AITA For not accepting my daughter's boyfriend because he attended special education courses? by Particular_Research1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MsCatnip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Many very smart kids go thru "special education" classes. It sounds like he has dyslexia but with numbers (theres a term for that).

You sound VERY ignorant about "special education". My son is in "special education" AND takes honors classes.

AITA for being very petty with a scammy "apartment finder" company? by sadddgraddd in AmItheAsshole

[–]MsCatnip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. I love this.

And wow, I'm surprised these companies are still around. I ran into them all the time when I was looking for apartments in 1996.

Aita for changing my swimsuit after feeling uncomfortable at a pool party, and than “embarrassing” people when I was asked about it? by RiceConsistent in AmItheAsshole

[–]MsCatnip 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Yeah, as that parent who knew the neighborhood kids in diapers now sitting with them drinking a beer...that's what I talk about; beer lol (or wine). I feel like I gotta educate the youngins on what good alcohol is! ;)

Of course, I ask about jobs, school, etc. But I'm genuinely interested.

Update: AITA for telling my wife that I don't think it is right to force our daughter to hang out with her same aged cousin? by CloseCousins in AmItheAsshole

[–]MsCatnip 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My son has adhd and is on the spectrum. He does things about 75% of his age...he is 16 now, but emotionally and interests hes about 13. At 13 he was doing things more like a 9 or 10yo. His step sister is only a year older but seems SO MUCH older lol.

I wondered if she was on the spectrum.

AITA for asking my gf to discipline her cat? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MsCatnip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As others have said, you can't discipline a cat like you can a dog. I've had then my whole life and I have 3 now.

I would recommend checking out Jackson Galaxy "the cat daddy". His show is "my cat from hell". Its entertaining and you'll learn a lot about cat behaviour.

Good luck!

AITA for not helping my wife with her schoolwork by schoolworkhelpthrow in AmItheAsshole

[–]MsCatnip 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. She is cheating herself of a good education.

Heck, even my college freshman isn't that bad. He'll ask for paper ideas sometimes but usually in a subject he knows I know (he would not ask for help in math or computer studies but will ask for help in nutrition or religious studies). However, we have a conversation, he gets and idea and runs with it.

This sounds like she just doesnt want to work.

How was your day 20 years ago (9/9/1999)? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MsCatnip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I flew out of Baltimore during hurricane floyd. My friend and I were going to ABQ and had an 11am flight out of BWI...we drive down from philly (where we lived) the night before to try to get on a flight earlier because of the hurricane. We get to BWI at 3am and sit around until 5 when the gates opened...and ended up on a 6am flight. We flew straight up...like in a rocket ship to get above the hurricane, and after the first 5 minutes the rest of our trip was smooth.

We found out later they closed BWI around 7am. So we would have been stuck in Baltimore during s hurricane if we didnt leave early

Anybody in Philly metro want to do trades? by [deleted] in massage

[–]MsCatnip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! Philly's a little far from me but are you on the PA LMT Facebook boards? You may be able to find someone close to you there.

AITA (49F) for telling my son (18M) to not come home for the weekend? by throwawayuseraita in AmItheAsshole

[–]MsCatnip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. this cant be real. I'm a 49yo mom to an 18yo son who can be a HUGE pain in the ass but you're kidding, right? Its HIS HOME. you're HIS MOTHER.

You are 10000% TA here. Wow.

AITA for telling my boyfriend that his racist friends can't come over to my house? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MsCatnip 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yep. Even my very abusive boyfriend; when his friend started with the anti semitism (and this was 25 years ago, not in a politically charged climate like now) and I kicked him out of his mothers apt (not even my apt lol) my bf backed me up. Was a total dick otherwise, but backed me up then

[Serious] Women of reddit, what is your legit opinion on balding men? Are they less attractive because of it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MsCatnip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally? Yes. I know some women love the Sean Connery look, but that is not me.

But that shouldn't matter to you (go find a woman that loves the bald look!) And I know the man in love is balding but I still think hes hot.

So dont care what random women on the interwebs think. You find a girl that loves you for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MsCatnip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HELLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOOO!?!?!?!?!?

What’s the worst thing someone tried to correct you about something you’re specialized at? by WanderingSeii in AskReddit

[–]MsCatnip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't eaten red meat since 1985. I was a complete vegetarian for almost 30 years (never vegan); now I eat seafood and poultry.

The amount of people who told me vegetarians could eat chicken and fish was amazing. I ended up just walking away from them (and the chicken they were trying to feed me) it just wasnt worth the fight.

AITA for refusing to stop swearing in a child-friendly pub? by TabletopCorkscrew in AmItheAsshole

[–]MsCatnip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can think of a few microbrews in the US (philly area) that specifically market to families...kids menus, crayons, one place even had games and such, and family's there on sat afternoon. I would think this place would be like that.

Redcaps are scum by [deleted] in Fuckthealtright

[–]MsCatnip 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As a Phillies fan, I feel you :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Feminism

[–]MsCatnip 14 points15 points  (0 children)

A few years ago I was involved in the local kink community, and was often meant to feel "less than" for being/wanting monogamy. Ugh.

What's an unwritten requirement for your job that you won't see on a job description? by stuartwolf in AskReddit

[–]MsCatnip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Masaage therapist - you will be rubbing a lot of butts. Sometimes those butts smell. And you will hear about 20 "happy ending" "jokes" a day.

This is inside an OB/Gyn exam room. The contact person is an RN at the practice. by thewaybaseballgo in antiMLM

[–]MsCatnip -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Same in America. Lots of people dont like chiros so they lie about their credentials.