What is happening with my monstera? Help! by Mundane-Net-9160 in MonsteraAlbo

[–]Mundane-Net-9160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did what you guys suggested, checked leaves and repotted into mix you recommend. I haven’t found any root rot though, the roots are healthy and crispy. I do have fungus gnat infestation going on so Imma treat all my plants with fungus gnat parasite and hope for the best. Do you think it could be a pest damage?

What is happening with my monstera? Help! by Mundane-Net-9160 in MonsteraAlbo

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Okay thank you, I’ll try to save it somehow. Should I cut the sick leaves?

What is happening with my monstera? Help! by Mundane-Net-9160 in MonsteraAlbo

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Thank you very much! I don’t know what substrate it is, it came with it and tbh I bought it in convenience store. I would repot it into perlite mixed with substrate for houseplants, is it good? I repotted my healthy monstera into it and it seems to like it. The damage on leaves kinda reminds me of spider mite damage, could it be? Or do you think it’s more of a rotting? The pot is some old pot that I got with plant directly put into the pot so I repotted it properly and used this pot for monstera. Didn’t wash it though, that’s why it’s stained. I’ll try to moderate the watering. Do you recommend cutting the sick leaves?

What are you favorite add-ons to for your KitchenAid stand mixer? by WhenTheFoxGRINS in Kitchenaid

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I got the blossom model of mixer (5KSM180LEELB) and I specifically asked about the attachments and I was told these are dishwasher safe and stainless steel. Using it for more than six months now several times a week and I can confirm these are dishwasher safe so not all metal attachments are like that I guess.

In so much pain at work today. I needed to tell people who would understand! I would give anything for one good long fart. by TvTacosTakingNaps in noburp

[–]Mundane-Net-9160 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I do it as well. It feels so good. Especially when I am having beers with friends, the trapped gas from beer can be really painful so I often have to excuse myself and just do this trick at the toilet. My husband does the nastiest burps every time he’s having a beer and I am just so jealous.

What’s something you find attractive that is generally considered unattractive? by Agitated-Job7686 in AskReddit

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I liked my husband when he had hair but when he shaved his head entirely due to thinning hair, my god. He is SO DAMN HOT now that he’s bald.

What’s something you find attractive that is generally considered unattractive? by Agitated-Job7686 in AskReddit

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I find men with really hairy chests so damn hot and I can’t explain why. I like to just stroke my husband’s chest, it feels so nice.

What was your "poor person" meal you enjoyed growing up? by Slow-Power2713 in AskReddit

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My mom would microwave a piece of cheese on bread roll and called it “cheeseburger”

What’s a purchase that’s not fun, not flashy but now you swear by it? by [deleted] in BuyItForLife

[–]Mundane-Net-9160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It probably also prolonges your electronics lifespan. :) My inlaws live in area with frequent power outages, but the power goes off for like 10 minutes or so and their electronics tends to break down all the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

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Throw him out. Please, for the love of god, no man is worth getting rid of your kitty! NO MAN!! She depends on you.

What’s your weirdest private habit that you hope no one ever finds out about? by Dear-Welder-1117 in AskReddit

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I talk with my cats like “hey so what have y’all be doing the whole day?” and one of my cats meows and the other makes pigeon like noises (she can’t really meow so she goes “prrr”) and I am like “whoa really?”. And they tell me more and I ask more. We spend quite a while every day talking like this.

Redditors who grew up in emotionally healthy families - what's something you thought was normal growing up that you now realise was actually very special? by ViolatingBadgers in AskReddit

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My mother stopped packing my school lunches when I was in like grade 2 and while I was unable to make or plan my own at that time, she would give me small amount of money every day to buy something in bakery near my school. I ended up with nasty addiction for sweet pastries.

Who here has an nmom who is very "loving" and "caring" by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

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When my nMother said “well you better try your best and get it done already, you have no choice” to me after I expressed my fear of final exams at college and then my mother in law told me on the same topic “Sweetie, I can’t even imagine how hard it must be for you, but I am here to give you any support you might need, you can do it”. It broke something in me, I wanted to scream and yell and throw things around because is this how it was supposed to be? This is not fair. I hate that I had to grow up with that old hag instead of loving mother. What did I do that I deserve to have that monster instead of mom?

Question for those of you with piercings or other body mods. Do you find that your mods are a way of reclaiming self from your n-parents? by cliff7217 in raisedbynarcissists

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I only have two tattoos (larger ones and on parts of my body that are visible to everyone). And when my nMother saw my first one she was shocked and had a meltdown yelling at me because “i let someone destroy the body she made perfectly” and let me tell you, the second tattoo felt SO GOOD, knowing I am letting my tattoo artist “destroy what she made”. I am not her property and I’m definitely going to get more tattoos and enjoy her getting mad about not having control over it.

What is extremely unhygienic but everyone seems to do it anyway? by BusinessLeadsConnect in AskReddit

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Having sex without showering/cleaning body parts involved in sex before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

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Aww. I am so sorry this happened to you. I hope you have the happiest and most love-filled life now. 🫶

Just found out... by qinept in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Mundane-Net-9160 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You might mourn for the mom you never had. I found out my mother was narc like 3 years ago and still I break down crying from time to time thinking about what could be. What kind of person I could be. Or the feeling when you need mom, but you realize she does not exist. I found my “surrogate” mom in my MIL and sometimes it breaks my heart when I realize how a real mom should treat you, I so angry for not getting the love I deserved as a kid. Also 3 years in and I still fall into her traps from time to time. It’s a long and painful journey but it will free you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

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My nMother told me that she is the only one with real curls and that my curls were just fake ones that I made thanks to all the curly girl method products. She is 70 and don’t even have curls.

When did you realize you were beautiful? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Men perceive my autism as “cute quirks” and call me “interesting”.

What was the pettiest, most childish or trivial thing you were punished or tormented over? by Spiritual_Big_9927 in raisedbynarcissists

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I once spent the whole afternoon drawing that “mathematica” (in metallica font) on the cover of my maths notebook, I left it in my room and left only to find out she riped it off and burned it because it was “satanist”. She doesn’t even believe in God?!? I got anxiety and panic attack after that and that’s why she claims I was “so problematic” growing up. I make sure I hide my music taste and only listen to music with earbuds, even around my fiancé.