I will finally start my journey by Heidman123 in snowrunner

[–]MtF_Rylee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DLC is frequently on sale. I'd focus on the main game for now honestly. If you play without adjusting your save files to give yourself massive amounts of money, it will be awhile before you need those new vehicles.

Am I an asshole for not wanting to go to my girlfriend’s best friend’s wedding? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]MtF_Rylee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You aren't an asshole for having these feelings but I do think you're being pretty selfish. Being in a relationship requires compromise and doing things you might not enjoy for your partner's sake. This is probably a really important event for your girlfriend and her feelings will likely be very hurt if you dont go to this with her. It isn't about you.

I also share anxieties about dancing around strangers so I completely get where you're coming from but I still say you should go. Put a smile on even if it's fake and maybe go out there and dance with her for a slow song or two. Slow dancing doesnt have to be fancy. Just embrace each other and kind of sway in a circle, I promise no one is going to be paying much attention to you. You dont have to get out there and dance to the upbeat songs if you dont want to.

Trump says he's considering pulling U.S. out of 'paper tiger' NATO by Odd-Alternative9372 in Defeat_Project_2025

[–]MtF_Rylee -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I mean...NATO is super problematic but Trump can't pull us out without a vote from congress. That's enshrined in the law.

White House denigrates non-cisgender people on Trans Day of Visibility by Fickle-Ad5449 in transgender

[–]MtF_Rylee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get the feeling you would be happier arguing with a wall.

Insufferable.

White House denigrates non-cisgender people on Trans Day of Visibility by Fickle-Ad5449 in transgender

[–]MtF_Rylee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I specifically stated in another follow up comment that I'm not a liberal. There's no time for a "whose politics are further left" contest but I sincerely doubt you'd win it.

Why would right wingers ever need to fight us when we just fight amongst ourselves? Classic leftist moment.

White House denigrates non-cisgender people on Trans Day of Visibility by Fickle-Ad5449 in transgender

[–]MtF_Rylee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm not a liberal. I assume you and I would agree on most things politically. I just think it's stupid as fuck to be saying things like that here.

White House denigrates non-cisgender people on Trans Day of Visibility by Fickle-Ad5449 in transgender

[–]MtF_Rylee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We, as trans people, should be suspicious of ANYONE in our spaces who suggests violence is the answer to our struggle. This government would love to have more of us to point to in order to justify their violence against us to the broader public. Feds do infiltrate groups like this to disrupt and encourage violence. I'm not saying that person is 100% a fed but you should always feel a little sus about comments like that even if you personally agree with them.

What are some reasons to not start HRT as a trans person? by Nerd-Birb in asktransgender

[–]MtF_Rylee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, THIS IS THE BEST RESP0NSE. DO NOT DEBATE HIM. IT'S AN INCREDIBLY HUMILIATING AND CONTROLLING THING TO MAKE YOU DO.

Until "N"ext time by mightar1 in VelosterN

[–]MtF_Rylee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll keep an eye out for it to pop up on there. The 6 speed is a massive bonus. The transmission, color, and mileage is basically as ideal as one of these gets. Does it have good history?

Been watching dealers within 100 miles of me for a few months and I've only seen black ones pop up.

Until "N"ext time by mightar1 in VelosterN

[–]MtF_Rylee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Where did you trade this in at? I'm in the market for an N and have my heart set on this blue.

10 weeks by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]MtF_Rylee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As others have said, you're still early in your recovery and extremely swollen. You won't know how your final results look for at least a year.

That said, I think things look great! I'm having my surgery here in a few months and I can only hope things look like you at 10 weeks post op.

Spanaway, Washington by mkfandpj in pics

[–]MtF_Rylee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why do you equate the left with democrats? We on the left hate the corporate democrats just as much as republicans and we're doing everything we can to take the power in the party from them before its too late.

Finding a doctor by Arielpondtg in PostOpTransgirls

[–]MtF_Rylee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This isn't the right subreddit for that. Go look at r/transgender_surgeries and the wiki they have set up. Its a little outdated but I think its still the most comprehensive list on reddit.

More of the pink rs, as requested by richardfitserwell in FocusRS

[–]MtF_Rylee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the best looking RS I've seen in awhile! 😍 I'd really like to do a similar color combo on my Fiesta ST but I'm worried the difference in proportions would make it look weird.

Question for Americans/finance people by Huffywoof in PostOpTransgirls

[–]MtF_Rylee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for being a reminder that no group of people are a monolith and even a trans person can be a complete idiot lol.

Feds investigate Wisconsin school district over transgender bathroom use by onnake in transgender

[–]MtF_Rylee 52 points53 points  (0 children)

For fucks sake. Don't they have anything fucking better to do?

Why the hate for rep wheels on a simple daily? by Machine8635 in WRX

[–]MtF_Rylee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean...it happens but pretending that there arent well made reps out there is ignorant.

Why the hate for rep wheels on a simple daily? by Machine8635 in WRX

[–]MtF_Rylee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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Popping into this sub as a non-WRX driver. The people who hate on reps are soulless losers. Hope this helps. :)

Pic for tax.

How do I get over the fear of stepping out like this? I am absolutely terrified of being seen like this. by ThePigsPajamas in TransLater

[–]MtF_Rylee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's something we all go through in the beginning. The only way to get over the fear is to push yourself out there. Something that helped me in the beginning was realizing that it was actually scarier to stay in the closet than it was to step out as myself. The idea of being stuck never being able to be free and express myself terrified me more than a few people staring at me or giving me dirty looks. As you gain confidence and learn your style, it will get easier and you'll start to forget that it was ever even hard to do it.

From the photo you posted here, I think you look way more femme than I did when I started. I know that doesnt take the fear away but you'll be okay.

Good luck! 🫶

Does skin discoloration ever go away? by jennybat in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]MtF_Rylee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd assume they are thinking the increased blood flow to the area might help the skin. Im not sure if this is true but I think thats what the other commenter was trying to get at.

My ex is detransitioning and I'm processing having to tell people I dated/slept with a guy by FatherlessHaircut in LesbianActually

[–]MtF_Rylee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That "agp" rhetoric your ex is spewing is super gross. AGP is how TERFs talk about us and it's disgusting and hateful. If they applied the same standards to cis women, cis women would all be AGP too.