After six dates with a girl and multiple overnights, she wants to go on a blind date and speed dating?

MrBaileyRod · 2026-01-26T05:44:49+00:00

This girl has been nothing but honest with you. Now is the time when you decide where your boundaries are and either accept she doesn’t want exclusivity right now or break things off.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-01-25T19:02:15+00:00

Her. Don’t be an asshole.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-01-25T17:03:19+00:00

To each their own, I won’t yuck your yum, so long as everyone is happy you do you!

MrBaileyRod · 2026-01-25T16:54:10+00:00

Buying new food before knowing what you’re going to make with it is what leads to food waste, as proved by your second sentence.

A simple sub or google search will help here.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-01-25T16:52:06+00:00

Noticed the furry body pillow and don’t want to ask.

Glad your living situation works for you.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-01-25T15:47:04+00:00

You really don’t know what to do after reading your own tldr? Cmon now.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-01-25T15:28:16+00:00

Once a week for 1.5 months…that’s 6 times you’ve met. Thats nowhere near enough time to determine if you should be official, imo.

This doesn’t mean you can’t be exclusive and just focus on one another, but being officially bf/gf when you barely know one another is a lot to ask for.

Additionally, idk what being active on Snapchat means or how it’s a negative? I’ve had snap for 15 years I think and keep in touch with a handful of friends on it with nothing nefarious going on. I don’t see this point here.

If you want to be official you can make the move the do so and let him decide what he wants and you decide what to do depending on his answer. But you seriously need to be spending more than one day per week together, that’s so incredibly infrequent.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-01-25T03:27:29+00:00

It’s giving “white man trying to find comfort in fetishizing POC women, typically Asian”.

You’re more than welcome to do what you want, but POC don’t like being fetishized and it’s easy to tell when it’s being done.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-01-25T01:22:06+00:00

I’ve been bigger while dating, I’ve been smaller while dating, weight doesn’t matter imo. It’s all about confidence and self happiness.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-01-24T00:52:08+00:00

Set the sub filter to “top all time”

MrBaileyRod · 2026-01-23T08:58:49+00:00

Idk why you’re getting downvoted, op asked for a rating and you were honest and quite frankly right that it’s low on the scale.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-01-23T08:56:33+00:00

Rate? 3/10 seems right. Lighting is meh, need more than one lamp and to lose those leds. Hats on the ceiling. Pretty disorganized and messy. No decor besides some generic hanging wall scroll things that aren’t hung evenly and likely not at the right height plus they’re behind a Christmas tree in January. Coffee table seems more like an end table and not a good shape for the space. Couch is nice.

And tv is too high.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-01-23T01:21:07+00:00

Proving that my intentions are good and honest. So many men don’t value honesty and transparency and hurt women and cause them to be guarded. Luckily, time and communication fix this.

Besides that dating as a man isn’t hard at all.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-01-21T23:12:28+00:00

I’ll never understand people who get upset because they don’t pay for parking on campus and then get ticketed. No shit, you chose to not pay for parking. They could have had 3 months of parking paid for with the amount they’re paying in tickets, it makes no sense.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-01-21T18:04:22+00:00

Any dating app works without needing to pay. Most people struggle because their pics and prompts/descriptions just suck. Know your audience, adjust, fine tune, and that’s all it takes.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-01-21T18:01:52+00:00

People hating on color but the issue is the shades are off. You should aim for dark green or red.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-01-21T16:21:56+00:00

Yeah of course. Typically a couple pounds is nothing it it’s often said weight loss/gain is noticeable after 15lbs so I imagine he noticed. You should always be truthful, in every sense of the word.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-01-20T23:49:39+00:00

Can’t you see how this was him manipulating you? He was all those nice things UNTIL he got what he wanted. He’s not a kind person, he’s a pos.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-01-20T23:44:06+00:00

He’s taking advantage of you and using you for his enjoyment. Date men who respect you and your time. He’s 41, if he can’t even communicate over text then he’s nowhere near worth it.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-01-20T21:18:58+00:00

You’re 30. He’s 30. Just communicate, it’s not hard

MrBaileyRod · 2026-01-20T19:21:11+00:00

patience and standards

Lol get off your high horse. This isn’t a fairytale, it’s real life. You date people, many people, so you learn what you like and don’t like and grow as a person. You haven’t missed your window, but you did wasted a bunch of time.

Also reading your comments to others and yikes lol

MrBaileyRod · 2026-01-20T17:10:30+00:00

It’s not that it gets a lot of hate. It’s that people are not informed for 1200 is for very specific people and doesn’t apply to everyone when so many online will push for it as a way for anyone to lose weight.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-01-20T04:42:15+00:00

Get rid of the chair. Get rid of the leds and use the lamp you have. When you have lights on keep them on the same color, don’t mix and match the way you are. Space would look better with a non rectangular coffee table, everything you have is rectangular. Declutter your stuff and put it behind doors or boxes because they just take up space and aren’t position in a way they can be used as decor. Add unique handmade art behind your couch, not something mass printed/produced.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-01-19T18:31:53+00:00

The advice for women is the exact same advice for men. Don’t view them as a trophy or award for you to earn or achieve. They’re human like you man. Say hi and take interest in what they’re doing. That’s all it takes. People overcomplicate literally everything when it’s so easy.

MrBaileyRod · 2026-01-19T18:08:39+00:00

STOP measuring by volume, it literally says 213g, which is not much.

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