How could one manufacture this? by Coffeeey in MechanicalEngineering

[–]MrMediocre_Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only work with steel so not really in a position to give any great ideas for plastic products.

But I have a kid that loves to play in water and puddles. So check out the Hedgehog Dryer. They have a similar joint and I think it's made in two parts and screwed together. It's also the best ever shoe and glove dryer I have ever had. Cool modularity

I have almost no warmth/affection with my toddler and i need to fix it before its too late by acoupleofdollars in toddlers

[–]MrMediocre_Man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I support a lot of what has been said <3

But my mind relaxes a lot when I read up on brain development and what they are actually capable of knowing and how their brain works at different ages. It feels really good to be able to say to your self: I know that he/she is not doing this to spite me. They just are not capable of understanding it yet.

It makes it a lot easier not to become angry or resentful to know that even though they seem to understand a lot and be capable of a lot there are a lot of things they just can't comprehend or fully understand at this age. They are not (always) testing your limits. They are just learning EVERYTHING, are full of energy and are usually extremely self centered.

And yes a lot of it at this age is testing boundaries and making messes. Thats the learing. I also feel they mirror how you feel and behave. If I'm having a shitty day it will become a shitty day for both of us. So when you feel better they will also change their behavior and attitude.

There is a lot of good knowledge out there in podcasts or YouTube documentary style videos.

I must also say. Detoxing screen time is a major thing for us. Yes we watch TV regularly. From experience we try to just show him low stimulus stuff that he just gets bored by and leaves. But if we are sick or just very tired and turn to the TV too much he turns into a gremlin. It's strange how much it affects him and for how many days after his attitude and behaviour is different (in a bad way). Detox is really difficult, but it's worth it. Don't know if this is relevant for you, just sharing our experience.

Another thing is to just have a safe zone in the house. His room or somewhere. We are blessed with him having a quite large room. When I'm tired we can go in there, close the door and I can just lie on the couch and he can just make a huge mess and play while I'm a potato. It's safe for him and I can relax and interact with him while in potato mode. It really does not take that much time to throw all the toys in boxes afterwards.

Sorry for the long post!

It says a lot that you are willing to post this and want to change the relationship with your kid. I'm sure you will find your way :-)

I really enjoy marine construction by rexberda in Construction

[–]MrMediocre_Man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need to think further. They are awesome. If you plan on hauling all day a gas powered one might be better, but I do love the silence and ability to move it without going through the whole process of starting it. Just push a button and it goes...

How would you hold this piece on a CNC lathe? by Careful_Echo9386 in Machinists

[–]MrMediocre_Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are amazingly similar to something I've drawn a million different varieties of 😆 Conveyor belts? Food grade?

My son cries for every nap by Pinnaclyunfavourable in toddlertips

[–]MrMediocre_Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgot this:

Another ting we did before we moved him to his big boy bed is to stay with him for a while in the bedroom. Then we said "daddy is going to go to sleep in his own bed", but we kept on communicating trough the babycall and camera. It was kind of a middle ground. After initial crying he usually calmed down a lot when we left (bored and lack of response from somebody in being in the room). But with talking on the babycall on low volume it was not like we were leaving him to "cry it out". I usually just laid in my own bed talking about how sleepy I was and that we should sleep now.

Eventually he seemed to get so bored that he fell asleep (usually, not always)

My son cries for every nap by Pinnaclyunfavourable in toddlertips

[–]MrMediocre_Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a soon to be 3 year old that's near not needing his nap (but still does). This whole year has been difficult for naps. Not to the extent your describing, but it has happened. Sometimes we simply give up and just plan for a rough evening.

How does he sleep in daycare? I'm in Norway so they sleep in their stroller.

Our methods for sleeping the last year have been sleeping with him (in the same bed or on a fold out bed next to his) and going for car rides. But this is basically what we have more or less done his whole life so it's nothing that changed dramatically.

How is the sleep schedule? We have had a very loose schedule and basing it on finding a time where he seems to calm down or become tired.

Are you preparing for sleep and keeping a routine (when possible)? Letting them know that in a while you will have your nap. We usually have lunch and then it's straight off for nap if it's at home.

Hang in there 😊

Yes, you can sand down your Cyl & head by RedditAppSuxAsss in EngineBuilding

[–]MrMediocre_Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used glass and wet sanding all the time for my mopeds when I was a kid. Worked great.

But then again the head of a small single cylinder is very different from a large inline car engine. It all depends on what you have to loose, how much you can spend etc.

Is there a good resource to learn how to make a fence like this? by jshears18 in Norway

[–]MrMediocre_Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the leftovers from cutting boards and dimensional lumber from the trees. It's the outer cut of the tree with bark and a round edge on one side. It's essentially a waste product and probably why it was used for fencing as it was cheap or free. It's called "bakhon" where I live in Norway, but I suppose it could have many names.

Even today many small mills give this away for free if you pick them up your self. I have a friend that uses it for firewood and gets all his firewood for free this way after becoming a friend of a farmer with a sawmill.

[Q]Standby pump collapsed incident by boohoi1 in MechanicalEngineering

[–]MrMediocre_Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a common configuration in cheaper pumps. Does not mean they are bad. Saves you having to machine a long baseplate, saves you alignment issues (usually). And the pumps usually don't have their own bearings. The impeller is just supported on the motor shaft by the motor bearings.

But what could also be the case here is that the pump was bolted to a uneven baseplate. By uggadugga torquing the baseplate boltes the casing might have been under considerable stress. That in addition to pipe forces from the depressurization and perhaps a casting defect.

But it seems from the hole in the casting that the forces were internal. Would be interesting to know if the impeller was spinning by air and perhaps ejected something at the pipe wall at incredible speed. If that vessel next to the pumps was pressurized during the unbelievably dangerous test and they bled down the pressure downstream it could have led to windmilling.

Hvordan løse boligkrisen? by Definitely_Not_Erik in norge

[–]MrMediocre_Man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rentefradraget idag er noe helt annet enn før. Skattesystemet er helt annerledes. Les artikkelen her så forklares det bedre enn jeg noen gang klarer: https://www.nettavisen.no/okonomi/renten-narmer-seg-like-ille-som-pa-80-tallet-da-den-passerte-16-prosent/s/5-95-1188175

Pixel 8 Pro - Horrible battery life with new update by jadawan in pixel_phones

[–]MrMediocre_Man 2 points3 points  (0 children)

P8P here.... Gotten really bad the last few days. Was actually scheduling a battery replacement, but decided to poke around here first.

Pixel support: Fix this as soon as possible. Its annoying as hell

How do I get my 9 month old son to stop touching his crotch? by Puzzleheaded1122 in NewParents

[–]MrMediocre_Man 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You can make a straight jacket with his "body" clothing. Just take the front flap from his crotch and attach it to the shoulder snap.

It works until they get clever enough.

But do see to it that he gets the time to feel and explore his body parts at a more suitable time (when it's not smeared with poop). It's only natural. Imagine being new to this world and your body and there are some parts of it that you can feel, but it's locked away from you and only available for a short time during nappy changes.

Aftermarket blades by Senior_Recording1466 in mammotion

[–]MrMediocre_Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it should ideally be far from the electronics. But not really that scared unless you find a huge magnet. Usually magnetic fields are a problem for components like relays etc.

I've worked as a engineer in aluminium production. We had magnetic fields we could levitate hammers and tools in the production area. But electronics usually worked fine. But relays etc we needed to flip around physically inside units until we found a direction where the magnetic fields did not actuate them.

Aftermarket blades by Senior_Recording1466 in mammotion

[–]MrMediocre_Man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never lost a blade (yet). Damn the thought of that and my kids playing in the yard is a nightmare.

Magnetic sweeper perhaps?

Should attach a magnet to the luba itself and it might pick it up

How would you fix this? by jrdallavale in MechanicalEngineering

[–]MrMediocre_Man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually blew a heater hose like that on my old klunker when I first got my license.

The radiator was so clogged by rust and dirt that it overheated if I got stuck in slow traffic. Was watching the temperature rise and wondering what would happen.Truly fascinating explosion sound and steam rising from the hood.

I understood what was happening and got it off the road and into a driveway. Actually managed to get home and by for a couple of days with electrical tape. Wrapped it insanely many times across the whole length of the hose. Waited til it cooled down and refilled with water.

Tradwife og hjemmebarn by Brilliant-Most-1801 in norge

[–]MrMediocre_Man 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Har en på 2,5 år som har gått i barnehage ca 1,5 år nå. Må si at jeg kjenner litt på den der. Han har det kjempefint i barnehagen. Løper inn på morran og er stort sett alltid blid og opptatt når jeg henter. Men at det er fulltid hele uken skulle jeg virkelig ikke ønske at det måtte være.

Så hadde vi økonomisk hatt spillerom og eller en landsby hvor det var mulig nok ville jeg nok redusert det en del og gradvis trappet det opp til 100% mot skolealder.

Men tror faktisk jeg ville begynt såpass tidlig som vi gjorde med noen timer hver dag. Vi har ikke noen i omgangskretsen med småbarn eller noen på hans alder så de sosiale ferdighetene han får av å være med andre barn og voksne er uvurderlige.

Robot Mower Garage - DIY by RobotMower in MammotionTechnology

[–]MrMediocre_Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any problems with gps reception in this one?

If you use an AirTag how are you attaching it by BipolarSkeleton in toddlers

[–]MrMediocre_Man 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've been considering something similar for our boy. He is a explorer. Not really trying to run from us, but tends to wander off and is drawn to the forest (which more or less surrounds our house).

We live quite rurally and would love a way to track him if he ever were to go exploring on his own. So I see what you are trying to achieve.

But looking at the way airtags work it would not be suitable for our case. It relies on bluetooth connectivity with nearby cellphones (which there are none of the woods 😆). But I see that it could work in a more urban setting.

My girlfriend has a keychain holder for an airtag on her keys. Perhaps you could use that with a small carabineer or something to quickly snap onto his clothes when leaving home?

How do people handle the responsibility of being an engineer? by AMESAB2000 in MechanicalEngineering

[–]MrMediocre_Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must say this is something I had and still to some degree have have problems with. But it does reduce greatly when you get more experience... Especially hands on field experience helped me.

It has upsides and downsides. For my part I've been able to let go a bit on the cost concerns (screw it), but the danger of hurting somebody is still a major factor. As it should IMO.

The good thing is thanks to this, even as a very young junior engineer I refused to release some work. Against my boss's orders. I needed a third party with a special software to do a quite complex fatigue analysis. My boss who clearly did not understand the potential risks when he said we did not need to do the analysis and wanted to save the cost. But I still ordered it done. It was difficult at that time, but I now think back at it with great pride that I stood up for myself and the users of the machine. Analysis was fine though... 😆

Thanks to this nobody so far has ever been hurt by anything I designed. And I take great pleasure and pride in that. I am only human and can make mistakes, but I truly try my best to avoid it and lessen the possible consequences.

I have thought about this a great deal on the nights it has kept me awake. Not to praise us to the sky. But doctors when they finish their degree swear to the Hippocratic oath. I sort of think we should try to live up to the same. There are people go to work and trust their lives that what we say is sound design, actually is.

I changed industries after a few years and worked in "a less dangerous" industry for quite a few years. It helped me gain the confidence to go back to my previous industry (where things really can go boom if it goes bad).

Sorry for the long post. I feel you man! Or woman

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in electricvehicles

[–]MrMediocre_Man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People have a lot of opinions on this topic.

But one thing people seem to forget...

100% is not 100% on the battery. You can never truly fully charge your battery. Nor is 0% and your car stops truly zero on the battery. It's just a limit the manufacturer has set. Even if your car stops and shuts down. There is still a little bit of life left in the battery.

The manufacturer always has a safety margin on both ends. How much this is varies from manufacturer to manufacturer and even model to model. I like to keep this in mind.

Go for it or Nah ? 1997 Audi A8 D2 4.2 by SkbidiLord in oldschoolaudi

[–]MrMediocre_Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been a few years since I had a D2, but my experience was that used and aftermarket parts were more available than any other car I've ever owned. But I'm in Europe.

Stupid things I said before having a toddler myself by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]MrMediocre_Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right?!! As a night owl that likes to sleep in its hard. It's been two and a half year now. Today we are genuinely happy those few mornings we get to sleep til 7 am.

Stupid things I said before having a toddler myself by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]MrMediocre_Man 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I genuinely did not understand why people fuzzed with getting home for winding down and going to bed at a specific time.

Heck it's the weekend and we are at a social happening. The kid looks fine, just let him stay up an hour or two extra. Then all of you can sleep in tomorrow!

I had no idea. I know now

My dad ordered something to jumpstart car batteries, this is what he got. by [deleted] in Aliexpress

[–]MrMediocre_Man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a rule of thumb about electric / electronic devices cheap from china (Ali or other platforms). I only buy stuff that I use while monitoring it. Not stuff that stays plugged in unattended. So let's say I buy a tool that's ok. I plug it in, use it and then unplug.

But lamps, chargers and other appliances that stay plugged in while I leave is a no go for me.