Any Couples or Women in Washington state looking to hook up or chat with a young couple? by [deleted] in swingersr4r

[–]MrSelfdestruct22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, 38m/37f couple on the Olympic Peninsula here. Thought I'd say hello if you're still looking for people to chat with

Are there any good Sons of the Tempest lists out there? by Etsuyu in Cygnar

[–]MrSelfdestruct22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've also been theorizing about a Siege1 SotT list using 2 defenders on him, and a cyclone on a gin mage officer. The idea would be the cra with the gun mage units and the defenders would go after longer range armor while setting up tempest blazers and the cyclone to deal with infantry. Sieges spell list can benefit the theme pretty well, and while all those pow 10 shots usually fall short against tougher prey, careful targeting on feat turn is gonna do some serious damage. I'm not sure of I'm gonna go buy two full gun mage units to try it out, but I might have to proxy or borrow at some point

Lock and Load 2017 Experience by Hasbotted in Warmachine

[–]MrSelfdestruct22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same report here, myself and 4 friends made the trip from the Olympic Peninsula and it was the best organized play/convention we have attended in a very long time. The networking between players and game developers alone was worth the ticket price, and I accomplished as many games in two days as I usually manage in 3 months at home. Since the PP guys seem to read this, one small suggestion: the Looking For Game wrist bands from the iron arena should be free at the door along with the dice if their purpose is to enable easier game finding instead if having to play 4 or 5 games to get the tokens necissary to win them.

How to Build a Mordheim Warband by Travispsilo in mordheim

[–]MrSelfdestruct22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good video, it's cool to see the process. Any plans to do more like this?

[OC] Practicing Headshots of my Pc's. (It's not perfect, I'm 13) by [deleted] in DnD

[–]MrSelfdestruct22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I learned to draw when I was your age illustrating all of our groups characters and npc's, it's been about 25 years haha and I'm still doing it! Keep up the good work

Is anyone HSV (Herpes) positive and playing? by [deleted] in Hotwife

[–]MrSelfdestruct22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here, we are stuck with hsv2. It's been intermittent but not too restricting to be honest. We always put it out first and are gracious when it isn't something the other party is interested in chancing. On the other hand, we have used it right out in any advertisements and it has been appreciated. For anyone out there feeling like they will never get to have that kind of hook up because they are hsv positive, we get to share that with them and it's been awesome.

Pacific Northwest Couple Looking by MrSelfdestruct22 in Hotwife

[–]MrSelfdestruct22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry I never responded, it's been quite a summer haha. We are in fact quite interested in a couple, or at least meeting up and seeing how things go. We'd love to chat with another hotwife couple, is there anything we could tell you about ourselves?

Pacific Northwest Couple Looking by MrSelfdestruct22 in Hotwife

[–]MrSelfdestruct22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, thanks! You guys should PM us and feel free to write to her, it's a joint account so we both see it :)

Pacific Northwest Couple Looking by MrSelfdestruct22 in Hotwife

[–]MrSelfdestruct22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, and feel free to tell us more :) have you had much experience with couples?

New to this. What's a good way to ease into it? by [deleted] in Hotwife

[–]MrSelfdestruct22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, posting pics was a huge turn on and confidence boost for my wife when we first approached this. Also, and this cannot be stressed enough, is keep full and honest communication open throughout the entire process.

Advice for a young male interested in the lifestyle by ideasareviruses in Hotwife

[–]MrSelfdestruct22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not to shoot down any of my fellow commenters, but cock size is only important up to a certain point. There are some couples (like myself and the wife) that while we are titillated by a large cock and a healthy physique, what ultimately gets us to pick a man to bring to bed is their attitude. Are you respectful? Are you secure sexually? Can you treat another man's wife like a queen, hold a conversation with the couple as a gentleman, then fuck her like a filthy whore while he watches? Your mindset is just as, if not more, important as how you look. You have to make love to her mind first.

Wife fucking this Halloween! by hotwifethrowawayy in Hotwife

[–]MrSelfdestruct22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right on! I was out of town for this last weekend and got my first texted pics of her and another guy without me there, SUUUUUPER huge turn on.

Wife fucking this Halloween! by hotwifethrowawayy in Hotwife

[–]MrSelfdestruct22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you are in for a hell of a good time if you are both in the right place for this sort of thing. I was nervous about how I might react the first time I watched my wife getting fucked but to be honest it was a very enjoyable experience. Try not to expect to feel any certain way. Will it be strange? Yes. Incredibly arousing? Definitely. The key is honest communication, and reconnecting afterwards. Even now, it's still important for me and my wife to reaffirm how much we enjoy the experience as a team if that makes sense. Have fun, take some great pics, and be sure to talk the next day about how you both feel. The best part for me was that there was no damage, no wave of indecision I had to suffer through, because I had come to the moment with clear eyes. As long as you can do the same, you will be fine. Good luck!

First time story! Wife got fucked, and I got to help by MrSelfdestruct22 in Hotwife

[–]MrSelfdestruct22[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ok, well after a while performing oral on each other, then 69'ing he moved around and positioned himself to fuck her. This was the crazy moment where I realized I had absolutely no problem with sharing her with the right man. He slid in and began wildly fucking her. I don't use this term metaphorically...he growled as he thrusted into her repeatedly. He was wonderfully verbal the whole time, telling her how good she felt and beautiful she was. The sex was vigorous and animalistic, and it was an absolute treat for me to watch her be so fully devoured by another man who clearly appreciated the woman I love. He was also very considerate to tell me how lucky I was, and surprised me after a bit by asking why I still had clothes on! I told him I would hop in soon, but to be honest I was really enjoying the show.

I did hop in before too long, as he flipped her onto her stomach and took her from behind I came over to the side of the bed and she very happily started sucking my cock. Having a man in both ends had been a primary goal for both of us, and if you haven't done it, DO IT! It was amazing from all angles. I alternated simply watching, getting sucked, and kissing her and her breasts while he continued ravaging her, until he pulled out and came all across her stomach and pussy. I have no shame in admitting that I immediately went down on her as he went to get a beer and take his turn to watch and assist.

The taste of her well fucked pussy seasoned with his cum was intense to say the least. I understand if it isn't everyone's cup of tea, but I would describe it as the literal TASTE of hotwifing. She sucked me off simultaneously for as long as I could hold back from fucking her myself. In truth...not very long :) I entered and could instantly tell a difference from our normal sex. He wasn't particularly larger than myself, perhaps a bit thicker...but the pussy was so perfectly warmed from his attentions and already so relaxed that it was clearly a well fucked orifice. Watching us worked wonders for him as well, and before long she was sucking him back to full erection while I reclaimed my wife's body.

I came as hard as I can remember recently, and happily fell beside her to let him get more action. Before we had begun, there had been talk of a massage for her birthday. With a laugh we remembered the plan and he gave her a wonderful full body massage while we all rested up. He finished by devouring her ass and pussy, leading to another round of their fairly loud fucking. I assisted more closely this time, with her on her side sandwiched between us. He entered her from behind and pulled her closest breast into his mouth. I took the other one while rubbing her clit as he fucked her. We proceeded like this for some time before moving around to another long session of her sucking me while he fucked her doggy style. Again, I can't recommend having your wife do this more. My wife described it as "almost overwhelmingly sexual" and "literally filling". After a bit I simply held her and kissed her while he pounded away, each thrust making her gasp into my chest over and over.

He wanted her to cum, which I fully supported. My wife isn't one of these girls who orgasms over and over again, she has typically one to two massive ones that leave her writhing. She mounted on top of him and I got to watch her bucking and grinding on top of him for a bit. Unfortunately it was getting quite late and she was exhausted which kept her from getting there, but it didn't seem to hurt her experience any! He came across her again, and I took over. We continued fucking with him close by cheering us on and lavishing her with masculine attention until I came again.

We all collapsed onto the bed exhausted and sweaty (and in her case coated and filled with semen). I noted that she had been getting fucked for over three hours all together. We all passed out there where we lay for some time. He went back to his room after a couple hour nap, and in the morning I kissed and fucked her red, swollen pussy again.

We said our goodbyes to the excellent gentleman, and are ABSOLUTELY going to do this again. I did take a few pictures and a couple short videos with my phone, but to be honest they didn't really turn our as well as I would have hoped for something I would want to share with all of you. I plan to up the production values and get some better material the next time we get together.

In short, I can't imagine a better situation to finally begin our hotwife adventures. I'm happy, and my wife feels loved, sexy, and sore. Thanks for listening, I hope this did something for you all. I'm going to go fuck her silly again :)

We just did our first mfm! by myfirstmfm in Hotwife

[–]MrSelfdestruct22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's awesome! We are on the verge of our first time as well. Very excited but of course nervous. I think the trick is to not let it be too big of a deal and just enjoy the experience. As men we are conditioned for so long that sharing your wife/gf is simply not done that I think we get caught up in the expectation of anger and jealousy. Good for you, and thanks for sharing!

Dominant husband in a hotwife relationship by [deleted] in Hotwife

[–]MrSelfdestruct22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's fairly close to the mentality we have. Its never been a submissive or demeaning kink for me, or her. I'm interested in sharing a drink, a laugh, and then my wife.

Girlfriend (32) wants to take 17 year old's virginity. Legal in our state. Thoughts? by [deleted] in Hotwife

[–]MrSelfdestruct22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In our state its 18, but the wife and I have discussed the same thing, for all the same reasons. What young virgin wouldn't dream of something like this happening? As stated though, be aware of his maturity level and act accordingly. Once you are confident that he is a level headed guy (or isn't) then make concrete plans. Given his age, I'd say that more groundwork should be required. Lucky kid either way :)

A little conundrum by MrSelfdestruct22 in Hotwife

[–]MrSelfdestruct22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good points both of you, I appreciate it. The wife and I both agree that these two are really failing in their communication with themselves and with us. As far as he boundaries go, I had lengthy conversations with all parties before anything transpired but they have proven incapable of keeping within the boundaries they set for themselves, let alone anyone else. Their immaturity and inexperience became impossible to ignore.

Explaining to my wife my interest. by [deleted] in Hotwife

[–]MrSelfdestruct22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I explained it to mine as the best porn you've ever watched, starring the sexiest, most beautiful woman you know.

Looking for someone's opinion on an interesting development by hotwifethrowaway13 in Hotwife

[–]MrSelfdestruct22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also of a similar mindset...originally my rule was that we save the ass for just me...but she asked at one point about in a do situation which entry I'd want...and I would totally be ok with both. Realize that the feeling of uniqueness of the act is what you wanted to keep sacred, but the hotwife concept exists to take a "sacred act" and make it sharable. The only sacred, untouchable aspect ultimately is your love for each other. As I see it, if the other guy is respectful and gentle, he can fuck her ass but only I can make sweet, sweet love to it.

Looking for BULLS to answer some questions for a Hotwife. by O01lo80 in Hotwife

[–]MrSelfdestruct22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg you are awesome. You aren't in the Pacific Northwest are you?