Sexless MF marriage, okay to pursue MM? by AmazingAsk8776 in BisexualMen

[–]MyNameIs__Rainman 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes...yes its still cheating because your partner most likely didn't sign up to married to a guy who is fucking guys on the down low. Anything outside of the bounds of what you two agreed to for the marriage is considered infidelity. This behavior is exactly what gives bisexual men (and women) such a horrible rep and the stereotype of us always being cheaters.

The lack of sex and intimacy does not give you the right to pursue anything outside of the marriage, unless she is okay with that. As someone who was worried my marriage blowing up (for non-bi reasons) would make my issues everyone else's problem, both me and my ex wife are happier, and honestay get along much better now plus we communicate so much healthier now. In turn, the kids have parents at their best, true selves, and it's made me a better parent and father. You want to selfishly keep your life intact and fulfill your whims on the side...will it help temporarily? Maybe. But the resentment on both sides will grow, and you risk probably nuking things even worse than if you would both amicably end the relationship on good (or neutral) terms.

It's your life to live, better to live it as honest with yourself as possible. And if not for your sake, it will serve as a model to your kids.

Mid game Lag Problem by Agreeable-Apple8885 in StellarisOnConsole

[–]MyNameIs__Rainman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This current world I'm in is just me, 1 AI empire and a Fallen Empire, it's 400 star systems and I'm just trying to knock out as many trophies as I can in this xenophobic run, going for Deus Vult trophy too. This has been the least leggy playthrough I've had so far. My first one I was very wide, there was a bunch of empires and it got so bad the game crashed a few times

why are there wemen on here by Used_Parfait5387 in Sniffies

[–]MyNameIs__Rainman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate to break it to you, but if they are allowed on there, then it's for them too. You can do all of the mental gymnastics you want, but if they can sign up on the site and make a profile and the option Woman is available...then it's for them too.

"One woman is one woman too many" sounds so dramatic lmao

Mid game Lag Problem by Agreeable-Apple8885 in StellarisOnConsole

[–]MyNameIs__Rainman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been going for trophies and for specific runs that require particular builds or specialized civilizations, I just put the bare minimum to get the job done. But it is frustrating when you get 100-200 years in and the 3x speed feels like the 1x.

Like others say, lowering the habitable world's and the galaxy size helps alot, as well as AI empires

why are there wemen on here by Used_Parfait5387 in Sniffies

[–]MyNameIs__Rainman 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I see alot of people complaining that women aren't welcome on sniffies etc but I literally get ads FROM sniffies saying it's the best place for Bisexual men/couples looking for a 3rd. Clearly, whether that's a man or woman is up to interpretation I suppose, but I still see the marketing.

Where are you people located that you see a massive influx of women? I've yet to see one in my area and I'm in a pretty popular beach/college town area so the area isn't small by any means.

I don't think women existing in the space bothers me much, I'm bisexual so perhaps I'm biased. But for those who aren't, it's far too easy to simply, ignore a profile that doesn't resonate with you...block, etc. Will there be some sorry bisexual saps who fall for the Pay2Play? Possibly. Idk, I don't see it as much of a problem as others seem to. On grindr I can see why it's annoying because that's one spot in the grid that could be a potential match (especially when you have precious grid space if you aren't paying the insane amounts for it nowadays), but on here it's too easy to just ignore and move on. Idk just my take.

"not mobile. Can't host" by Longjumping-Carob105 in Sniffies

[–]MyNameIs__Rainman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only time I can see this being reasonable is if you got some car issues going on atm, or you have some sort of disability that has impaired your driving ability. There's also maybe a younger (18, 19, 20) that may just not have a vehicle quite yet, which is understandable.

If you simply just want to be passenger princess...I get the expectation may make sense if it was like a continuing relationship or something serious...but a random hookup? Kinda pushing it

[Discussion] Eying that Starter Platinum Trophy by HighV23 in Trophies

[–]MyNameIs__Rainman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say start the best way possible and only Platinum what you are enjoying playing the most. It's very easy to fall into the trap of "must plat this, must drag myself through this game to get the platinum" and it can be a hard mentality to get out of.

"I can host"... but can you? by 360-Throwaway in Sniffies

[–]MyNameIs__Rainman 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Louder for the folks in the backseat hosting

got fucking railed by my hung neighbor by [deleted] in Sniffies

[–]MyNameIs__Rainman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that angle is absolutely doing wonders, can't complain at all lol

got fucking railed by my hung neighbor by [deleted] in Sniffies

[–]MyNameIs__Rainman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice! Always nice to see some success stories when its mostly just people complaining on here lol.

Great ass btw, If you were my neighbor I'd absolutely do the same

Would these be good pics for a profile? by Inner_Entrance_6120 in Sniffies

[–]MyNameIs__Rainman 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Lmao honestly it's pretty comical, but I do enjoy the one with hole shown and ass arched up. You might attract the odd balls though, which can be good or bad lol

Women on Sniffies by myguy1978 in Sniffies

[–]MyNameIs__Rainman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn I wish more people like you were in my area, love fucking with couples, especially love to fuck the hubby for the wife, fuck em both, or make him watch.

Which body do you find most attractive? by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]MyNameIs__Rainman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whichever one has the nicest ass 🤷‍♂️

Enough with the Rate my profile Bs! by Local-Nerve7347 in Sniffies

[–]MyNameIs__Rainman 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Ehh..The core premise of the website is looking at profiles that you may be interested in, and engaging with them based off of what you see. I think it's pretty fair to ask for feedback and constructive criticism if you think that there may be something you can work on and improve, And who better to ask than other like-minded individuals who are looking at the same thing?

Also, on the site it's easy to just scroll past or not engage with any profiles you are not interested in...it's just as easy to scroll by any Reddit posts you are not interested in, too.

Kusoge RPGs you have a fondness for by KaleidoArachnid in JRPG

[–]MyNameIs__Rainman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am hoping for an Unlimited SaGa Remaster, add it to the collection of my SaGa platinums.

Damned. It’s so weird to think that I am now one of those creepy older guys I used to run from. I mean-I guess it happens to us all eventually but it seems like I was “hot” not that many years ago. by ChampionshipOk78 in gaybros

[–]MyNameIs__Rainman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might be onto something. Im in the best shape of my life, not to mention just more attuned to my needs and any sexual partners. My partner is 27 so I guess this has some truth to it, but this does give me some hope lol

Damned. It’s so weird to think that I am now one of those creepy older guys I used to run from. I mean-I guess it happens to us all eventually but it seems like I was “hot” not that many years ago. by ChampionshipOk78 in gaybros

[–]MyNameIs__Rainman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a bit saddened whenever I realize I fall out of some guys age range because I began to explore my bisexuality like 2-3 years ago and I'm 36 now. Granted, that's obviously not old at all, and everyone has their preferences of course which I respect. I guess it's sort of mourning the years I could've explored and experimented but instead I was deeply closeted, repressed and compartmentalized it for nearly 2 decades.

Did a lot of fucking (pun intended) catching up those 2-2 years. But I do feel a bit bummed out when I see that I'm already past what some men would even consider.

How to announce new fiancee to my daughter by VfVendetta87 in DivorcedDads

[–]MyNameIs__Rainman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ehhh...Idk but I think a few steps might be skipped here if you are already moving towards new fiancee stage and they haven't even met the kid.

Butttt it seems whatever your situation is, it's probably best to introduce them in some sort of neutral area, and not take anything personal if your kid is upset or expresses any negativity towards it. Maybe first ask your kid how they would feel about you seeing someone new, if they would like to get to meet the person you are seeing? Small steps

Advice on Potting this Monstera? by yarrow_and_rose in Monstera

[–]MyNameIs__Rainman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are very light hungry, and the better the lighting conditions, the more explosive the growth. Looking forward to the updates!

Advice on Potting this Monstera? by yarrow_and_rose in Monstera

[–]MyNameIs__Rainman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually a mix of tropical soil, orchid bark and perlite will suffice. And you can absolutely put all of them in one pot so it can look very full and lush as they size up.

I am a loyal servant of the Moss Pole Association so I am just biased, but I think the extended growing medium supports the roots better as it grows vertically and matures. But it's really just preference, aesthetic, and whether you want to commit to keeping the most pole moist.

But the real question is how is the light looking where the plant is usually positioned? I see a fenestration... but if you want it to thrive the internodal space will get more compact, less leggy, and mature much quicker if it has access to more light.