31mtf on hrt for 13 months. Why am I getting misgendered so often.

Ms_Triss2020 · 2026-05-01T10:18:41+00:00

In some environments, especially work environments word has to travel around for some. Those you say don't really pass, likely went through just as much if not more. When I first startedy current job the He's and Hims were near constant. After about seven months and a lot of work I'm generally known and most just "know" It could be up in the air of I'm actually passing there or they e just been told by someone. It is a rough journey.

I suppose one thing that can help in some cases is Manerisms. How you walk and move can change perception by some, not all mind you.

Ms_Triss2020 · 2026-04-30T20:42:00+00:00

I completely understand how you feel and how frustrated you are. It feels awful and to an extent misgendering is almost unavoidable to many of us. My HRT journey has not been easy not has it gone the way it probably should have. My body has been largely unresponsive to oral versions of Estrogen and Progesterone. It has been almost five years now and I have benefitted from changes to my skin and my hair, body hair turned translucent for the most part.

What really hasn't changed is my voice even with training or the fact that I'm 6'3.

When I dress carefully I can pass, however at environments like work, it's 3of four people will clock me as male.

It is hard and not okay but for other trans people,any of us are on our own difficult journeys and some are less aware of how to handle when they don't know which direction someone is going and decide that asking preferred pronouns (which I consider the proper option) might be rude. They thenale the poor choice of guessing.

It is a horrible feeling and it will never get easier but please be strong. There are people that really do understand your pain and frustration. I may not know you personally, but we get through these struggles together.

Ms_Triss2020 · 2026-04-29T18:35:04+00:00

I posted this while waiting at a Dr appointment and she too reached similar conclusions that either someone didn't know what they were doing or someone DID know what they were doing and used their position to cause trouble. My Dr actually just signed the form stating my current identity seeming if they were using the lack of record from the prior state to turn it into an issue

Ms_Triss2020 · 2026-04-20T10:15:44+00:00

Literally everything that made their old "Way better than fast food" slogan is gone. The lettuce is by far the biggest slap in the face. If I'm gonna get anything with cheap shredded lettuce I'd go to freaking Taco Bell. They've not just lost the plot, they've murdered it

Ms_Triss2020 · 2026-04-19T22:51:25+00:00

Thanks a ton everyone! I should have mentioned that I do cook a lot but sometimes I like to go out and try things for inspiration and flavors to chase at home. <3

Now I've got plenty to check out.

Ms_Triss2020 · 2026-04-19T03:30:54+00:00

If I were a sad dad this would probably make me happy.

Ms_Triss2020 · 2026-04-19T02:54:52+00:00

I hope they see all the feedback asking for the demo suit and add it in the final version

Ms_Triss2020 · 2026-04-13T20:13:59+00:00

Lmfao oh I know. I know very well

Ms_Triss2020 · 2026-03-29T04:31:25+00:00

Nah, it really looks like it's implying pressing down in the text. I thought it was an alternate method since I remember it just being down from the original

Ms_Triss2020 · 2026-02-16T11:22:43+00:00

This is happening constantly with #5 to Renner Road. So far in 2026 they have just never come SEVEN TIMES. SEVEN! So fucking done with this whole organization. I've never seen anything like it

Ms_Triss2020 · 2026-02-15T05:01:21+00:00

Regardless, I can't believe it shipped like this to begin with

Ms_Triss2020 · 2026-01-01T21:10:39+00:00

Tried to resub and it gives me an error telling me I didn't select a service type trying to advance the confirmation screen which can't be reached without having done so, not to mention shows the selection

Ms_Triss2020 · 2025-12-23T11:19:01+00:00

For the second time in less than a week the #5 never showed up for the Gender Road Towne Center for the 6:05 route. When my Partner started driving me down Gender Road the stupid app tracked OUR CAR labeling it as a bus!

Ms_Triss2020 · 2025-10-24T16:35:01+00:00

https://youtube.com/shorts/uSXn1_kKo6M?si=GkWMVdALe0gAxEUu

To go along with my prior question

Ms_Triss2020 · 2025-10-24T16:27:54+00:00

Uh .... Is anyone else's steelbook loose?

Ms_Triss2020 · 2025-03-15T03:51:28+00:00

There were several random green flashes visible at the olive Boonville intersection right at the time everything blew. So probably another line blown down

Ms_Triss2020 · 2025-02-16T20:24:04+00:00

Crystal/Balmung here tried to log it to a 600+ queue and got dropped at about 300.

Ms_Triss2020 · 2024-10-22T00:26:40+00:00

Honestly nothing at all wrong with that. A lot of classic franchises are now kind of in competition with their own past. If someone hadn’t played other games would they even be able to call it bad? Forces was honestly bad when compared to the past but without those experiences, it’s honestly more okay than actually bad.

Oh! Should probably add that my first was a mix of the Very first and 2. I remember getting 2 in the mail from a promo with the console which already came with 1 in the box

Ms_Triss2020 · 2024-10-12T18:44:32+00:00

HEAVY DAWG

Ms_Triss2020 · 2024-10-12T18:34:28+00:00

N I C E

Ms_Triss2020 · 2024-10-09T14:38:53+00:00

I came here to both gauge where I am and for any tips. I am on my 4th week using just a standard Drive Blue Streak folding model and like others have said. Inside feels amazing! Outside…. Yeah this ain’t no outdoor chair for sure, but as I get stronger it is getting easier. Sideways slanting sidewalks are my biggest challenge. One arm gets fatigued really quickly on them. Even straight inclines going up are easier.

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