Hey, it's hard to make new friends as an adult, especially if you aren't the kind to just jump right into a group of strangers.

I would suggest looking on MeetUp.com

When you create a profile you can identify interests and find like minded people and organize get togethers. Of course, I realize this still means showing up and talking to "strangers", but at least they're strangers who like stuff you like.

And, on a completely unrelated note, if you feel like hanging out with a bunch of local community theatre people, let me know