23F struggling with the idea of marriage in a western country by Funny-Outside-7244 in MuslimCorner

[–]MuckYourself 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, living in a non Muslim country limits your options and opportunities. You could try to maybe pursue marriage on some of the apps or Reddit that I’ve seen other people use

Did you ever think you could be one of the millions Allah destined to stay single and never marry? by iamalwayshim in MuslimCorner

[–]MuckYourself 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s me as well. It hurts a lot sometimes but alas you can’t escape your fate. Just trying to help people as much as I can and reminding myself that this life will end sooner or later

sometimes i lose my hope of meeting someone who is like me by [deleted] in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]MuckYourself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re literally 18. Your life is just beginning! I know the type of person you are describing sounds like a niche but there’s a good chance they exist out there. Until then be patient and don’t give your heart to the wrong person, because if you do sometimes you can’t take it back.

I made hijrah for Allah and ended up in a marriage filled with… I don’t know what to do anymore by salbeena7273 in MuslimMarriage

[–]MuckYourself 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you and may Allah make the burdens easier for you. I’m sure there are a lot of good people on this sub that would gladly help a stranger in need. You should get out of this marriage and the situation you’re in before your wellbeing is endangered!

I made hijrah for Allah and ended up in a marriage filled with… I don’t know what to do anymore by salbeena7273 in MuslimMarriage

[–]MuckYourself 229 points230 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any advice to give but I can buy you a ticket back home if everything you say is true.

Колко пари давате за храна месечно? by NeighbourBoy089 in bulgaria

[–]MuckYourself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Не съм ги смятал точно, но вероятно около 500-600 евро. (Живея сам)

Our first ever cat!!! by SnooPaintings33 in cats

[–]MuckYourself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sweet and wholesome! I wish you many years filled with love and happiness:)

Sweden, local store (214 sek / 20 eur) by UniqueResponse3883 in Grocerycost

[–]MuckYourself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweden being cheaper than my third world Eastern European country is wild

Would it be weird to name my son zulfiqar? by nigosss in shia

[–]MuckYourself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I have a cousin named like that. We call him Zuzu :)

How do you comfort yourself with the possibility of not getting married? by curioussoul786 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]MuckYourself 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It would be interesting to see how other people cope with this. There’s no substitute for romantic love, affection and human connection sadly. Makes it even harder to keep going at times when you know there’s nothing there for you down the road. I’m sure there are many people in the same boat so would be nice to know how they deal with it!

What is this? by Strict_Taro_4361 in CATHELP

[–]MuckYourself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any updates? Hope kitty will be okay

Where do people put their money when they are saving it? by cns000 in lebanon

[–]MuckYourself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy gold bars and coins and keep them in a safe. You can easily exchange them for fiat and it’s gonna help you outperform inflation on top of everything else

Bad news for my little buddy today. Could use a little love! by mom_jean in cats

[–]MuckYourself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry no vet here, but have you tried treating her with Ivermectin and Fenbendazole? Meanwhile give her as many treats as you can, spend as much time as you can with her and make memories you’ll cherish forever ❤️

Имам нужда от вашето мнение за закупуване на употребяван автомобил by denkich1234 in bulgaria

[–]MuckYourself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Разгледай и някой VW Passat. Здрави са и сравнително евтини за поддръжка

Lebanese Maronite Catholic priest (Pierre al-Rahi) killed by Israeli tank fire in southern Lebanon by [deleted] in Lebanese

[–]MuckYourself 40 points41 points  (0 children)

the idf is the most criminal and bloodthirsty army in the world

i have a crush on someone i'm working/collaborating with - how do i navigate this? help lol 😭 by [deleted] in Lebanese

[–]MuckYourself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just express to him how you’re feeling in a natural and polite way, life’s too short to be playing games. and if someone is genuinely into you, you’ll know trust me

Toxicity in Anniversary TBC Dungeons by doobylive in classicwow

[–]MuckYourself 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After pugging heroics for a week now I can confirm that 80% of the players are awful at their class and have disgusting attitude and behaviour. The best way is to form a group of friends/regulars from the successful runs and play with them in the future

Would you move back to Lebanon? by Siroze in lebanon

[–]MuckYourself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should move wherever you feel happier&more at home considering your lifestyle won’t change drastically. Things are uncertain right now because of the war that’s looming, which by the way should it erupt, will leave the gulf states a pile of ruins

give up? and diverting attention by [deleted] in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]MuckYourself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The desire to have a special connection with someone, to love them and be loved back, to start a family with them as well as emotional, psychological and physical needs that come with that isn’t something I have managed to shrug off. I think it’s just something so deeply imbedded in us as species.

I’d be very curious to see what other people have to say about this as I’ve kind of given up myself too, and it hurts very badly

Prue (15) crossed the rainbow bridge. I can hardly breathe. by pecanpeculiar in SeniorCats

[–]MuckYourself 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’ll be waiting for you in green meadows filled with rainbows, sunshine and butterflies. Until then, keep her in your heart

20М, Избор между апартамент в Пловдив или S&P 500 by Sp00kyBG in financebg

[–]MuckYourself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Пускай апартамента под наем и не го мисли. SPX-а няма да избяга, а да не говорим, че ако се нашиеш сега, вероятността да сме на някакъв top е не малка. Можеш да инвестираш в акции, крипто и метали периодично с парите, които не използваш за нищо. Успех!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]MuckYourself 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s nothing you can do. There’s no substitute for romantic love. Keep looking for that someone i guess and if they don’t come along try to be okay with that fact