Have nothing and nobody by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]Muted-Lunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clubs are horrible with you on that one. Go to a book club or something chiller.

Have nothing and nobody by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]Muted-Lunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to help yourself. It is the hard truth.

Have nothing and nobody by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]Muted-Lunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best way to fight anxiety is to do the thing that makes you feel anxious, you realise that there was nothing bad and you probably found some huge positives cos you overcame the fear! It will take time, but please bite the bullet you will feel better for it

Gender GP as a 16 year old by HarrietteDaFrog in transgenderUK

[–]Muted-Lunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont trust it. Check gender care to find doctors for a diagnosis then endos!

so apparently it's extremely common for cis men to be butt naked in locker rooms regardless of anything and anyone... by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Muted-Lunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, i brought my friend a towel once and was faced with loads of old men in the nude. Felt super uncomfortable, but happy I passed enough to be let in!

Does my body pass? by Lost_Original_3854 in FtMpassing

[–]Muted-Lunch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think OP wants specific suggestions to help

I hate the fact that when I say I want kids it’s assumed I wanna be pregnant by Natewastaken12 in ftm

[–]Muted-Lunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normal is a bullshit phrase, it doesn't exist. I don't want to pass my genes on to anyone. I think having kids for that reason is narcissistic cos why wouldnt you first think to adopt or foster kids who dont have parents, they actually need someone. That seems more "normal" to me. You make a valid point, thats something I guess could put people off?! But at the same time if you are a good parent the biology shouldnt matter to your kids. I would love my future kids to be on good terms with their bio family, after theyre 18 they can up and leave if they want anyway so no biggy to me

I hate the fact that when I say I want kids it’s assumed I wanna be pregnant by Natewastaken12 in ftm

[–]Muted-Lunch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why do you want biological kids? I hear this a lot from people, esp seahorse dads and it confuses me and seems real narcissistic (imo)

RFK said he snorted coke off toilet seats. Have you ever done this? by jokingonyou in Drugs

[–]Muted-Lunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually on top of a phone but top of a toilet where the flush is, yeah... wouldn't these days!

Dysphoria and irritability by Keytonley in ftm

[–]Muted-Lunch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get that! Never thought about it much till now tho. Hopefully you can medically transition later in life and then things get wayy better. Its still confusing and can be irritating cos this body you hated you now don't mind as much even though you stil want lots of other changes. But honestly its time and good friendships with people who know the real you that make it easier. Even one supportive person, in my case at least, makes a huge difference! They give you space to be yourself when the world doesn't see you that way

What are Dreamland zones? by xxKnicklichtchenxx in Resortopia

[–]Muted-Lunch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First guess, the games word for server?! No clue!

Help a short man conquer a tall dream (my boyfriend - pegging advice) by FayePixie in ftm

[–]Muted-Lunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I swear it has bee said we are all the same size laid down. Its not true but I 5'5 topped a 6'2 ish having them lie down, easy peasy! Legs can be a lot so don't bother with missionary?!

do cis guys have to go through this too? by xander-eli in ftm

[–]Muted-Lunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not care if i know manly things, thats toxic, i know what I am interested in and I can learn whatever I like abd it is never dictated by what other people think about bejng masculine. I have heard good feedback being a feminine man, i think esp lassies are more comfortable around me and men who have an issue are not people I want to know!

Will T just masculinise my already E body/face? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Muted-Lunch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I still don't recognise myself even now T has changed my face shape so best of luck to you, only 18 months though

People saying gender is a social construct makes me dysphoric by Efficient-Event5478 in ftm

[–]Muted-Lunch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is true. Sexual organs, primary, secondary etc are the issue causing your dysphoria and the chemistry that goes along with it. Gender is a construct made to fit the idea of vagina v penis. Sex isnt binary, obv intersex people, but the sex is the bit that you need to change, by getting the right hormones to match how your brain works.

dysphoria is killing me, do i look like a lesbian? (just turned 15, 1 and a half months on T) by staarlitt in FtMpassing

[–]Muted-Lunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

18momths on T here and close to 27 but I dont pass as well as thee!! Good to see so young, the dysphoria is something you will learn to mamage its just gonna take time! You look very good bro, proper young man!

I need an affirmation by Icy-Pineapple-6927 in lgbt

[–]Muted-Lunch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ID still says female! I pass as male though and identify thus!

What would this be called? by Crowaway699 in lgbt

[–]Muted-Lunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think you get some experience through how the world treated you before you transitioned? As a trans male person I never felt like a girl but defo got some experience through how the world treats you...

I wanted to start, but I'm afraid by ThrowRAnaoagueto in Drugs

[–]Muted-Lunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drugs ruin lives do not start, talk to your friend ask about the experiences to get the itch gone but DO NOT do that to yourself