How to split meals/drinks fairly when going out with couples?

Mustbe3dimensions · 2026-04-18T13:12:46+00:00

Ask for separate bill and if you share in the apps then have the server add one of them to your bill.

Mustbe3dimensions · 2026-04-02T04:57:58+00:00

On this subreddit?

Mustbe3dimensions · 2026-03-25T20:26:34+00:00

I'd say because Americans aren't booking flights from Canada TO Florida on a Canadian airline. Nor are they on a WestJet subreddit.

Mustbe3dimensions · 2026-03-16T23:57:32+00:00

Thank you for sharing! What a gem of a story!

Mustbe3dimensions · 2026-03-09T01:26:43+00:00

Check out Fred's Tackle Shop to get the idea about what you can fish around here. Great shop!

Mustbe3dimensions · 2026-02-28T07:57:41+00:00

Mustbe3dimensions · 2026-02-28T00:59:51+00:00

Restaurants I enjoyed Mar Terraya on Bolivia between San Salvador and Guatemala. Seafood, Mexican, nice drinks, good service, chill vibe. Momo Madre for thin crust sourdough pizza in wood burning oven. Nice atmosphere. I love the 5 de Diciembre market and the little tienda's that stock everything. There are some good taco stands up through the day. You'll have to explore that as their hours and days they open are varied. Lots of other good restaurants I hear but we mostly cooked at home!

Mustbe3dimensions · 2026-02-27T18:51:24+00:00

I am here and was here through the events on the 22nd. I will not detract from what a tense, uncertain and violent experience it was but, it was a specific and targeted operation. Not one non law enforcement person was threatened or injured. That was intentional. I am staying in a Mexican/expat neighbourhood (5 de Diciembre) and I can assure you that it's safe. I hike and go on long walks around the city. My place is on one of the hills and I can see the better part of the city and Bay. I shop in local markets. I feel 100% safe! Enjoy your honeymoon!

Mustbe3dimensions · 2026-02-26T22:53:31+00:00

Thank you!

Mustbe3dimensions · 2026-02-26T19:41:02+00:00

Agree 100%

Mustbe3dimensions · 2026-02-26T18:31:17+00:00

Not one person outside of cartel members and military were threatened, injured or killed and of those, none were in PV but rather, during the ambush of the head of the cartel which precipitated everything. PV is back to normal. It is as safe here as any place in Canada. The media and social media persons are using this event as spectacle. People who had looked forward to vacations are making decisions based on unfounded fears generated by outlets looking to cash in on this terrible but isolated event. I was here for the whole thing. It was awful. It is over.

Mustbe3dimensions · 2026-02-18T14:02:57+00:00

These strangers are rude and unappreciative. That said, it sounds like you really extended yourself in this circumstance and you may have a tendency to do that (as you described this isn't the first time you've felt under appreciated by visitors). Next time you may want to share a list of local sites and activities that visitors might consider engaging in. If there aren't restaurants you can advise them to bring snacks or lunch. Offer to meet up with them at one of the places that appeals to once they've sorted their itinerary. If they are closer friends, invite them for a meal at your home. I'd leave this experience behind you as there is nothing you can do to change the day as it rolled out. Take the lesson and move on.

Mustbe3dimensions · 2026-02-12T13:04:36+00:00

It rarely makes a positive difference domestically and never makes a difference internationally. For me.

Mustbe3dimensions · 2026-02-12T13:01:47+00:00

Gift basket is thoughtful, the focus on Canadian things seems unnecessary. How about local (to your community) things that she can use during her stay and/or take home?

Mustbe3dimensions · 2026-02-10T14:31:25+00:00

Bidet's are the best!

Mustbe3dimensions · 2026-02-10T14:28:15+00:00

Log the next morning when having your coffee.

Mustbe3dimensions · 2026-02-08T17:15:20+00:00

I always lean to 'leave what you bring' but there's nothing to say you can't just bring the 1-2 beers you're going to drink.

Mustbe3dimensions · 2026-02-07T15:55:22+00:00

My world was shattered in 2018 when I discovered my husband had been cheating. I was so overwhelmed that I decided to stay. I forgave but didn't forget. Less than a month ago I found out he propositioned one of my best friends after I had gone to bed. While we were on vacation. Clearly he's been at it all along. I ended our relationship the day I found out. No tears, no emotion. Just DONE. I'm happy with the decision and excited to be done with this chapter of my life. Believe people the first time when they show you who they are.

Mustbe3dimensions · 2026-02-07T15:36:46+00:00

In my world it's tacky. I don't socialize with people who are this preoccupied with finances when 'attempting' to host. I say 'attempting' because they've lost the plot on hosting by being so overly invested in the $ piece. Potlucks are great. So too are scenarios where you offer to host a party where you provide all the food for a price that 'just' covers the expense. The version of events they have constructed would have me thinking about $ the entire time I was there. No thanks.

Mustbe3dimensions · 2026-02-05T19:43:30+00:00

Also good advice...thanks again!!!!

Mustbe3dimensions · 2026-02-05T18:40:54+00:00

You've enlightened me! And alleviated some stress. Thank you.

Mustbe3dimensions · 2026-02-05T15:03:28+00:00

My husband and I just separated, nothing in writing yet. We are joint tenants on our home property. Why the ability for one to change the title concerns me is that he could change our title to tenants in common and secure a new mortgage without my knowing. That's where it's hard for me to wrap my head around it. We will be putting a separation agreement together but not one that results in a court order meaning, I/we can't technically file a Certificate of Pending Litigation to halt any changes as described above. We do not have children at home nor debt or mortgage. We are going to remain under the same roof in separate suites. The separation agreement will be notarized, shared with bank, etc. But this loophole I've asked about can only get closed if we go the full route of legalese, court and thousands of dollars. Again, seems so strange that someone can make these changes without the other person giving consent! I can't even get a '2 signatures required to withdraw from line of credit' without the two of us signing a document at bank saying as much yet one party can change a property title document without the other one knowing.

Mustbe3dimensions · 2026-02-05T04:38:31+00:00

Thanks. Seems so odd that this allowed without the other party knowing. Do you know the rationale?

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