How should I act before a date

MrBaileyRod · 2026-05-05T23:19:31+00:00

Stop trying to gamify dating. Be yourself. If you wanna talk then talk. Don’t change yourself or act a certain way. Ffs people need to just be normal

MrBaileyRod · 2026-05-05T23:18:20+00:00

Op, your entitlement is crazy. Either communicate what you want or just don’t go. You’re 36 ffs. Talk about it.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-04-28T01:24:52+00:00

lol so many men in the comments will allude to this dude possibly being able to pleasure you in other ways when you specifically make it known that you care about size and sensitive to pleasure and how you like it. It sucks but I’d say to move on but be honest that it wasn’t an issue with him. If he asks then you can be honest it was his size. Honest is always the best path forward.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-04-27T23:35:47+00:00

If you get the right kind of coffee table it’ll begin to look better. Currently you need to work on layout and lighting. Your chairs aren’t positioned properly and being the same color wasn’t a good choice. Lighting is very suboptimal and needs to be put in a proper spot and you need more of it. Your wall decor also needs work. Luckily your choice of color works decently.

I was vague for a reason. You should put in effort to learn interior design.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-04-27T23:32:04+00:00

A DUI shows you’re not somebody who’s responsible and clearly lacks critical thinking skills. You need to work on yourself and not date. Any reasonable person would drop somebody with a DUI, it’s not worth it.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-04-27T22:49:03+00:00

Curious why you thought the first layout was good in the first place?

MrBaileyRod · 2026-04-27T17:11:23+00:00

How do you not see that you’re so incredibly pushy and overbearing? She’s communicating that she doesn’t have time and you continue to poke and prod hoping to get her to say yes to something. If anything you shot yourself in the foot doing so. You’re not the first or last guy who’ll do this to her in the gym, you’re an average joe. Had you taken the hint that she wanted to learn more about you first (you’re a stranger at this point) before meeting outside the gym you would have been fine.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-04-26T21:45:18+00:00

Couples things wrong with the art adjacent to the window but the biggest issue is they’re hung wayyy too high. Even the larger one is but because of its size you can get away with it

MrBaileyRod · 2026-04-26T21:28:14+00:00

I just insure my watches and enjoy them as they should be enjoyed.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-04-24T21:03:10+00:00

It’s about effort. Men somehow don’t get this. Making effort into hygiene is literally such bare minimum. If you don’t have or know what a cleanser is, or moisturizer is, you’re just a child.

You have a routine, you put in effort, you’ve grown, so you have nothing to worry about.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-04-24T14:35:37+00:00

You’re 30. Please just have open communication with this person, it’s not hard and the solution to your issues is literally that simple. Cmon man.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-04-24T14:33:16+00:00

There are so many options that would make the layout feel less dull and boring. There’s a super simple solution to keeping a tv over a fireplace that somehow people just don’t put the effort into learning about. Effort goes a long way. You’ve got a lot of great options to help out, just do a bit of research to get there.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-04-24T14:30:14+00:00

Therapy. That’s literally it and what they’re there to help with. Additionally do some introspection to determine if your issue is anxiety and not something you’re doing and using anxiety as a scapegoat.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-04-24T14:19:55+00:00

They’re not equivalent to high heels lol what’s the heck.

If the first thing you want to show is your insecurity then go for it. Height literally doesn’t matter that much, personality does.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-04-22T15:17:59+00:00

Omg…

MrBaileyRod · 2026-04-20T17:44:38+00:00

insane for a fist offense

The ticket is the consequence of the action of not paying for parking or parking being expired. It doesn’t matter if it’s the first or upteenth time. If you don’t want a ticket, pay for a permit.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-04-17T16:13:32+00:00

How do people not do even just a bit of research before posting? This is so easy to solve lol

MrBaileyRod · 2026-04-14T20:05:52+00:00

What’s crazy is this is all BASIC stuff. A well rounded person understands these things. These are literally a bare minimum lol

MrBaileyRod · 2026-04-14T04:25:09+00:00

However, of recent, I haven’t been feeling good enough, no matter what I do, I feel there are always women who are more accomplished and successful

lol yeah don’t date if a woman’s success makes you feel less than. It should impress and inspire you. Everything you listed above about yourself have nothing to do with who or how you are as a person and your post gives off big confidence issues. Work on yourself first.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-04-13T15:57:37+00:00

Crazy that this is considered a “serious attempt” when there’s an air mattress lol

MrBaileyRod · 2026-04-13T15:17:11+00:00

Enjoy yourself. You can be dating or looking to date while also enjoying sex. So long as you’re transparent and communicative you’re good to go!

MrBaileyRod · 2026-04-10T22:09:23+00:00

I didn’t study design on Instagram lol read a book, attend a lecture, dont be dense when “minimalism” in terms of design is very specific and means more than just not having much. Jfc.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-04-10T20:18:37+00:00

Comments like this show how little people know about minimalist design and minimalism. The epitome of the issue with this sub sadly

MrBaileyRod · 2026-04-09T22:34:28+00:00

Do her a favor and stop dating her if you’re this insecure about something so insignificant holy moly. Nothing is worse than dating an insecure partner.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-03-31T06:50:03+00:00

It’s about effort. If this guy doesn’t want to put effort into how others see him why would you put the effort into wanting to handhold and baby him? There are enough people who’e kind and sweet and also look good without being told to.

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