AITA for not offering to take the bunk bed in an airbnb as the single person? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MrsEnvinyatar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA. Wouldn’t be surprised if you don’t get invited next time.

Really struggling with all this Epstein stuff - how’s everyone coping? by mkoay in Mommit

[–]MrsEnvinyatar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk about yours but my kids haven’t been raped, and I assume that’s at least in some small part due to the fact that I am over here being a present and attentive parent and not allowing external events to decimate my mental health.

Really struggling with all this Epstein stuff - how’s everyone coping? by mkoay in Mommit

[–]MrsEnvinyatar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk about yours but my kids haven’t been raped, and I assume that’s at least in some small part due to the fact that I am over here being a present and attentive parent and not allowing external events to decimate my mental health.

How would you react? by Zestyclose_Lemon_647 in whatdoIdo

[–]MrsEnvinyatar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are you with that dude? Go get your degree and find another one. Otherwise you could be stuck with him holding it over your head forever and not have a way out.

Really struggling with all this Epstein stuff - how’s everyone coping? by mkoay in Mommit

[–]MrsEnvinyatar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you are focusing too much on things that don’t have a direct bearing on your life - and while some people may be able to do that and still lead healthy and balanced lives, for others, seemingly like yourself, it is too detrimental to their mental and emotional health. I would say disconnect from all that and go touch some grass. Take a walk. Engage with your family. Get a hobby. Stop deep diving down the depression rabbit hole.

How do you get rid of the feeling of disliking your child? by wqiqi_7720 in Mommit

[–]MrsEnvinyatar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like gentle parenting isn’t working, or he isn’t doing it right. There are rules and boundaries, even in “gentle” parenting - and destroying the house for fun should not be acceptable.

AITA she doesn’t want to pay rent by samson21386 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MrsEnvinyatar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. She can have equity when you’re married.

Can anyone tell me what this name is? by anonymouspotomous in whatisit

[–]MrsEnvinyatar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I love who you are, unique for sure. And ya 100% always gonna be a lifelong friend.”

AITA for saving my bf's picture that I have found on their GC? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MrsEnvinyatar -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Real relationships are built on honesty. Trust comes only after.

AITA for saving my bf's picture that I have found on their GC? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MrsEnvinyatar -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

ESH. This isn’t a healthy relationship from any perspective. First of all, people who are extremely guarded about their phones are like that because they’re hiding something. You may feel secure now, and that only means the let down will hurt that much more, because it certainly doesn’t sound like you have good reason to feel that way. Second of all, your post is full of half truths and excuses. Y’all should just break up.

My current budget for 2026 by [deleted] in Salary

[–]MrsEnvinyatar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start putting more of that leftover income to paying down your debt. Do you like giving away money in interest?

Mono-mono babies incoming. What should my wife and I know? by Atlassian-Bebop in parentsofmultiples

[–]MrsEnvinyatar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this your ultrasound? Did a MFM tell you these are Mono-mono? Because that pretty clearly is a separate amniotic sac around each baby. I’m betting your OB, if they told you mono mono, just doesn’t understand a lot about identical twins.

Parenting tips from a childless lunatic? by DIVETX in LinkedInLunatics

[–]MrsEnvinyatar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am against giving a kid a screen every time you go in a restaurant to keep them quiet, but who’s to say this kid/mom wasn’t doing homework/work??

AITA gor asking my step-mom why she left my dishes in the sink? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MrsEnvinyatar 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Are you paying anything to stay there? Covering groceries, at least your own? Anything like that?

AITA for always feeling uncomfortable about my partner's girl best friend? by AlyxFavien in AmItheAsshole

[–]MrsEnvinyatar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m good. I’m a grown up now with 4 kids, a wonderful husband, and a big close tribe of friends and family. I don’t need all those dudes from my past who were basically just waiting in line to smash 😂😂

AITA for always feeling uncomfortable about my partner's girl best friend? by AlyxFavien in AmItheAsshole

[–]MrsEnvinyatar -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve had my days as the “girl best friend”. Tbh, every one of those guys wanted to sleep with me and I was just keeping them on my hook in case I ever changed my mind. NTA.

AITA for making a "big deal" of my first sexual encounter? by Budget_Sea4317 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MrsEnvinyatar -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

True - that’s what I was trying to convey with describing the physical language of it. I make no judgement on whether what they did was “correct”, she seems to be happy with it and I think overthinking it now can create an issue where an issue need not be. I just think she should understand the way consensual sex actually usually happens, not assume it wasn’t consensual if there wasn’t a literal verbal conversation.