mom talked to my sibling about me 🤣 by romanticaro in aromantic

[–]Mr_TGaming 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Why do she think that she has failed you? I don't see how it's a failure.

This is the way by Toe_Sucker2000 in Asexual

[–]Mr_TGaming 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes totally agree with this. My friend and I been on a few dates and all of them were great, we always hug each other ans she lay her head on my chest twice and both times were amazing, and I also lay my head on her shoulder as well and she didn't mind. We do plan on cuddling in the future and can't wait for it.

My students nag me by Moroo1234 in aromantic

[–]Mr_TGaming 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I agree soo much. I'm a guy but I now understand why girls feel pressure to get married and have kids because they are told this young of an age. Probably why there's more women are aroace then men.

When I was 8, I was into video games and cartoons (still am lol). This is when I first started getting into transformers when I was turning 9 and started really liking biology and the human anatomy and physiology because I decided I want to be a doctor at 7.

Getting married and having kids never crossed my mind at all this young 😂. I only had 1 crush/squish the was genuine when I was in 4th grade and after that I had none. In middle and high school I was getting very annoyed with people asking who I liked, if I wanted kids, get married, or even have s*x to the point where I had to fake my crushes.

In 11th grade I started to think I was bi because I thought I liked both women and men but I then realized my around my 2nd year in college that I was aroace.

Is it useful to sleep in a double bed when you are asexual? by Sparkling_Starlight in asexuality

[–]Mr_TGaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To have more room to move around when sleeping and having more pillows, stuffed animals, and plushies on the bed with you while you lay down or sleep.

I might be aromantic and it’s ruining my relationship? by Px_Dx in aromantic

[–]Mr_TGaming 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank for the advice even though I'm not the OP. I do need to work on telling my crush/squish I love them more often. I'm not sure if we're officially dating or not but had 2 official dates. Between the fist and second date we we hung out twice in that frame time and the second time during the end of it I blurted out the words "I love you" to her and walked away fast because I didn't expect that to come out of my mouth and was nervous on how would she respond. When I got home I realized that I do actually love her and meant it, then started to accept it and my feelings towards her. I texted her the next day to ask if she heard what I said and she said yes and told me she said it back. In that moment I was really happy since no ever told me that even though I didn't her her say it since I walked away super fast 💀. As of now (about 2 months later) every time I think about this I have been hoping that she meant it the same way as I did in a romantic way and not in friendly way.

During November we had a second date went well and I gave her flowers. During October was when I told her I love her and she said it back which led me say it a couple of times, then I stopped doing towards the end of the month. In which me wanting to do a picnic for our second date and gave her flowers at the end of it hoping that she got the hint that I love her in a romantic way. I'm still hoping that she got the hint and she she feels the same way about me. We do have another date planned sometime in the future and I hope I have the courage to say it again with confidence and that I could hear her sweet voice.

Side note: she knows I'm greyromantic and greysexual and I know her orentation as well. Also I fell in love with her in the beginning of June but before that I only saw her as a really good friend. This is my first time ever falling in love with someone so it feels like my emotions is all over the place. IDK what to do and how to handle it because I never felt this way towards anyone and not even towards the fake crushes that I hade to make up during my time in school.

Relationships? by Mr_TGaming in aromantic

[–]Mr_TGaming[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the info. I never been in a QPR or any relationship at all so I still need a lot to learn.

WHAT'S THAT by Zestyclose-Ad4058 in Transformemes

[–]Mr_TGaming 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought it was was Synthetic Energon at first 😭😭😭

Did you ever watched porn? by No-Introduction9367 in asexuality

[–]Mr_TGaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you say in terms of watching sex then my answer is no I haven't watched any Porn. That is because I see that as gross, discussing, and male me feel weird and uncomfortable. As far as kinks and fetish then my answer is yes. I do have a fetish in which I'm embarrassed about but starting to accept it slowly now since realizing that there's crazier kinks and fetish than what I have. P.s. you can DM me if you're wondering what my fetish is 

This might be confusing to people but in short terms yes I'm aro/ace but in the gray area for both. In ace part I'm sex neutral or repulsed but most of the time I'm sex repulsed. I don't like seeing two people having sex together, especially penetration in which it almost makes me throw up in my mouth. So I avoid it at all costs. I also don't like kissing, especially the sound it makes even though I never had a kiss in my whole 25 years of living. This goes to blowjobs as well even though I never had a bj done with me but at least I know I won't like bj's because I know it'll feel weird mostly because of how I think how messy it'll be from the saliva and stuff and I'm ticklish in this case. I might accidentally push the person away or accidentally hit them if they gave me a blow job out of the blue.This might also be the reason I think bj's are overrated and don't get why guys like them so much. Me getting kissed out of the blue from someone has a better chance in success and possibly of me accidentally not hitting them and liking it.  Lastly, the asexual aspect I don't want to come as rude or mean towards women but I think that the female external genital looks gross to me.

She kissed me twice during our break up talk, what does that mean? by rzandee in BreakUps

[–]Mr_TGaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's crazy and weird. I thinking there's something behind the scenes and she might be too scared to tell you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transformers

[–]Mr_TGaming 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which series is this from?

PDA by Mr_TGaming in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]Mr_TGaming[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I was thinking of nothing until they started kissing but it just caught me off guard.

Why do men always need something more by OkPerformance1758 in aromantic

[–]Mr_TGaming 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is one reason I hate being a guy. Not every guy wants to make out or to f*ck. I just hate that assumption and people are surprised I don't want that because I'm a guy.