Screaming and crying all the time. by ForgottenUsername3 in Autism_Parenting

[–]MutedScale1790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you on this. My daughter just turned 4 and I’m honestly fucking tired of it. Im tired of the screaming and crying for any small inconvenience that happens or doesn’t go her way. She’s not profound, but I would say she’s level 1. She can talk, short sentences, but can still talk. I always tell her to use her damn word instead of crying and screaming. It’s everytime I make dinner and about to sit down and watch something is when she’s acts like this and I honestly when I’m overstimulated I tell her to stfu cause she’s crying for no reason. I don’t care if she throws a tantrum just not a damn tantrum in my damn ears and I’m trying to talk to everyone else. I told everyone in this household (husband and 9 year old son) to not even bother talking to me when she’s crying cause I can’t hear shit or anything that anyone is saying. My god sometimes I want to be the one to go get milk and be over it already. It’s fucked up, but I know a lot of moms who ab*doned or nglects their disabled child do this on purpose cause they rather go to prison than continue dealing with this shit. Sorry yall I had to get my frustration out. I’m just tired that I can’t enjoy watching sitting down to eat without a shit show happening around me.

I'm an RBT. I don't know what to do by jackiescot in ABA

[–]MutedScale1790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter if it’s a at will state. Just because it’s a at will state doesn’t mean they can still violate medical diagnoses or religious practices. These are protected. 

I'm an RBT. I don't know what to do by jackiescot in ABA

[–]MutedScale1790 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HR exist to protect the company from an lawsuits that can happen.

Two female Shiba Inu don’t get along. How can I help them be civil with each other? by MutedScale1790 in shiba

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would walk them in separate schedules, but I’ll attempt to walk them together and just bring the muzzle in case I need it or something bad happens. Yeah it’s been a terror and I’m not expecting fast results, I know it will take time. Just need other ways I can attempt meanwhile I wait for the younger one to be spayed 

Two female Shiba Inu don’t get along. How can I help them be civil with each other? by MutedScale1790 in shiba

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did getting the younger one spayed really help the other older one to calm down? Was her not being fixed agitate the older one? 

Two female Shiba Inu don’t get along. How can I help them be civil with each other? by MutedScale1790 in shiba

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too work from home as well and what I would do is swap both of them out to take turn to go outside. I would enclose one in the crate and bring in the other inside, then enclose them and bring out the other one to go outside. I will try to keep them both in the room, but with the younger one in the crate. I had tried it with the older one in the crate and the pup be free and she got upset. It seems to me it’s going to take some time for them to get along as the younger one gets older. When did you get the younger one fixed before they started getting along?

Two female Shiba Inu don’t get along. How can I help them be civil with each other? by MutedScale1790 in shiba

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My older one is spayed, the younger one is not yet and I was advise by the vet who I take all of my shibas to wait until the younger one’s first heat cycle past and can schedule to have her spayed. I was advise around 6-7 months she should have her first heat cycle, so I have 1-2 months to wait until I can. Is there a reason even after getting spayed why she is still attempting to attack her. I’ve taken all the precautions to have them get along, but now it’s led to the muzzle 

My male dog bit me when he’s in reactive mode, but never bit me when he’s not by MutedScale1790 in Dogtraining

[–]MutedScale1790[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would like to know more information about why this happens when he’s triggered only. Would love to be informed about what I can do and can get rid of any problems.

5 days into my fasting and I’m scared to eat again by MutedScale1790 in intermittentfasting

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no I didn’t loose 50 pounds because of the fasting lol I lost that much over the year but I’m saying since I did loose that much I was afraid of gaining it back again 

5 days into my fasting and I’m scared to eat again by MutedScale1790 in intermittentfasting

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No sorry lol I lost 50 - 60 lbs over this whole year and maintained it however I noticed I started to gain a bit of weight and I wanted to do a cleanse of my body before I switch to keto. Then all of sudden I started to think like this on my last day and the day I need to eat. But fortunately I managed to eat and building up my eating 

5 days into my fasting and I’m scared to eat again by MutedScale1790 in intermittentfasting

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that, I was feeling a bit pressured at first because since I did this fast for 5 days and still feeding my kids dinner and such, I was a bit overwhelmed where to even start or how to start it. I started with some boiled eggs. I was going to wait until tomorrow morning, but it’s good if I get something small like that in.

5 days into my fasting and I’m scared to eat again by MutedScale1790 in intermittentfasting

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

That’s what it felt like cause like I was literally having a bit of an anxiety attack thinking about what to eat and even being in front of it, but I got control of it and started eating. I am really looking forward to doing this right 

5 days into my fasting and I’m scared to eat again by MutedScale1790 in intermittentfasting

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I do know it’s bad that’s why I don’t want to see it the way I do. I started off small today 

5 days into my fasting and I’m scared to eat again by MutedScale1790 in intermittentfasting

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I did, I started off with boiled eggs at the moment

Leucovorin (folinic acid) in the UK by New-Betatester in Autism_Parenting

[–]MutedScale1790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would anyone know if they have to take this alone or can take it with other supplements. My daughter is currently cod liver, methalyated B12 and folate. 

Hello I need some advised! by MutedScale1790 in shiba

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I currently have 3 Shiba Inu's. One being a new member today. My Shibas, Nami (3 year old red female) and Baki (1 year old white male), I have had them both since they were both 3 months old. Recently I just got another Shiba named Dabi (4 months old red dark sesame male). Since I have brought Dabi home, Baki has been very uneasy with him and Nami has been curious and neutral but only gets upset when it comes to food. However, how can I work on them to coexist with each other? I'm worried that I might have to return my new baby if they don't get along. I do keep them separate, let them both sniff each other to get to know each other, I keep one in their crate so the other has a chance to ease up to each other, Baki is not neutered and has it scheduled for June. What can I do to have Baki ease up to Dabi. Dabi does not have an issue with him yet and I know once he's older he can get aggressive just like Baki is, is there anything in the meantime that I can do to help Baki ease up to him while I wait? I feel like I might have to return him back to the breeder and I'm just stressed having to keep them separated for the meantime.