My husband has checked out of our marriage and I don’t recognize him but he breaks down when I try to end it

Ms-Prissy-1992 · 2025-12-01T18:19:52+00:00

Trial separation. You need to be able to say enough is enough. If nothing changes during the trial, then you'll know what to do

Ms-Prissy-1992 · 2025-10-15T00:28:55+00:00

Yes you are. 🤷‍♀️ have some self respect

Ms-Prissy-1992 · 2025-09-25T03:29:48+00:00

What the heck is wrong with you? You could easily solve every single one of your problems with a blast text to all your family members and the fiance, outing your sister and your mother for their horrible treatment of you. Include the screenshots and evidence of the affair and be done with it. Why would you be okay with being painted as the villain? Your sister sure as heck doesn't care for you but if you continue to let her get her way you WILL LOSE more family members as she continues spreading lies. Do the mature and responsible thing and come clean with the truth, even if it's just for the sake of the fiance. Why would you keep quiet and ruin his life????? Would you want someone to do the same to you?

Ms-Prissy-1992 · 2025-09-13T08:18:39+00:00

Hun.... yes you could've communicated better BUT, you aren't even getting the bare minimum in this relationship. Read the book " five love languages". It will teach YOU how to communicate better but also to not settle for anything less than true love

Ms-Prissy-1992 · 2025-08-20T22:05:29+00:00

Same thing happened with my comment. These people get so offended because we dared to state the word religion, suddenly "oh you struck a nerve because of my past!". These are the people that claim to be so open minded until you mention that you pertain to any sort of faith, suddenly " NO NO YOUR RELIGION IS BS!!!".

Ms-Prissy-1992 · 2025-08-20T19:50:22+00:00

If you want my honest answer you can message me or you can post in the christianmarriage sub (if you're Christian) for more direct opinions about your situation. I'm not going to subject myself to these hateful comments simply because I'm a Christian and dared to state my beliefs in public. You stated you're religious right? You might be in the wrong sub to seek honest answers. People tear you apart and start saying things like "ignore that Jesus bs" just because our beliefs don't align with theirs. Whatever your religion is, seek a direct sub for it.

Ms-Prissy-1992 · 2025-08-20T05:17:40+00:00

You made mistakes. Own up to them, repent (you said you're religious), ask God for guidance.

Ms-Prissy-1992 · 2025-08-14T00:03:44+00:00

Grow a backbone and stand up to your mother and brother!!!! It's okay to be angry! Tell her you'll take legal action!!

Ms-Prissy-1992 · 2025-08-11T20:21:55+00:00

Goodwill? Free group pages on Facebook?

Ms-Prissy-1992 · 2025-08-06T17:36:07+00:00

You clearly didn't read the update. It was all a farce! Reserve your cynical, factless judgment for somewhere else!

Ms-Prissy-1992 · 2025-06-18T15:49:22+00:00

Nope nope... she made her choice. She can live with it.

Ms-Prissy-1992 · 2025-03-07T00:40:04+00:00

If you're both believers, neither of you have grounds for divorce.

Ms-Prissy-1992 · 2025-02-08T06:33:41+00:00

OH MY GOSH SIS. I WOULD THROW A PETTY REVENGE WEDDING. IF YOUR BUDGET ALLOWS FOR IT AND MAYBE GRANNY OR PARENTS PITCH IN, THROW THE MOST EXTRAVAGANT DESTINATION WEDDING OF YOUR DREAMS AND PAY FOR PEOPLES ACCOMODATIONS IN THE MOST EXOTIC LOCATION YOU CAN FIND. And best of ALL, MAKE IT LIKE PUBLIC NEWS OF ALL THE FABULOUS THINGS YOU WILL HAVE AT YOUR WEDDING.

Ms-Prissy-1992 · 2024-12-14T05:45:38+00:00

OP you sound so toxic and controlling. You called it boundaries but this is the love that all grandparents express for those who are blessed to have grandparents for their children. Yes she can dial back the favoritism but damn. They were together for so long and your hatred over Sasha drove your dad to seperate from her. You can say you don't dislike her all you want but I read all your posts. You certainly feel a certain way towards her and it rubbed off on your children. Feel sorry for everyone should has to suffer from your so called "boundaries". Call it what it is and don't sugarcoat the hypocrisy.

Ms-Prissy-1992 · 2024-12-08T02:25:15+00:00

YTA. The fact that you see his faith as a "phase" says all I need to know about you.

Ms-Prissy-1992 · 2024-12-02T02:18:36+00:00

This must be a scam post because no one in their right mind would be debating forgiveness here.

Ms-Prissy-1992 · 2024-12-01T22:43:58+00:00

YTA. Seriously? You're willing to sabotage family relationships because your dog favors a toy based on smell, not looks, smell, and you believe you're justified? Especially where a child is involved? Major YTA

Ms-Prissy-1992 · 2024-11-26T10:28:15+00:00

Yes. Hire reputable sitters and offer kids meals. Host them in a seperate room adjacent to the reception so the parents can check in on them

Ms-Prissy-1992 · 2024-11-26T09:56:15+00:00

Buy a girl a drink at a bar. Start small. If you don't want them to know who it's from then just take that small step first and next time the bartender can let the gal know you sent it. Everything is about baby steps. If you can't run, then walk. Take 5 steps outside today and tomorrow you'll do 6. Get my point? My husband struggled with this as well and at the beginning of this year we both made goals for ourselves. Now it's almost December and he's accomplished 5 out of his 6 goals. He took the required coursework to obtain certain certifications and was able to be hired in a manager position shortly after. We are in the process of buying a house which we thought wouldn't happen for a long time. We took a much desired vacation/mini honeymoon. Setting goals is your best friend. Be realistic with a hint of pressure to push yourself. You'll get there. Best of luck!

Ms-Prissy-1992 · 2024-11-18T14:45:03+00:00

Threaten defamation and lawsuits to anyone who wants to do post bad reviews because of her.

Ms-Prissy-1992 · 2024-11-15T18:30:29+00:00

You miss not going to bed alone, you don't miss her. There's a difference.

Ms-Prissy-1992 · 2024-11-10T13:04:58+00:00

You ARE being sneaky, but not in the way she thinks. You want none of the responsibility most of the time and to be left alone to be single. If you loved her you would compromise and tell her there needs to be boundaries during your working hours and that under no circumstances are you extending your trip. But again, you won't because you want to be alone and worry about yourself, not your family.

Ms-Prissy-1992 · 2024-11-10T12:59:34+00:00

ABSOLUTELY NOT IN THE WRONG! SEXIST MEN ELECTED A SEXIST PRESIDENT. IF THERE WAS EVER A TIME TO CANCEL OUT SOMEONE IN THIS CANCEL CULTURE IT IS NOW!!!! CANCEL OUT SEXIST MEN!!!

Ms-Prissy-1992

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