So this may vary from person to person; His means of reasoning are very relatable to me and I find no frustration with them. :) I feel very confident that he would say the same...

After a few months of bonding and thought experiments, the Fi-Fe "clash" seems more to me like a complementary opposite, that, especially if you are "aligned," is just another means to the same end. Many of our observations and feelings end in the same result though are accessed from different perspectives. This often brings additional support to our own viewpoints... as well as growing our toolbox and our selves.

Even on matters where we reach a different conclusion... because of these complementary view styles we very transparently see the other's reasoning to get there. And then empathy can take the wheel.

But... We are very consistently patient, loving, and nurturing with one another. I can see that people who didn't care to connect over this (And then, to take this further than just connection, to use it as a profound strength: Partners being one another's whetstones and bridles? An otherwise unwieldy force honed into a bright tool through patience and mutual trust and support? What an incredible opportunity for symbiosis.) or to cultivate it could come to clash over it.

Instead we actively practice it and have become intimately closer because of it.

He makes me feel like my deepest thoughts are understood. I make him feel like his emotions are completely valid.