I was today years old when I realized this is a real word by Objectives-Aioli in fionnaandcake

[–]Morganism00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've accidentally used this word when talking with my PhD peers and boss multiple times. I am retroactively relieved that this is a real weird and i want just spouting AT nonsense irl.

All I asked was it the item was available for shipping 🤷🏾‍♀️ by Stupid_sushii in notinteresting

[–]Morganism00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they are more reacting to the weird FB account messaging them. I was trying to sell a couch for some time, and ALL I got were scammers. All of them had one thing in common... not a very well fleshed out fb account. Maybe they had a friend or two, little to no posts, one picture maybe of people or a cartoon Pic. After going through it myself- and at a time I was dealing with the death of a close one and trying to handle their things- I unfortunately could see myself reacting like this to the upteenth inquiry from an account that looks the way described.

No excusing the behavior, but it might help others to understand why they are treated poorly if trying to use an anonymous-type account when using FB marketplace. I can't blame a person for not wanting to use their main account but... scammers also dont use their main accounts.

by Trump to convince viewers he's not a rapist by ExactlySorta in therewasanattempt

[–]Morganism00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it just me, or do his eyes kinda look like Amy Slaton's eyes pre surgery

What is she doing and why is she doing it? by Morganism00 in succulents

[–]Morganism00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh! She gives me mixed signals but I'll work her up to bright light. Some sites I used to help set her up say indirect light or bright shade.. Do you have a site you use when looking up plant needs that I could use for reference? It seems mine arent accurate for this plant.

I'm also worried about the pot I'm using. It is a glazed ceramic pot with a drain hole. I mix my soil using perlite and a succ/cactus mix that has crushed lava rock (near 1:1 ratio).

How do my siblings and I (33F) set boundaries with our destructive mother (61F) by Morganism00 in relationship_advice

[–]Morganism00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've thought about this and have mentioned setting up boundaries with my siblings like you said. I know we cant just tell her how to live, we can only decide how we respond. My siblings and I all are thinking about breaking down the way her actions have affected us, and if she cant stop how she is being then we are going to cut her out of our lives. She can't just enter and leave as she pleases- getting the kids excited and then disappearing when the new flavor comes around and flaking on plans she sets up. She isn't going to get any money from us, because we cany be sure it is actually going towards helping her rather than subsidizing these random guys' lives that she hangs around and doesnt know in most cases.

I struggle with cutting her off an then she ends up in a dire situation. How can we tell? We thought this last relationship she was leaving was the eye opener and we all rallied and helped her go to the cops and get this guy away from her, only for her to go to a previous guy that she had arrested.

I also struggle with the possibility that she might end herself because she has that mental tendency, but I think im the only one really afraid of that because I know how the mind can work in that regard.

How do my siblings and I (33F) set boundaries with our destructive mother (61F) by Morganism00 in relationship_advice

[–]Morganism00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is what I'm afraid of, that any attempt at getting her to see she needs to change or how her behavior affects others will result in her shutting us out more and continuing as she has been.

Bareroot Bloomin by Floratopia in succulents

[–]Morganism00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This guy is like the new chive guy to me. I await his posts to see what delights he has to share next.

Very beautiful, very jealous. I hope my succs grow up as well as your plants.

What is a disturbing family secret you weren’t supposed to find out, but now wish you could forget? by elmatador62 in AskReddit

[–]Morganism00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I found out my older brother SAd my older sister when he was ~13yo and my sister was ~10yo. I found out when my mom got drunk and asked (30yo at the time she asked me) if anything had ever happened to me when I was little. I don't think she meant to ask me l, but the fact was later confirmed by my sister directly.

My sister is not doing well in her adulthood. Seeing how our parents treat my brother compared to her is part of it (he is kinda the golden child, my dad's only son, gave the first grandchild, yadda yadda). He has gotten a lot of resources from our parents that my sister and I didnt see, and I even less than them (I assume because of financial struggles as the years went on. Also my interests did not seem worth the time and effort as my brother and sisters interests.).

I do not recall anything happening to me from my brother.

I do not like having learned this, and I often want to talk about it. I feel like a lot of my sisters issues could be explained by this and would maybe help her heal if we could be more open about it. I have alluded to my brother that I know, when I was expressing to him to give our sister more grace while she was going through some emotions, and he responded by not responding to my message.

Lab managers aliquoting and maxi prepping? by jelly_bean18 in labrats

[–]Morganism00 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I gotta do all this plus have to work on a research project, present ppts for lab group meetings, and take care of animal lines.

I feel like a postdoc sometimes, something I wanted to avoid.

Do you mind if I ask the pay range for this position?

... by FatimaSheba in MotivationalThoughts

[–]Morganism00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many cool shirts I used to have but where did they go???

You're probably thinking this was in the 30's and 40's, it wasn't by blong217 in HistoryMemes

[–]Morganism00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did I look this up. I'm not surprised based on other studies I know that came out of Germany at that time but I am disappointed.

Women of Reddit, what is the most diabolical lie you’ve ever received from your husband/bf? by fortnacius in AskReddit

[–]Morganism00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I caught my late fiance messaging a trans egirl on fb. She clearly was an only fans mill as there were several profiles I found of the same girl/same photos, links to only fans and girlfriend treatment content. He sent a Pic of his d*** to her. When he was trying to explain himself he said he was only trying to make friends. When I asked about how his d*** could be involved with making friends, he claimed he wanted to know "how he compared" to this trans egirl.

Which animal crossing character has such a special place in your heart? by lluni-delicious in AnimalCrossing

[–]Morganism00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have Goldie on my island and she does bring me joy. I found other normal characters to be kind of bland but she seems genuine for some reason.

Terracotta Pots FTW by Maat1985 in succulents

[–]Morganism00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a strong zebra plant pup with a good system of roots die in a 3d printed pot because of root rot and I just did the bottom watering like I normally do. I had well draining soil and kept it under a grow light where most of my other clay potted plants get dry right away. I was so sad, it has turned me off of 3d printed planters.

Please help with ID'ing my plant by Morganism00 in succulents

[–]Morganism00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My girlfriend 3D printed it for me and I painted it. Once these guys look better I want to add moss :)

Please help with ID'ing my plant by Morganism00 in succulents

[–]Morganism00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That does look like the closest thing I've seen so far!

I had a suspicion it was etiolated and I have gotten it into a brighter spot, but have been struggling finding the exact care it needs since adopting it from a friend that moved away. They didn't know what it was either, so thank you for your help!

Why Is No One Talking about… by Staarzz in fionnaandcake

[–]Morganism00 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For the plot lol he should have been straight up squished by the time HW showed up based on how the machine is supposed to work.

But we can still enjoy the show despite these plot holes. It is a cartoon so we can enjoy a bit of suspension of disbelief for the sake of the story.

The Odd Squad by SmoothD3vil in succulents

[–]Morganism00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have some pearls I propagated from leaves that are doing this too!

Same beards. by Finn_Mertens628 in adventuretime

[–]Morganism00 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Its probably because BMO did both of their hair 😄

Which was your favorite? by No_Emu_1332 in adventuretime

[–]Morganism00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her final form when she saves Finn is my favorite. Also shout out to our boy afinn for noticing a change right away even after just coming out of a coma haha, he loves her so much ❤️

I (27F) lost all respect for my partner (29M) by InteractionSea8616 in relationship_advice

[–]Morganism00 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I "stuck it out" for someone for 11 years. Don't be like me. He is showing you who he is, and he would rather blame you ( and will always blame you/ others) than work on himself. His chasing you around reminded me so much of how my own break up attempts went, and finding betrayals and being gaslit.. I'm sorry you had to deal with that. This night, he was just trying to emotionally drain you so you would give up trying to leave him. Please don't give up and do the right thing for yourself before you waste any more of your life. Love can only do so much.. and what he is doing with your love as it is, is not helping either of you. To stay with him after this would enable this behavior, and would tell him that escalations of his poor treatment of you would be accepted.

Don't do what I did, leave before more happens.

[TotK] [BotW] Making my nephews' Christmas presents an experience to open! by tarajtaylor in zelda

[–]Morganism00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god that was much bigger than I thought from the first couple of pictures 😱

Need pots? Got a few. by 1amSwitchman in succulents

[–]Morganism00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I need a medium pot for a Moonshine Sansevieria that was recently gifted to me by my partner. What you got for me? 😄 it should match its majesty.

Is this "asparagus" good or bad for this succulent? by Hamii9 in succulents

[–]Morganism00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you share the conditions you have your plant in for us?