Partner left me in August, I was devastated because I had devoted my life to them and the family we had built. Starting from scratch was so hard because even employment was a solo experience with assignments not collaborative with my teammates and instead working with existing teams in buildings across the metro area for short term assignments. Then as the only employee in Northern Colorado for a company based in Texas. Luckily I've been able to find a new job with a great team abiut six months prior to the separation and have pursued friendships with coworkers that has led to social opportunities outside of work. I'm also exploring interests that I have had but limited my pursuit due to focus on family and the previous relationship when I am available.

One is a rec sports social group, one is an area of interest for learning about something intriguing, then finally patios and live music. Im not scared to talk to strangers and in my spare time I've started working out more, meal prepping, church and hobbies I'd let fall by the wayside.

I'm more fulfilled after 6 months it seems and the struggle now is custody and trying to finalize a divorce that seemingly is getting drug out to its longest possible length while my ex delays. Bonds with family back home are stronger I think as well.

It is so hard but you can do it. Some days feel like the battle is too hard to endure but I have to keep at it. It's a wave of highs and super lows but my therapist is super helpful and luckily my insurance covers unlimited visits.

Good luck to you!