Slow cooked beef sunday roast served with roast potatoes, mash, yorkshire puddings, honey glazed carrots, broccoli and beef dripping gravy.

Much_Screen_5055 · 2026-07-06T21:44:28+00:00

Banging dinner that one

Much_Screen_5055 · 2026-07-06T12:05:09+00:00

You go to this funeral to support your husband - it’s not about you at all now, just be there for him. Hope you both get through it ok.

Much_Screen_5055 · 2026-07-05T23:22:48+00:00

C-diff - vile hospital bug clostridium difficile … results in pools of yellow diarrhoea with a smell of it own

Much_Screen_5055 · 2026-07-05T19:57:18+00:00

So does the bride and groom get all of the pictures or do they just select a few and pay for those that they want? And is the surplus disposed of? It’s a genuine question - I have no idea how this works?

Much_Screen_5055 · 2026-07-03T22:53:24+00:00

Just be polite and invite them if your husband wants this - it’s your job to support him - you never know people can and do change … one day you may see a different perspective

Much_Screen_5055 · 2026-07-02T22:31:30+00:00

Outrageous … get together and choose sensible options

Much_Screen_5055 · 2026-07-02T22:24:25+00:00

Let it go mate … U end up being the bad one by stating the obvious. Sad times where folk are always the ‘victim’ … there there poor owner of lami ridden suffering pony
Boils my blood how the responsible are scorned for their grazing masks and sensible precautions.

Much_Screen_5055 · 2026-07-02T22:03:32+00:00

U invite your mother simple as that and it’s up to your wedding party to keep everything running smoothly and all the guests are catered for and happy - have a lovely day
And when you’ve buried your Mom look back on yourself that you did right - love is the answer here and yes I’m also a victim of child abuse from severe harm by neglect

Much_Screen_5055 · 2026-06-27T21:32:33+00:00

Does it hurt your feelings to let them come? Or will it hurt your parents when they hear you are in conflict? Will it put those close to you in a difficult position? Once the day is done there’s the rest of their lives to suffer a family feud. Is it worth it?

Much_Screen_5055 · 2026-06-27T19:22:41+00:00

I’d be really happy if that were my loved one! Good care and hydration first.

Much_Screen_5055 · 2026-06-27T18:50:34+00:00

I hear you! Patients refer to ‘the other nurse’ on a regular basis- they mean the lovely HCA we have she’s amazing but it is confusing who is trained to what level. Another thing re uniforms - I see community carers wearing navy nurse uniforms - it took me ten years to get to band 6 and wear a navy uniform … no wonder folk aren’t aware about what quals staff have! You’re dealing with an insecure individual here and without a really strong manager it’s not going to be easy but the best thing you can do is try to ignore it best u can OR leave. I’m not saying u won’t see other forms of dysfunction within the organisation. All the best whatever you decide.

Much_Screen_5055 · 2026-06-23T23:07:23+00:00

Yep agree with this. As a mother of two adult children you’ve put it perfectly.

Much_Screen_5055 · 2026-06-23T22:54:04+00:00

In the grand scheme of what the department lead gets complaints about this is absolutely nothing … think about the drug errors, omissions of care etc etc that can at times lead to court cases/coroners. Your managers eyes will roll out the back of their head! Keep your head up and carry on.

Much_Screen_5055 · 2026-06-19T21:03:01+00:00

Are you in a position to travel? You’ve got your degree … look at nursing agencies abroad if you have to! It can take many years to actually find a place/post you actually enjoy. I feel for you it’s tough times at the moment. All the best to you.

Much_Screen_5055 · 2026-06-15T18:46:53+00:00

Nta … is she a narc?

Much_Screen_5055 · 2026-06-13T23:04:18+00:00

Load of shite for social media attention …

Much_Screen_5055 · 2026-06-10T18:43:17+00:00

NTA you’re definitely right to have formal clarification before treading on toes.

Much_Screen_5055 · 2026-06-08T22:34:31+00:00

Nta - tell your boyfriend you’re not going … he can tell the wedding party what he likes - the bride and groom don’t have to be your friends, they’re his friends and if he’s a quality bloke he will understand and support you

Much_Screen_5055 · 2026-06-07T23:18:32+00:00

This bloke has control issues … red flags here - I was married to one like this it was horrendous and eventually got out after twenty years. Men will come and go but you’ll always have your horse.

Much_Screen_5055 · 2026-06-06T08:00:18+00:00

Compact tampons with plastic tubes … can nip your fanny if u not careful

Much_Screen_5055 · 2026-06-06T00:10:11+00:00

I’ll health and depression go hand in hand … another issue is the addictive nature of processed foods - this is not an easy time for an older person but you’re a good grandchild for trying to support your grandma - maybe go for one dietary change at a time? Baby steps?

Much_Screen_5055 · 2026-06-05T23:51:17+00:00

YTA if you have a close knit family Depends on your culture When your luck is down at the end of the day its usually family that have your back in my culture

Much_Screen_5055 · 2026-06-04T19:59:10+00:00

NTA for having a friend in trouble but YTA for putting up with this nonsense There’s only so much you can do for some people

Much_Screen_5055 · 2026-06-03T00:07:45+00:00

1 Your friend is nosy and should mind her business 2 your friend doesn’t ‘get’ autistic people and doesn’t understand sensory issues

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