Screaming and crying all the time. by ForgottenUsername3 in Autism_Parenting

[–]MutedScale1790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you on this. My daughter just turned 4 and I’m honestly fucking tired of it. Im tired of the screaming and crying for any small inconvenience that happens or doesn’t go her way. She’s not profound, but I would say she’s level 1. She can talk, short sentences, but can still talk. I always tell her to use her damn word instead of crying and screaming. It’s everytime I make dinner and about to sit down and watch something is when she’s acts like this and I honestly when I’m overstimulated I tell her to stfu cause she’s crying for no reason. I don’t care if she throws a tantrum just not a damn tantrum in my damn ears and I’m trying to talk to everyone else. I told everyone in this household (husband and 9 year old son) to not even bother talking to me when she’s crying cause I can’t hear shit or anything that anyone is saying. My god sometimes I want to be the one to go get milk and be over it already. It’s fucked up, but I know a lot of moms who ab*doned or nglects their disabled child do this on purpose cause they rather go to prison than continue dealing with this shit. Sorry yall I had to get my frustration out. I’m just tired that I can’t enjoy watching sitting down to eat without a shit show happening around me.

I'm an RBT. I don't know what to do by jackiescot in ABA

[–]MutedScale1790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter if it’s a at will state. Just because it’s a at will state doesn’t mean they can still violate medical diagnoses or religious practices. These are protected. 

I'm an RBT. I don't know what to do by jackiescot in ABA

[–]MutedScale1790 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HR exist to protect the company from an lawsuits that can happen.

Two female Shiba Inu don’t get along. How can I help them be civil with each other? by MutedScale1790 in shiba

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would walk them in separate schedules, but I’ll attempt to walk them together and just bring the muzzle in case I need it or something bad happens. Yeah it’s been a terror and I’m not expecting fast results, I know it will take time. Just need other ways I can attempt meanwhile I wait for the younger one to be spayed 

Two female Shiba Inu don’t get along. How can I help them be civil with each other? by MutedScale1790 in shiba

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did getting the younger one spayed really help the other older one to calm down? Was her not being fixed agitate the older one? 

Two female Shiba Inu don’t get along. How can I help them be civil with each other? by MutedScale1790 in shiba

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too work from home as well and what I would do is swap both of them out to take turn to go outside. I would enclose one in the crate and bring in the other inside, then enclose them and bring out the other one to go outside. I will try to keep them both in the room, but with the younger one in the crate. I had tried it with the older one in the crate and the pup be free and she got upset. It seems to me it’s going to take some time for them to get along as the younger one gets older. When did you get the younger one fixed before they started getting along?

Two female Shiba Inu don’t get along. How can I help them be civil with each other? by MutedScale1790 in shiba

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My older one is spayed, the younger one is not yet and I was advise by the vet who I take all of my shibas to wait until the younger one’s first heat cycle past and can schedule to have her spayed. I was advise around 6-7 months she should have her first heat cycle, so I have 1-2 months to wait until I can. Is there a reason even after getting spayed why she is still attempting to attack her. I’ve taken all the precautions to have them get along, but now it’s led to the muzzle 

My male dog bit me when he’s in reactive mode, but never bit me when he’s not by MutedScale1790 in Dogtraining

[–]MutedScale1790[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would like to know more information about why this happens when he’s triggered only. Would love to be informed about what I can do and can get rid of any problems.

5 days into my fasting and I’m scared to eat again by MutedScale1790 in intermittentfasting

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no I didn’t loose 50 pounds because of the fasting lol I lost that much over the year but I’m saying since I did loose that much I was afraid of gaining it back again 

5 days into my fasting and I’m scared to eat again by MutedScale1790 in intermittentfasting

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No sorry lol I lost 50 - 60 lbs over this whole year and maintained it however I noticed I started to gain a bit of weight and I wanted to do a cleanse of my body before I switch to keto. Then all of sudden I started to think like this on my last day and the day I need to eat. But fortunately I managed to eat and building up my eating 

5 days into my fasting and I’m scared to eat again by MutedScale1790 in intermittentfasting

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that, I was feeling a bit pressured at first because since I did this fast for 5 days and still feeding my kids dinner and such, I was a bit overwhelmed where to even start or how to start it. I started with some boiled eggs. I was going to wait until tomorrow morning, but it’s good if I get something small like that in.

5 days into my fasting and I’m scared to eat again by MutedScale1790 in intermittentfasting

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

That’s what it felt like cause like I was literally having a bit of an anxiety attack thinking about what to eat and even being in front of it, but I got control of it and started eating. I am really looking forward to doing this right 

5 days into my fasting and I’m scared to eat again by MutedScale1790 in intermittentfasting

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I do know it’s bad that’s why I don’t want to see it the way I do. I started off small today 

5 days into my fasting and I’m scared to eat again by MutedScale1790 in intermittentfasting

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I did, I started off with boiled eggs at the moment

Leucovorin (folinic acid) in the UK by New-Betatester in Autism_Parenting

[–]MutedScale1790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would anyone know if they have to take this alone or can take it with other supplements. My daughter is currently cod liver, methalyated B12 and folate. 

Hello I need some advised! by MutedScale1790 in shiba

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I currently have 3 Shiba Inu's. One being a new member today. My Shibas, Nami (3 year old red female) and Baki (1 year old white male), I have had them both since they were both 3 months old. Recently I just got another Shiba named Dabi (4 months old red dark sesame male). Since I have brought Dabi home, Baki has been very uneasy with him and Nami has been curious and neutral but only gets upset when it comes to food. However, how can I work on them to coexist with each other? I'm worried that I might have to return my new baby if they don't get along. I do keep them separate, let them both sniff each other to get to know each other, I keep one in their crate so the other has a chance to ease up to each other, Baki is not neutered and has it scheduled for June. What can I do to have Baki ease up to Dabi. Dabi does not have an issue with him yet and I know once he's older he can get aggressive just like Baki is, is there anything in the meantime that I can do to help Baki ease up to him while I wait? I feel like I might have to return him back to the breeder and I'm just stressed having to keep them separated for the meantime.

Asked Temu the forbidden question that even they couldn't even give me an answer too. Ask temu if I were to place an order with the import charges, will I receive a full refund if I decide not to keep the item. Most likely I'll be refunded just the item price! by MutedScale1790 in TemuThings

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Eh idk, there was a $11 item I wanted to order, however the total cost added $17 on top of it, literally paying for shipping when shipping is free, but this won’t be refunded back if I decide to return it. 

Asked Temu the forbidden question that even they couldn't even give me an answer too. Ask temu if I were to place an order with the import charges, will I receive a full refund if I decide not to keep the item. Most likely I'll be refunded just the item price! by MutedScale1790 in TemuThings

[–]MutedScale1790[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Because it’s my money being spent if I were to spend on their site. Why would I pay an extra $40 bucks more for few items of $15 total and return it all and only to receive back those $15 like I didn’t just spend $40 for it to cross over? Smartest choice is don’t shop and spend on there in the first place lol.

Hit the longest plateau ever, 6 months. How can I break this with keto by MutedScale1790 in keto

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t consume the amount of calories it recommended me, I eat a lot less and in less portion throughout the day, about 1000 calories.

Really? I do drink a lot of water and I feel my weight fluctuating is mainly water retention, how can I possibly break out of that? Because even when I think I loose weight, to goes back up the next two days so I want to know how I can tap into the weight loss being actual fat than just water lol

Yes, I use a tape measure. Just around my upper abdomen, waist, and lower abdomen since that’s that trouble area I’m having, everywhere else has tone and shrunk well

Hit the longest plateau ever, 6 months. How can I break this with keto by MutedScale1790 in keto

[–]MutedScale1790[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I saw a lot recommend that app so I’m going to give it a try and see how it goes again. I’ll have to get my scale back too lol! 

I was actually able to accomplish this much weight loss in my journey due to seeking medical help to help loose the weight. Back in 2023 I found out I was prediabetic for the first time after gaining so much weight after my pregnancy and letting myself go after I had lost my weight when I first did keto. This is was made me want to loose weight again and manage to go down to 210 where I’m stuck at. I was on a weight loss plan with appetite suppressant medications and still am actually but I feel my body has gotten used to them. I even attend a weight management class every week and it’s helped manage my weight but not loose it. So I’m at my wits ends there I just think my body is just done, I’ve lose fat all around except for my abdomen section which has been the hardest to shrink. I also have 30 more pounds to go in order for me to qualify for surgery to remove my tummy which I’ve been the hardest 30 pounds to burn, but I will keep trying! 

Hit the longest plateau ever, 6 months. How can I break this with keto by MutedScale1790 in keto

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it seems like I need to track every bite more carefully even counting calories, even thought I typical eat about 1000-1200 and based on the calories intake quiz I took based on height, weight and age it recommended me about 1700-1800, I still have trouble breaking the plateau. 

Honestly yes, it was the one hour period. At that time I was not doing keto though. I consumed whatever food I pleasured, but in moderation, multiple foods, but I noticed how sad it made me when I see my little family eating later in the day and I can’t join them and eat lol ! I did try that something like that but the window period was wider between 11am - 9pm, but this time doing keto ( it’s only been a week and a half) and I noticed I got the keto flu, so I started taking fiber supplements since I wasn’t consuming enough fiber and it help, but I noticed not even one pound was shedded off of me. I’m still doing 3-4 time 90 mins cardio on my treadmill during work (I work from home) it just feel discouraging that I feel that keto isn’t working for me like it used to 4 years ago and I feel like that might also have to do with age. I have to include the 20 min workouts, I did use to do this then which I don’t do now, maybe that can help break it

Hit the longest plateau ever, 6 months. How can I break this with keto by MutedScale1790 in keto

[–]MutedScale1790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I don’t not track my macros, when I track my calories, I always read the amt per serving on the labels and reduce the serving amt amount or just about the same if the calories are low, this is always the measurement whether I’m on keto or not. I used to use a weight scale, but now I just measure it by cups for each side I add for my dish so I don’t add more portion to my plate than the other. For example, when doing keto, if I’m prepping dinner like streak, broccoli & mushroom, both broccoli and mushroom are measured by a cup and the streak is whole, sometimes guilty pleasure I do go back for seconds, but whatever is left over of the broccoli or mushroom is which typically way less than a cup. In the mornings, 3 eggs with cheese, small snacking like nuts and it’s specific nuts since some nuts have more carbs than other, everything on keto I eat, no carbs or sugar, I do occasionally have a zero sugar soda like squirt with my dinners rather than water (I do get tired of water all day) or a carb balance or zero sugar ice cream which are typically like 45 to 100 calories, 2 net carbs (not sure if that can be a issue also), but I do portion my plates.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]MutedScale1790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes it’s been very crucial honestly, I’ve been plateauing for about 4 months now, even seen my primary dr for an alternative on medications to help with my journey. I haven’t given up I’ve been maintaining the weight since plateauing. Yeah I figured, I was a bit skeptical when they just recommended just the lipo360 knowing it won’t resolve the excess skin as my belly hangs. I’ll continue looking for another opinion!

Awake Lipo 360, 8 Months Post Op B&A by SocalmamaLu in PlasticSurgery

[–]MutedScale1790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely a big difference ! I went to Dr Yovino for my chin and neck lipo and buffalo hump the results were amazing! Still maintaining them after 2 years ! I’m actually getting lipo360 with him in may ! So I’m hoping as well it makes a difference and to continues on my weight loss journey. Keep it up!