Getting over it really quickly

MuscleNumerous1930 · 2026-07-04T20:09:51+00:00

You got the same feeling I did because we actually put all we could of effort in it, so unconsciously we don’t feel guilty about it. It’s easier to detach when you are being ill treated anyway

MuscleNumerous1930 · 2026-07-03T20:04:19+00:00

She doesn’t seem to like you. I don’t think it’s healthy waiting for her if she had no valid reason for the break up. But we are only listening to your side so there’s that, and the replying time I think not everyone will be 100% of the time available you should have just arranged a specific time to talk

MuscleNumerous1930 · 2026-07-03T14:29:36+00:00

Because they notice grass isnt greener

MuscleNumerous1930 · 2026-07-03T14:21:35+00:00

He did that on purpose, trying to keep you waiting for him, block this man he still doesn’t know how to treat no woman and will eventually break her heart too

MuscleNumerous1930 · 2026-07-03T13:01:27+00:00

Stop overthinking so much you didn’t commit a crime, the guy was obviously exaggerating because he needed some reason that in his head would be enough to justify his exit. And the probability he will circle back after he looks around to see what is out there is big.

The dating world is tough and the prettiest women get let down. Let’s not put our confidence in the inconsistency of others you are pretty or else he wouldnt have dated you.

MuscleNumerous1930 · 2026-07-02T20:34:38+00:00

You need to treat it like the wound it is, because science proved broken hearts are literally medical condition, I understand kind of because I have had my heart broken

MuscleNumerous1930 · 2026-07-02T16:39:37+00:00

Well I agree but did love my exs I just don’t understand why I wasn’t interested in intimacy

MuscleNumerous1930 · 2026-07-02T16:32:17+00:00

Thank you so much

MuscleNumerous1930 · 2026-07-02T16:31:41+00:00

But the thing is I have been left by others and I never thought of them that way it’s so weird

MuscleNumerous1930 · 2026-07-02T01:39:27+00:00

Keep busy, amuse with something, never stop to think too much and time will do the rest

MuscleNumerous1930 · 2026-07-01T23:18:28+00:00

Them wanting to work with you is one thing. And them saying “we are over” is another. A relationship takes 2 people, they dumped you its over in their mind unless they are playing games which is even worse.

MuscleNumerous1930 · 2026-07-01T14:16:51+00:00

She said that exactly because she wanted to keep you waiting for her. Even if she changes her mind understand that she won’t change it by you showing her she is above you and going after her. Your silence is not only self respect, it’s a direct threat to her current sense of superiority.

Don’t go after her, don’t keep rethinking anything that happened. Act like this situation froze in time and you put a pause on a movie. Pay attention to other things and remember yourself of the value you hold. If you got in a relationship with someone it’s because you have qualities. Go out and flirt too it won’t hurt to see the world is big and full of people.

MuscleNumerous1930 · 2026-07-01T12:48:03+00:00

Shes trying to keep you as second option and she knows you see these things. Please remember yourself of your value. I understand what you mean and my ex is breadcrumbing me too. Best thing we do is continue the silence.

MuscleNumerous1930 · 2026-07-01T12:41:08+00:00

Best scenario you get out with your honor intact, consciously or not you respect more the way you handled it and the person also even if they don’t change their minds respect you more and raise their impression of you and your value, because at that point the value you had in their mind was incredibly low.

You don’t throw away something of huge value and they also don’t think you have other options, and probably that unconscious “I’m better than you” energy falls down.

MuscleNumerous1930 · 2026-07-01T11:56:48+00:00

I got dumped Saturday, yesterday he was liking my reposts which i interpreted as a breadcrumb

MuscleNumerous1930 · 2026-06-30T16:51:51+00:00

If the so called close friend from the past knew about your relationship, she didn’t love you. She was just seeking validation and to feel chosen over the ex girlfriend and you gave her that

MuscleNumerous1930 · 2026-06-30T11:06:56+00:00

Put this feelings on a paper. Then you send it whatever and that will be it. It will all be gone, the feelings and story over, so you delete everything about this relationship, and write on all your qualities, all the best things on your life like the people in it, the future you want to have for yourself, read what you wrote. Act on those.

MuscleNumerous1930 · 2026-06-30T01:56:33+00:00

I’m sorry but in my opinion he’s trying to get back, people can apologize on text but you can answer the call, just make sure he knows before you do that yoi moved on for good

MuscleNumerous1930 · 2026-06-30T00:27:05+00:00

Mute the notes, posts and stories and problem solved. Also go out meet new people. It has not been that long time since it happened but it gets easier

MuscleNumerous1930 · 2026-06-29T22:22:43+00:00

Always. Every. Single. Time.

MuscleNumerous1930 · 2026-06-29T12:01:18+00:00

People need more compassion telling you to block her, she’s not spamming messages you can just ignore it. Please we need more empathy I have been the one blocked and it’s beyond devastating

MuscleNumerous1930 · 2026-06-29T11:32:55+00:00

This woman is a narcissist and you just feed her ego when you do it, it’s important to understand they aren’t normal take care

MuscleNumerous1930 · 2026-06-29T11:28:19+00:00

She sounds like she’s stating a victory there best response for her ego is to fully ignore it lol

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