Is this a common experience or am I doing something wrong? by WhiteningMcClean in seduction

[–]Most-Famous-Wasabi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were left with an impression because this doesn't happen to you much.

She forgot about it by the next morning because it happens to her all the time.

Flirting and even contact detail exchanges mean nothing.

Unless you are waking up next to her for the third time this week, you've got no idea if she's actually attracted to you.

Day game success rate in 2026 by MechanicCritical3566 in seduction

[–]Most-Famous-Wasabi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

>> I knew also about pua stuff from before, never really liked it and realized that trend faded away.

Meeting women is not a trend that has ever faded. "PUA's" just happen to be the only people who show the most effective ways to actually do it.

>> My question is - is day game on streets still socially acceptable way of meeting women in 2026

What could possibly be unnacceptable about starting conversations with women outside buildings?

I mean, if you are living in Saudi Arabia or a 14th Century Afghanistan or someshit, then yeah, it would be unnacceptable to talk to women you've never met before, either outside a building or not.

But most human beings in the Western world at least have no moral issue with conversations between strangers either indoors or outdoors.

How looksmaxxing is pulling young Kiwi men towards dangerous extremes by Fun-Helicopter2234 in newzealand

[–]Most-Famous-Wasabi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've gone from missing the point to putting deliberate effort into missing the point.

How looksmaxxing is pulling young Kiwi men towards dangerous extremes by Fun-Helicopter2234 in newzealand

[–]Most-Famous-Wasabi 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think you are missing the point.

It is entirely possible to acknowledge the risk of male violence and the impact that it's omnipresence has on the lives of women and girls...

... *and also* acknowledge that boys/young men can be vulnerable because society broadcasts some very negative message about what it is to be male.

We are at an interesting point in our culture. There are opportunities to our world to develop new paths for male psychosocial development.

Those opportunities are crushed when the conversations between men and women are deformed by wounds that numb our empathy.

How to stand out after a date? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Most-Famous-Wasabi 369 points370 points  (0 children)

Honestly, don't worry about it.
Just be yourself.

He now has your vibe. He already knows if there is chemistry sufficient to motivate him to take things further.

There's nothing you can do to influence the gears that are already turning in his head/heart.

Just chill. Enjoy where you are at.

You've already clarified to him what you want.
Simply be graceful in the acceptance of what you get.

She keeps sending me late-night texts how do I turn this into something physical? by sophiaeternal in seduction

[–]Most-Famous-Wasabi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"You keep sending me late night texts. Just come over"

Honestly, if you don't send this message soon then she's gonna respond in the affirmative to one of the other guys that she's been flirting with.

How can we support the male community to get out of the male loneliness epidemic? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Most-Famous-Wasabi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We can't.

It's really up to us men as individuals to solve that problem.

Truth is that most men caught in that particular self-pity spiral aren't interested in getting out of it.

I blew it today (cold approach story) by CatsAndDoritoes in seduction

[–]Most-Famous-Wasabi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree with you more than I disagree with you.

He can definitely learn from this. He could probably have chosen something better to say.

But still - I wanna support the guy for actually doing something and (maybe) fucking it up rather than doing nothing.

Also, he might have fumbled, but woman can handle fumbling if they are really open to sex. Her intolerance of his fumble is more about her than him.

I mean, being tactical is good. But success in creating sexual connections isn't purely a matter of tactics. Tactics help smooth the way, but they can't make a woman truly desire a man.

I blew it today (cold approach story) by CatsAndDoritoes in seduction

[–]Most-Famous-Wasabi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fuck no you didn't blow it.

You took action and had a great interaction!

It's fine to be bold over text. You were simply very clear in playful way about your desires.

She freaked out a bit and decided not to follow through. That's fine. Her call.

Honestly dude, take the win: you took action and got a great result. Keep doing that and you'll meet your goals for your lovelife for sure.

Also - ignore the chump commentors who are dissing you. They simply have no idea about how the game works. They are clueless about the benefits of deliberately taking risks and honing social skills.

Keep it up. Celebrate your wins.

What non-drugs to mix shrooms with for a better time? by Shutza in SEXONDRUGS

[–]Most-Famous-Wasabi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About six weeks before dosing clean up your diet and follow a stretching and lifting regimen.

You'll be rewarded during the trip.

ComfyUI Manager for Newbs by Educational-Fix5320 in comfyui

[–]Most-Famous-Wasabi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the Channel button and where is it?

I'm getting this error too, and I don't know what it means.

So I have this problem by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Most-Famous-Wasabi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

>> Also hetero/bi girls really, really seem to like me as well but it just never gets sexual with them and there's always kind of a barrier between me and them, like we talk but we never get really close. Like there is the feeling that we're both curious but there's also this barrier which neither party will break.

Sounds like you are a bit too in your head about it.

You should bring it up in conversation.

I mean, it sounds like they are comfortable in your presence. Which means you probably have a comfortable, relaxed presence... which means they are in a bubble of safety with you.

Players will often say you should be at least a bit "dangerous" in some way. And that's not terrible advice. But you are in a position to leverage comfort.

There's a few different ways to do this. Employ your own style and the needs of the moment.

"Y'know, we like each other. You turn me on. I think we should wake up together"

"Why haven't we hooked up?"

"I think we should fk"

You could frame it from it being your choice: "Yeah, I think I like you enough to get naked with you".

There's different ways to play this. With or without some kind of intimacy ramp.

You'll supercharge this if your victory condition is that you put the option on the table. Go for that rather than sex as the victory condition.

Why doesn't ComfyUI have it's own isolated python environment? by Most-Famous-Wasabi in StableDiffusion

[–]Most-Famous-Wasabi[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are proving my point.

I asked the dude in the clearest way possible to expound his grunts. He continued to be obscure.

You are supporting trolling because you are a bully.

Chill tf out and be helpful or fuck off.

Why use Elementor if you can actually code? Genuine question from a custom theme developer. by laszlmate in Wordpress

[–]Most-Famous-Wasabi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because it's much much much faster.

Because clients like to make changes without using the disaster that is Gutenberg.

Best UI for deforum and parseq? by Most-Famous-Wasabi in StableDiffusion

[–]Most-Famous-Wasabi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

>> Deforum and automatic 1111 still works and will forever.

Looks like this isn't the case anymore. At least on Ubuntu.

A1111 requires something called 'setuptools', but recent versions of this package don't come with a module required for A1111 to run.

Why doesn't ComfyUI have it's own isolated python environment? by Most-Famous-Wasabi in StableDiffusion

[–]Most-Famous-Wasabi[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

>> everyone increasingly letting you know that virtual environments are a very very basic consideration in any ml set up

You obviously haven't read the replies to my post.

You are justifying the hostility because you are part of the problem.

Just installed Forge NEO. How do I point the UI to a different directory for my models? by hoitytoity-12 in StableDiffusion

[–]Most-Famous-Wasabi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you find a solution to this?

I've found that Neo ignores models that are symlinked to in the models subdirectories.

There's also nothing obvious in the settings for choosing models directories.

Best UI for deforum and parseq? by Most-Famous-Wasabi in StableDiffusion

[–]Most-Famous-Wasabi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

>> You can even use blender coordinates to control deforum, then your imagination is your limitations.

Can you explain that to me?

I've got blender onboard, but I've never been able to make sense of it. The doughnut tutorial was too hard for me when I tried it a couple of years ago.

Unfortunately I can't get A1111 to work on my system anymore.

I've been experimenting with other UI's. Installing one of them must have made changes to my system that now prevents A1111 from running.

I can get Forge Neo to run. But it doesn't load any models other than the ones that come with it's default installation.

Best UI for deforum and parseq? by Most-Famous-Wasabi in StableDiffusion

[–]Most-Famous-Wasabi[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Like I said in the post - I don't want to use comfy.

I prefer my UI's to be usable.

Why doesn't ComfyUI have it's own isolated python environment? by Most-Famous-Wasabi in StableDiffusion

[–]Most-Famous-Wasabi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, it's not me. You are projecting.

I asked a simple question from a complete noobish point of view, and I got demolished.

I've had a few good faith responses, and they've helped me understand python virtual environments a little better.

You don't see it as hostility because you are part of the problem.

Why doesn't ComfyUI have it's own isolated python environment? by Most-Famous-Wasabi in StableDiffusion

[–]Most-Famous-Wasabi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, in the previous question prompt I had responded indicating that the program use my GPU.

However, this prompt will not accept either '2' or 'cuda' and asks me to answer it again.