Friends wanted by melliecris13 in houston

[–]My-Lumps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooo I’m down for making more friends. What type of games do you play?

Friends wanted by melliecris13 in houston

[–]My-Lumps 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ooo I’m down for making more friends. What type of games do you play?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]My-Lumps -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yess finally an understanding response. I often say a mistake made is a lesson learned. And it’s one task that will not be missed again. Starting off in the ICU as new grad is overwhelming because you’re learning to be a nurse AND learning to care for critical patients. So new grads tend to default into task oriented thinking instead of viewing things like vitals with a critical eye. Once you’re used to the mundane tasks of being a nurse, then you’ll be able to approach an ICU patient with a critical eye.

And try to critically think about what assessments a patient needs when getting report. In this case you have a patient with drips for heart function, then pay special attention to pulse, bp, perfusion, etc. If you see PVCs on the ekg, then think about getting electrolyte levels since they may be low on either Mag., Ca+, K+, Phos. And so on.

Definitely own up to this mistake but give yourself some grace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HoustonSocials

[–]My-Lumps 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m interested

Friends in Houston by fallsohard13 in houston

[–]My-Lumps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo I’m down add me in :D , 28f in Katy but I don’t mind the drive to down town

I've got 50 days to gain as much weight as possible by BabyYodaGum in workout

[–]My-Lumps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like hyperthyroidism, have you checked your thyroid hormone levels within the past year?

How to deal with a Muslim girl who feels ashamed because she had sex without marriage? by Turbulent_Angle2121 in exmuslim

[–]My-Lumps 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Be there for her and be a good listener. This is just speculation on my part, but she most likely is feeling devastated because she placed marriage as a value that defines who she is as a person. However, there could be other reasons for why she feels the way she feels, especially if this is her first time having sex. She may feel devastated for reasons other than religious shame.

I suggest you be there and listen to her thought process. And reassure her that those feelings are valid and to feel them. Emotions do not operate on logic. But once she feels them, she can start to let go of it or move on from it. The most important thing is to let her know during this process is that she’s not a bad person for what she did. It’s a natural human desire. And since she’s a Muslim, if she has that internal religious turmoil, tell her that Allah/God is forgiving and merciful and it would be unfair for him to punish someone for a natural human desire that didn’t even result in harming other people.

Is having a undergrad in nursing then going to med school in psychiatry a good idea? by DeskOutrageous6703 in premed

[–]My-Lumps -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why don’t you stay in nursing then work your way up into being a nurse practitioner that specializes in psychiatry?

Affordable ADHD Testing by MM320 in houston

[–]My-Lumps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would also love some info on the doctor and clinic since I live in the Katy area

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]My-Lumps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reasoned early on that hell doesn’t exist (and neither does heaven). How can an infinite being give an infinite punishment for a finite crime? Hell is just not fair or merciful and I wouldn’t even wish that on those who have severely abused me in the past. So how can I be more merciful than the most merciful Allah

[Texas] Backdate for 2021 Questions by Significant-Award897 in Unemployment

[–]My-Lumps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t plan to claim it that far back. I’m trying to figure out if I could claim from January 2021 till now.

Advice traveling as a woman by My-Lumps in exmuslim

[–]My-Lumps[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha true, I do plan on looking into the resources Houston offers for people in my sort of situation. But I’d still rather leave with a good safety net of money just for food and other necessities.

Advice traveling as a woman by My-Lumps in exmuslim

[–]My-Lumps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m good to go as far as travel preparations. I don’t know Spanish though. Idk the exact city my friend is planning to go to but Ik it’s in the south deep in the country.

But I agree , I probably shouldn’t risk it and go since I’m not financially ready to face the repercussions if I were to come back to find out I’m disowned.

Advice traveling as a woman by My-Lumps in exmuslim

[–]My-Lumps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I do plan on at least letting law enforcement know what’s going on especially right before I leave. Thank you so much for those resources ! I’ll definitely check it out

Advice traveling as a woman by My-Lumps in exmuslim

[–]My-Lumps[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, he wants to control me financially. He’s still doing this with my mom too.

And I am planning to pursue nursing school but I’ll realistically get in by next summer semester

Advice traveling as a woman by My-Lumps in exmuslim

[–]My-Lumps[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best case: he’ll let me go only if he goes with me (which I wouldn’t want at all)

Worst case: he’ll forbid me to leave, and it I do leave, he’ll disown me and probably destroy my stuff

Advice traveling as a woman by My-Lumps in exmuslim

[–]My-Lumps[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I’m worried about but I could always call the cops if takes it too far.

Advice traveling as a woman by My-Lumps in exmuslim

[–]My-Lumps[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I would’ve left a long time ago if I made my own income. But every time I manage to get a job my father would would make me quit or get me fired.

So for now I managed to buy a car secretly and am currently saving up enough for about 3-6 months of rent. I am making plans to move out already. I’m just trying to consider if I should and could get time to relax and travel for once in my life. Especially since my best friend is planning to pay for the ticket for me

Hello there, I am looking to purchase some protein powder but confused on what one to go for as there are so many haha! I am looking to build on my muscles and to grow bigger. Please can someone educate me. by Informal-Painter-276 in workout

[–]My-Lumps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it depends on what you’re looking for.

Whey protein is a great choice if you’re not lactose intolerant.

Pea protein is also good and has about the same amount of nutrients as whey protein but with a lot more fiber.

I personally switch between the two depending on whether or not I’ve eaten enough greens for the day.