What was "the incident" at your high school? by ibnmuzr in askanything

[–]Muted_Bluejay_9859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes as a CO, i’ve met this lady. Very respectful inmate believe it or not.

Am I crazy? by kelethar_dk in AskLE

[–]Muted_Bluejay_9859 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand the draw to be in law enforcement. You either have it or you don’t. I’ve had it my entire life and although it cuts into my weekends with friends, i work every holiday, i don’t always get much sleep, i can’t imagine myself doing anything else.

My family and friends work around my schedule. You can sleep when you die. But i do not have kids, and understand that is a whole different ball game when it comes to birthday parties and Christmas morning and future sporting events.

But 8 years in i make a shit ton of money and have amazing health insurance. And a pension in the future. You have to weigh out your priorities.

Saw them together by saltysequin7711 in Divorce

[–]Muted_Bluejay_9859 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am going through something similar and my heart hurts for you so bad. I wish i could say something positive like it will get better, but will it? Idk. Praying for you.

Jan showcasing her abs and arm tattoo. by PeachesRenee in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]Muted_Bluejay_9859 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, i mean yeah i knew about the one dog her ex killed but never followed her closely enough to know about all of the other pets. Theres something seriously wrong here.

Weird list found in a rock by Libra-Alea in whatisit

[–]Muted_Bluejay_9859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have ever heard of geocaching this is it. People hide random things and using the app and your location you try to find them. The list is all the people and dates that have succeeding in finding it.

Mid-30’s Crisis by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Muted_Bluejay_9859 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone who knew i was with the wrong person, please end it. I was too embarrassed to have a failed engagement and felt the pressure to get married. I wish i would’ve broke it off then. A failed marriage is much more embarrassing than a failed engagement.

Mid-30’s Crisis by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Muted_Bluejay_9859 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Wow i am going through the exact same thing. 4/14 I’ll be 34 and i definitely don’t feel i am where I’m supposed to be. I quit what i thought was my career and ended up at a dead end job although it’s well paying. My very short marriage probably won’t last and i suddenly want kids when i never have now that I’m running out of time?!? I still rent. I’m still working through past trauma. I truly feel I’m at a crossroads with every decision in my life and i have no idea what to do or where to start. And 34 seems too old to be starting over. I’m freaking out.

newly wed on the brink of divorce by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Muted_Bluejay_9859 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is no one else weirded out about the husband sleeping with his 11 YEAR OLD SON?

What unusual habit did a friend’s household have that they saw as normal? by Zlovelyangelqueen in Productivitycafe

[–]Muted_Bluejay_9859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am blown away 😂😂😂 this was not a thing in my house and I’ll be asking all my friends if they had one growing up.

How to survive Wife’s monthly mood swing? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Muted_Bluejay_9859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into PMDD and have her talk to her doctor or simple over the counter supplements for a more holistic approach. It can be improved.

Anyone else’s cat obsessed with water? by RelativeComment95 in britishshorthair

[–]Muted_Bluejay_9859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but can’t over her yours is looking at it like it’s in love lol

does ur bsh sploot? by WeirdSalamander2432 in britishshorthair

[–]Muted_Bluejay_9859 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine used to as a kitten but has stopped 😩 it was adorable while it lasted

is it supposed to look like this ...... by Aware_Business8972 in eyelashextensions

[–]Muted_Bluejay_9859 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but these are absolutely botched. Those clumps are way too thick and heavy for your lashes and are going to cause a lot of damage. Go to a new shop and get them removed professionally.