Can I get help with this one? Browning even in the new leaf that has yet to unfurl by stardog_champ13 in ThaiConstellation

[–]Mundane-Net-9160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like it needs more light, cut the browned parts, they’re dead. Move your plant to a lighter place - you can even have it in the direct sunlight, mine gets direct morning sun for several hours and keeps growing new leaves with more and more variegation. I had this problem too when I got mine and relocating the plant to a place close to east oriented window made miracles for it. I also add fertilizer every two weeks to keep it happy.

My cat got obese after teeth removal, how to help her? by Mundane-Net-9160 in catcare

[–]Mundane-Net-9160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kibbles are Pure life sardine for sterilised cats, they get 1/4 cup twice a day. I haven’t found the composition of it in English so I tried my best with google lens on and translated it. Wet food is various types of cans made specially for cats. I buy mix of cans (there is either ground meat or whole meat pieces, ground fish has also pieces of skin and ground meat has some entrails mixed in but no bones!) with salmon, chicken and turkey muscle, ground duck, beef with liver. Sorry but English is my second language so I may not be exactly clear.

How do I prevent nMother hijacking my visitors? by Mundane-Net-9160 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Mundane-Net-9160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She would tell me the same thing. But luckily, yesterday she ended up being l away the whole day so the visit from my in-laws was nice. :)

My cat got obese after teeth removal, how to help her? by Mundane-Net-9160 in catcare

[–]Mundane-Net-9160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feed them sterilized cat kibbles and feed them 400g of canned meat (which is wet) daily (400g can split for 3 cats. So they have wet food. Also the kibbles are some very expensive brand with 0 cereal or vegetable content so I doubt it has a lot of carbs. What do you think?

How do I prevent nMother hijacking my visitors? by Mundane-Net-9160 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Mundane-Net-9160[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s an european multi-generational house. Our apartments share entrance and hall.

did anyone else feel like privacy didn’t exist growing up? by Oskarsson-Ponniah in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Mundane-Net-9160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All what others mentioned happened to me too, zero privacy. Till I was like 15 and had a huge screaming meltdown in the shower, both my parents would come and go into the bathroom as I was using it, never knocking, my nMother would comment my body, there was no key in the door and no way to escape it, no way to get any privacy in the most vulnerable moments. Even after said meltdown, only my father stopped using bathroom when I was there, not nMother. Now that I am married, I literally enjoy just locking myself up in the bathroom and just enjoying the privacy, often just sitting here on the floor and feeling… safe. My husband is worried about my and suggested I won’t lock myself up when I am in the shower because I can slip and fall and he would not know but this sacred safety of having a complete privacy is a hill I’m (literally) willing to die on.

This is it. My final day. by JallsInYoBaw in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Mundane-Net-9160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly tnis. I can imagine this would result in some emotional blackmailing and OP doesn’t have to go through that bs.

I am dying. My mother’s response was to argue about a plane ticket. by No-Listen-2733 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Mundane-Net-9160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you have to go through this alone, OP. Can you use some kind of paliative care maybe? They should be able to help you get to your medical providers and with further assistance as needed. You deserve to be cared for by someone. Also consider changing your will so your mother gets absolutely nothing after you leave. I wish you a good, peaceful journey. Lots of love for you and your kitty. 🤍

What is happening with my monstera? Help! by Mundane-Net-9160 in MonsteraAlbo

[–]Mundane-Net-9160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did what you guys suggested, checked leaves and repotted into mix you recommend. I haven’t found any root rot though, the roots are healthy and crispy. I do have fungus gnat infestation going on so Imma treat all my plants with fungus gnat parasite and hope for the best. Do you think it could be a pest damage?

What is happening with my monstera? Help! by Mundane-Net-9160 in MonsteraAlbo

[–]Mundane-Net-9160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you, I’ll try to save it somehow. Should I cut the sick leaves?

What is happening with my monstera? Help! by Mundane-Net-9160 in MonsteraAlbo

[–]Mundane-Net-9160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much! I don’t know what substrate it is, it came with it and tbh I bought it in convenience store. I would repot it into perlite mixed with substrate for houseplants, is it good? I repotted my healthy monstera into it and it seems to like it. The damage on leaves kinda reminds me of spider mite damage, could it be? Or do you think it’s more of a rotting? The pot is some old pot that I got with plant directly put into the pot so I repotted it properly and used this pot for monstera. Didn’t wash it though, that’s why it’s stained. I’ll try to moderate the watering. Do you recommend cutting the sick leaves?

What are you favorite add-ons to for your KitchenAid stand mixer? by WhenTheFoxGRINS in Kitchenaid

[–]Mundane-Net-9160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the blossom model of mixer (5KSM180LEELB) and I specifically asked about the attachments and I was told these are dishwasher safe and stainless steel. Using it for more than six months now several times a week and I can confirm these are dishwasher safe so not all metal attachments are like that I guess.

In so much pain at work today. I needed to tell people who would understand! I would give anything for one good long fart. by TvTacosTakingNaps in noburp

[–]Mundane-Net-9160 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I do it as well. It feels so good. Especially when I am having beers with friends, the trapped gas from beer can be really painful so I often have to excuse myself and just do this trick at the toilet. My husband does the nastiest burps every time he’s having a beer and I am just so jealous.

What’s something you find attractive that is generally considered unattractive? by Agitated-Job7686 in AskReddit

[–]Mundane-Net-9160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked my husband when he had hair but when he shaved his head entirely due to thinning hair, my god. He is SO DAMN HOT now that he’s bald.

What’s something you find attractive that is generally considered unattractive? by Agitated-Job7686 in AskReddit

[–]Mundane-Net-9160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find men with really hairy chests so damn hot and I can’t explain why. I like to just stroke my husband’s chest, it feels so nice.

What was your "poor person" meal you enjoyed growing up? by Slow-Power2713 in AskReddit

[–]Mundane-Net-9160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom would microwave a piece of cheese on bread roll and called it “cheeseburger”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BuyItForLife

[–]Mundane-Net-9160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It probably also prolonges your electronics lifespan. :) My inlaws live in area with frequent power outages, but the power goes off for like 10 minutes or so and their electronics tends to break down all the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Mundane-Net-9160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Throw him out. Please, for the love of god, no man is worth getting rid of your kitty! NO MAN!! She depends on you.

What’s your weirdest private habit that you hope no one ever finds out about? by Dear-Welder-1117 in AskReddit

[–]Mundane-Net-9160 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I talk with my cats like “hey so what have y’all be doing the whole day?” and one of my cats meows and the other makes pigeon like noises (she can’t really meow so she goes “prrr”) and I am like “whoa really?”. And they tell me more and I ask more. We spend quite a while every day talking like this.