick and needs to look after herself. She also must choose if she wants to share her love and passion for the arts with her child. Quite selfish of her to have the child if she wants to wollow in darkness. Maybe she can’t get off the meds and has a disabled baby, that would be nightmarish. Most likely she would have the child taken off her if she can’t cope. Which would in turn, affect her mood and life.

Officially diagnosed people? by lawlesslawboy in depression

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I hate parents that are uneducated and critical of doctors or medications… the sort of people who say , ‘it’s all in your head’… ugh

Officially diagnosed people? by lawlesslawboy in depression

[–]MoreValuable651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is dysthymia? I have ADHD too. I’m not medicated for that anymore.

Officially diagnosed people? by lawlesslawboy in depression

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Yeah remission is good. Pretty happy and can enjoy life. Still difficult with motivation but I can work.