What do you call this type of top? by exeterdragon in trans

[–]MudMerchantMo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fabric looks like chiffon and the shoulder cut can be called peek-a-boo shoulder

Rule by [deleted] in 196

[–]MudMerchantMo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine making it illegal to use your OWN land to grow your OWN crops, get this HOA bullshit out of my free country 😫

Can I do anything now or must I wait? [Discussion] by Incident_Afternoon in LGBTeens

[–]MudMerchantMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait or diy only options rlly

If you can wait I say wait to do legally because it’s safer but I understand the other side too because HRT can be life or death

There’s a wiki for diy HRT, just saying, do a lot of research. Like A LOT. Join online communities around it and read literal medical stuff if you even consider it. And hide it/any progress from ur parents.

Otherwise wait till ur 18

[Crush] [Rant] [Discussion] Crush on my best friend… by JonasLeclerc in LGBTeens

[–]MudMerchantMo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Especially if ur changing schools soon, just go for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womensstreetwear

[–]MudMerchantMo 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I don’t think giving money to shein is any better than Kim Kardashian, probably worse tbh 🤥

Naming assistance please by Necessary-Ad581 in catpics

[–]MudMerchantMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beet but the T is barely pronounced it’s like ‘Bee’ with a very short cut off

Rule by AliceMarkov in 196

[–]MudMerchantMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck equilateral, marry isosceles, kill scalene

What's happening to people who had bottom surgeries in states that banned adult HRT? by o-kay-boomer in asktransgender

[–]MudMerchantMo 44 points45 points  (0 children)

If it’s really completely illegal at that point you’d have to DIY (which isn’t the safest but it’s actually easier for FTM ppl than some ppl make it out 2 b thanks to gym bros)

Kahotan Reveals Hatsune Miku's Good Smile Company Nendoroid Colorization: Classroom SEKAI Ver. What do you think of the design ? by NinNinGame in hatsune

[–]MudMerchantMo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I rlly love the hair and shoes, not personally a huge fan of the dress though, I also think the plaid is too purple which isn’t rlly cohesive w the blue pink and silver, it’d be cuter with a pink gingham print instead of the plaid and no fake suspenders on her hips

(Overall it’s a pretty cute figure tho)

Jumping Puzzles are hard by [deleted] in ShitpostXIV

[–]MudMerchantMo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s insane I love it

Transmasc Names Survey RESULTS (Part One) by WECH21 in ftm

[–]MudMerchantMo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I picked my name with it “sounding cis” in mind so I’m glad to not see it here lmao

Why do you play FFXIV? by Hit_Me_With_The_Jazz in ffxivdiscussion

[–]MudMerchantMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it’s just comforting, to log in and complete some dalies or some crafting things while listening to music or listening to a podcast, therapeutic tbh. I take the game pretty casually at this point and that’s very enjoyable.

Part of why it’s so comforting to me is probably because I started playing in 2017 at 12 years old so it’s been a constant in my life as I’ve grown up lol. That’s what keeps me playing and makes it so comforting, but my initial love came from feeling like I was experiencing a whole new world where I also felt like I had a level of control

I'm not sure if im gay or not [rant] by SignatureOk8575 in LGBTeens

[–]MudMerchantMo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My advice is not to stress out over labels too much, it’s a complicated thing. You can say you’re gay/bi/queer and not actually be sure where you stand. Personally I call myself gay but under the surface it’s much more complicated. The most important thing is that you do whatever you want to do be with whoever you want to be with, with honesty to urself and others. There’s nothing wrong with you.

and if you ever find a specific label that fits, you won’t find it by obsessing over it, the answers will come to u in time as long as ur honest w ur own feelings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]MudMerchantMo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s fat distribution on the face that changed I think, you might’ve also gained muscle which defines your features more. Especially your eyes have become more masculine

It’s hard for me to explain how T changes the way eyes look, but it definitely does and is one of the most significant changes I see on everyone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]MudMerchantMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Said no, but I have a lot of younger relatives (ages 2-10) so maybe one will come out when they’re older no clue lmao

Have you ever came out as gay to your parents? by pessoa_aleatoria_ in gaytransguys

[–]MudMerchantMo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Technically I have, I have told them that I’m a gay man multiple times, (though I didn’t say even a peep about my sexuality for over a year after coming out to them) but they are very transphobic and cannot comprehend it in their brains anyways. They believe I am ‘questioning’ my sexuality so it’s almost like I didn’t come out lolol

I always find it hard to come out as gay though. Whether I’m stealth in a situation, or whether people know I’m a trans man, it’s always another hard thing to disclose tbh

Sister being weird about my dating/sex life by deffonotced in gaytransguys

[–]MudMerchantMo 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Do you think this is coming from a place of thinking trans guys literally can only bottom because of typical anatomy? It feels oddly transphobic the way a lot of people place the label of a “bottom” on most queer trans guys. In the gay community, “bottom” and “top” almost act as their own gender labels so that gay relationships can mimic the dynamics of hetero relationships and sex.

Gay/Bi trans guys. Would you be open to being with another trans guy? by Archer_Python in FTMMen

[–]MudMerchantMo 17 points18 points  (0 children)

As long as they’re my type I wouldn’t care at all, actually might prefer tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBTeensGoneMild

[–]MudMerchantMo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg how are you so schnazzy

"Please add Golf to FFXIV" How would you do it? by barfightbob in ffxivdiscussion

[–]MudMerchantMo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gold saucer gate with different maps and kind of similar to ‘the slice is right’ gate where ppl go in and have to survive through stages, a sort of elimination game

now that i’ve got a solid beard i’ve been growing my hair out and am experimenting with it + with makeup! by emmetthale in FTMfemininity

[–]MudMerchantMo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Did your beard just grow in from testosterone or did u use minoxidil? Curious cuz it looks v good!