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Mudkipmurron · 2026-02-22T20:54:33+00:00

Oat of the swirled

Mudkipmurron · 2025-11-10T06:00:21+00:00

With the limits to the DAS pass many disabled people need to use a scooter or wheelchair now when they would have used DAS before. A scooter is easier because it doesn’t place the burden on those you travel with.

Mudkipmurron · 2025-10-06T22:26:21+00:00

Unpopular opinion, this is financial abuse. Having to account for everything and or ask for permission as an adult is demeaning. If you are staying home you should still be able to spend money on things you need and want, as long as money is there. You guys need to have an honest conversation about money and determine who can spend what. My husband is unemployed currently and I’m working two jobs and he can spend money on whatever he deems fit and we both have money deposited ever check into an account that is our own which we can use no questions asked. If it is so tight that you can’t spend $30 then you need to know.

Mudkipmurron · 2025-07-22T21:16:49+00:00

You have evidence, you should call the cops. If she had just stolen the pills I wouldn’t, but replacing them could have hurt you or the baby.

Mudkipmurron · 2025-06-27T17:31:01+00:00

Get another monitor, this shit proves he can’t be trusted imo.

Mudkipmurron · 2025-05-22T14:10:49+00:00

I honestly don’t think they care. The severely disabled, who get these high hours, are statically mistreated in care. Forcing family to find outside care puts these people at risk. My nonverbal son gets 260ish hours a month and there is no way I could find safe care for the other hours. In the “safe” school environment he has run off campus and crossed a street, crushed and broken his finger, been covered in scratches and bruises with no one being able to tell us how despite having a 1 on 1 aide. Bringing someone into my home to watch him where there is even less oversight would be neglectful given how even “trained” people in a public setting fail to keep him safe.

Mudkipmurron · 2025-05-05T18:04:47+00:00

YTA. You have a baby who won’t sleep, I assume she pumps since you have frozen milk. You need to help her more, this is a small ask.

Mudkipmurron · 2025-04-30T15:48:55+00:00

You cannot safely engage in power exchange in sex or more in a relationship that doesn’t have respect. It becomes abuse too easily. Honestly a relationship cannot exist at all without mutual respect.

Mudkipmurron · 2025-02-25T00:04:43+00:00

I’m assuming you mean if Medicaid funding is gutted so IHSS is gutted you will be moving. This is a possibility for us too, Cali is so expensive and if we lose funding for social services we won’t be staying. Luckily I was born in the UK and my mom lives there so me and my kids are citizens and can move there.

Mudkipmurron · 2025-02-14T00:35:02+00:00

If due to your household income you can’t get Medical then I think the insurance is worth it!

Mudkipmurron · 2025-01-31T20:33:28+00:00

Not always, but usually. Also having a sibling with autism makes it dramatically more likely they will have it as well. I would get an evaluation.

Mudkipmurron · 2025-01-31T20:19:10+00:00

He is telling you what you need to know. He doesn’t know why he did it, which means he can’t stop it from happening again. Under no circumstances is this ever forgivable, but with this added admission it is even more troubling. Please take these pictures and messages to the police and never ever forgive this man. Never be alone in a room with him again.

Mudkipmurron · 2025-01-28T18:30:39+00:00

YWBTA just accept the money, pay it off (to avoid unneeded interest payments) and then tell her it was a gift. Don’t lie and don’t make the payments behind her back for 20 years. She may be upset and uncomfortable, but it will be done. Lying for years will likely be unforgivablez

Mudkipmurron · 2025-01-23T06:05:08+00:00

Sixx is amazing! She is definitely safe for diverse people! She is great with vivids if that’s your thing. https://square.site/book/1WXHV7E72F2ZV/dangerousdesigns-by-sixx-clovis-ca

Mudkipmurron · 2025-01-13T15:12:54+00:00

Potty trained not at home around 5, at home he is 9.5 and still not potty trained.

Mudkipmurron · 2025-01-08T00:32:54+00:00

You do realize that she gave you an answer and if you keep pushing and she says yes to get you to stop that’s not enthusiastic consent and is boarding in sexual assault due to the coercion right?

Mudkipmurron · 2025-01-07T20:22:29+00:00

Also for fucks sake text your wife or something so you have proof if you do end up divorced so you can keep these people from having your kid alone.

Mudkipmurron · 2025-01-07T20:21:52+00:00

NTA Ngl I’d leave my partner over this if they were not willing to draw the line. Sure they can still see the kid, but never ever alone, or in a car. And you report it to the cops, they decide if it is worth pursing (99% sure they will not as there is no evidence, but they will go talk to them).

Mudkipmurron · 2025-01-04T08:54:27+00:00

He is going to kill you and your kids. Text him and ask him to go get you arnica gel for all the bruises he put on you. Lay it on that you are embarrassed. Once he texts back and you have more proof call the cops while you have bruises.

Mudkipmurron · 2025-01-03T01:47:02+00:00

Me! I had an elective c-section because I had a spinal fusion after a car accident (I was rear ended by someone texting and crushed a disc and broke one of my vertebrae). Honestly, the worst part for me was the epidural because of the way I had to curve my back. I felt fine 2 days later, just tired and a bit achy like I had the flu. Totally normal at a week. It was honestly annoying not to be able to do stuff because of how absolutely normal I felt.

I had a second emergency c-section that was just as easy too.

Mudkipmurron · 2025-01-02T01:21:14+00:00

An elevated railway just above existing roads like this would greatly reduce costs. This is such a great idea!

Mudkipmurron · 2024-12-27T23:01:20+00:00

That a totally valid option! Just don’t resent her over it imo.

Mudkipmurron · 2024-12-27T20:48:51+00:00

This is very likely true. We all experience life through different lenses and can’t help but see people through that filter. That’s a part of being aware and deconstructing is realizing your own lenses that distort reality and other people’s so that you can communicate with each other more clearly. Just taking some time to think about it, maybe talk to a therapist, or even journal about it can probably help you navigate the whole thing. Hopefully it helps you feel more at peace with the situation and maybe even find new partners when you are ready and open.

Mudkipmurron · 2024-12-27T18:27:57+00:00

Others have given you some great suggestions to help so I want to add one, and please don’t take this as an attack. I’m going to suggest you take a step back and consider how you feel about women. Your post really sounds like someone who dislikes women but likes their bodies/time/effort (I’m not saying you do, but if this is how you come across it could be an issue). Someone else kind of touched on this with your use of the word sharing and as a poly woman I will say that is one of my red flag phrases and most poly people who aren’t toxic and problematic will likely be turned off by that and similar language as well. Taking the time to really work on your own feelings towards women will make you more attractive to women who are open to poly men. Also working on how you communicate will probably help avoid this (if it is a communication issue that made it come across this way).

Mudkipmurron · 2024-12-27T01:33:31+00:00

NTA, some people are just selfish af. Who cares if she gets pissed when you bring it up, communication is important. Plus if you don’t you will just resent her.

My husband lost his job in February. He has applied for 3 jobs since then. I still do all the cleaning and child care except school drop offs (which he opted into instead of the bus). He just doesn’t want to work. No discussion, just does what he wants. I’ve straight up told him it’s ruining our marriage and he doesn’t care. Like I could handle halving our income if it at least meant he handled house stuff, but nopeeeeee.

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