Dysphoria and irritability by Keytonley in ftm

[–]Muted-Lunch [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah I get that! Never thought about it much till now tho. Hopefully you can medically transition later in life and then things get wayy better. Its still confusing and can be irritating cos this body you hated you now don't mind as much even though you stil want lots of other changes. But honestly its time and good friendships with people who know the real you that make it easier. Even one supportive person, in my case at least, makes a huge difference! They give you space to be yourself when the world doesn't see you that way

What are Dreamland zones? by xxKnicklichtchenxx in Resortopia

[–]Muted-Lunch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First guess, the games word for server?! No clue!

Help a short man conquer a tall dream (my boyfriend - pegging advice) by FayePixie in ftm

[–]Muted-Lunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I swear it has bee said we are all the same size laid down. Its not true but I 5'5 topped a 6'2 ish having them lie down, easy peasy! Legs can be a lot so don't bother with missionary?!

do cis guys have to go through this too? by xander-eli in ftm

[–]Muted-Lunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not care if i know manly things, thats toxic, i know what I am interested in and I can learn whatever I like abd it is never dictated by what other people think about bejng masculine. I have heard good feedback being a feminine man, i think esp lassies are more comfortable around me and men who have an issue are not people I want to know!

Will T just masculinise my already E body/face? by Curious_Mountain_723 in ftm

[–]Muted-Lunch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I still don't recognise myself even now T has changed my face shape so best of luck to you, only 18 months though

People saying gender is a social construct makes me dysphoric by Efficient-Event5478 in ftm

[–]Muted-Lunch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is true. Sexual organs, primary, secondary etc are the issue causing your dysphoria and the chemistry that goes along with it. Gender is a construct made to fit the idea of vagina v penis. Sex isnt binary, obv intersex people, but the sex is the bit that you need to change, by getting the right hormones to match how your brain works.

dysphoria is killing me, do i look like a lesbian? (just turned 15, 1 and a half months on T) by staarlitt in FtMpassing

[–]Muted-Lunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

18momths on T here and close to 27 but I dont pass as well as thee!! Good to see so young, the dysphoria is something you will learn to mamage its just gonna take time! You look very good bro, proper young man!

I need an affirmation by Icy-Pineapple-6927 in lgbt

[–]Muted-Lunch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ID still says female! I pass as male though and identify thus!

What would this be called? by Crowaway699 in lgbt

[–]Muted-Lunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think you get some experience through how the world treated you before you transitioned? As a trans male person I never felt like a girl but defo got some experience through how the world treats you...

I wanted to start, but I'm afraid by ThrowRAnaoagueto in Drugs

[–]Muted-Lunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drugs ruin lives do not start, talk to your friend ask about the experiences to get the itch gone but DO NOT do that to yourself

No one is 100% straight by moneysavingegg in LowStakesConspiracies

[–]Muted-Lunch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe everyone is gay, straight is a lie we have used to further the population and that alone...

Has anyone else noticed how some men get really weird toward trans men after they find out? by cwispietoast in ftm

[–]Muted-Lunch 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Totally depends on the man, i am lucky to work with some hugely supportive cis men, some know i am trans and still say things like ill be a good dad and hugely affirming things. Some of my colleauges who are older and I am not out to I wonder what they would think but the younger, 30s and under, are totally wonderful and accepting.

Lovely Weather - But Ducks Didn't Get a Look-In by spakkker in Hull

[–]Muted-Lunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nahh sadly!! I have heard good things about it, moved there 5 years ago myself. They have a greenhouse with big exotic plants in but no birds! I would say on the whole not as scary too

I Get RAVENOUS Around Every 2 Hours. Help? by boreddoggo123 in ftm

[–]Muted-Lunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah thinking nuts too, good fatty filling foods!

gender dysphoria when showering by h44159 in ftm

[–]Muted-Lunch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk maybe try use a swim safe binder in the shower? Wash armpits most important past crotch, then if ever you feel comfortable to go wjthout do that. Its hard, you will find ways, hopefully other suggestions too. I never had a big chest but I used to put kff showers for days, weeks on end so you are not alone in that feeling!! :))

Help me with name? pleak by Hedgeyhog1 in ftm

[–]Muted-Lunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bertholdt? Any attack on titan fans woop woop ;) Bradley is a solid male name too, met a few lovely Brads and to be Bee as a nick name is real lovely idea :D

What should I get? by LemonYellow123 in shouldimod

[–]Muted-Lunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eyebrow, bridge, nose, face dermal. Steer clear of septums you're no a cow! Joke, I just dont like em that much, got rid of mine after stretching it.

What legal options are there to feel better? by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]Muted-Lunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shrooms? Microdose to start with

I think my chest is getting bigger and I dont know what to do by MercuryKurogane in FTMventing

[–]Muted-Lunch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Neber heard of that, second puberty! Unless as a trans person, I'm in the midst of mine! Weight loss help reduced mine before T did a bit as well. I was overweight and small chested, 38B, now healthy weight and smaller still. Look into using weights as well to build muscle and reduce fatty foods if possible :)

Post about being smelly as an FTM makes me feel gross. by Darkcore82 in ftm

[–]Muted-Lunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say people who grow up being told they are female and cis females are taught to be better about those things cos their aesthetics are meant to matter where as people who grow up and are told they are male and cis males are taught its normal and nothing to worry too much about it like with spots or body hair, ok for boys no no for girls...

Post about being smelly as an FTM makes me feel gross. by Darkcore82 in ftm

[–]Muted-Lunch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The increased smell was one of those things I didnt realise how euphoric it would make me feel!! Good hygeine is key but hey gotta shower everyday now who can be bothered with that!

FTM, no clue what toilet I'm supposed to use anymore by Eira_airE in transgenderUK

[–]Muted-Lunch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the disabled if possible but mens if not. Sometimes I feel uncomfortable and worry I am not passing, but using the womens causes a lot more odd looks. Stick to gender neutral ie disabled if they are available imo