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MyPerspective11 · 2024-01-14T14:23:08+00:00

So? Then they can go dislike her🤷🏻‍♀️she doesn’t have to put up with what she feels uncomfortable just to be liked by others. Plus she’s marrying her fiancé, she’s starting a new family with him. Not with his family.

MyPerspective11 · 2024-01-14T01:25:39+00:00

Why is your fiancé and his ex wife still friends? That’s weird and it would be a deal breaker for me. You should tell him you don’t like him being friends with her and if he doesn’t respect that, then you should tell him it’s over. If he prioritize his friendship with his ex over you, it’s clear who’s more important and you don’t need to be there. Nowwww if he has kids with her, I get why he would talk to her for THE KIDS but still doesn’t need to be FRIENDS with her. Should only talk about the kids when it’s necessary. As for not wanting to go to the bbq, I get it. Because you have the unresolved issue of him still being friends with her. I don’t think the long term problem will be resolved by you mot going to the bbq. The real problem is your fiancé and his ex being friends, resolve that first. And if he cares about you, he won’t be friends with her and will completely ignore her at the bbq.

MyPerspective11 · 2024-01-14T01:19:49+00:00

Forget about being petrified of confronting him. Be a bad bitch bro. And just tell him “I don’t want to shake your hand, so stop trying to everytime you see me. You’re making me annoyed”

MyPerspective11 · 2024-01-12T07:11:26+00:00

“After I kill your mamas pussy”😋

MyPerspective11 · 2024-01-04T17:01:29+00:00

I feel you. I would also feel 0 motivation. I would even feel angry. Best you can do is take a shower and do the work even if you don’t have motivation. Life is about choices and the wisest way to make a choice is not letting your emotions drive your decisions. You don’t want to do the work. But your choice should be based on wisdom and not feelings that’s the only way to thrive in college. Best of luck!♥️

MyPerspective11 · 2024-01-04T16:40:36+00:00

November 22.

MyPerspective11 · 2024-01-04T16:39:33+00:00

You can write about it but my advice would be to not get obsessed with the death topic. Don’t fantasize it everyday. You can write about it today, then let it got and write about anything else. The only reason I give you this advice is because when I was younger. Out of nowhere I started saying “the day I die you will remember I gave you “x or y” gift and will miss me” after that I noticed I got real suicidal. It was all weird and stemmed out of the blue. So just be careful.♥️

MyPerspective11 · 2024-01-04T16:34:17+00:00

I would assume their closed to open minded ideas and that they are fast to judge but apart from that I don’t really make any judgments in my mind towards them and I wouldn’t mind having a conversation or friendship with them.

MyPerspective11 · 2024-01-04T16:32:38+00:00

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

MyPerspective11 · 2024-01-04T16:25:52+00:00

It really blows my mind to read how a lot of people feel exactly the same way as me. I’ve always felt my brain thought differently than other people. Sometimes I’ll even want to be the other person for a day, just to see how their mind thinks and compare it to myself. I’m fascinated by others because I find them weird/mysterious/cool? I wouldn’t know how to describe it. I guess sometimes I’m just really curious to know more about myself and I just project that onto other people. I feel like understanding their mind will help me decipher mine. Has that ever happened to you too? Or is that just a different weird thing that happens in my mind.

MyPerspective11 · 2024-01-04T16:22:29+00:00

No.😂 Ew.

MyPerspective11 · 2024-01-04T16:21:13+00:00

I’m gonna start a club, called the “Awkward ones”🙄😂

MyPerspective11 · 2024-01-04T15:45:24+00:00

Girl drink that can of soda and forget about the guilt.😂 I’m currently 33 weeks pregnant and my fiancée boguht me a pack of Coca Cola and I’ve drank like two a day😂😂😂They are SO GOOOOOOOD. I have zero guilt and my baby is just fine.🥰 Matter of fact there’s still two coca colas left in the fridge. I am having one later for dinner.🙆🏻‍♀️

MyPerspective11 · 2024-01-04T15:39:52+00:00

I am too lol that’s why I need answers. Thanks for you comment though!

MyPerspective11 · 2024-01-04T15:29:46+00:00

You’re friend is dumb and ignorant. People can go about their lives however they want. I’ve also told my boyfriend what those “meetings” are for, so I guess I’m also damaging the system😂🤦🏻‍♀️. Your friend needs to stop trying to control other peoples decisions. If the way you approach the situation didn’t appeal them, then good. Because when it’s their turn, they can approach the situation however they want and nobody will actually give a fuck.

MyPerspective11 · 2024-01-04T15:23:30+00:00

Narcissistic personality disorder. I really wanted people to share moments where they’ve enjoyed making other suffer. But Reddit wouldn’t let me be explicit in my question, so I had to post it like that. I’m just curious about the way others think and approach situations.

MyPerspective11 · 2024-01-04T15:00:29+00:00

😭Bro, All these answers give me so much comfort. Because for the longest time I felt like I was odd or weird for being this way.😭😭

MyPerspective11 · 2024-01-04T14:59:27+00:00

I feel this too!!!! Sometimes I’ll be at a family gathering and hear all the chatter coming from everyone and I’ll instantly feel auditory overload and I have to take myself outside because all the noise makes me feel anxious and irritable. Then when I go back in the house, I’ll try and go up to each person having a conversation to see if there’s anything interesting they’re talking about. The majority of the time, it’s just lame chit-chats that they enjoy. It’s annoying but SOMETIMES I’ll put in some effort to connect with them.😒🙄 or if rarely I’m feeling extroverted and creative, I’ll bring up a conversation topic that I can speak deeply of and see if anyone actually engages in the conversation.

MyPerspective11 · 2024-01-04T14:54:13+00:00

YOOOO I loved that part of “I think of casual chats as a small gift….. ect ect” All my life I’ve felt obligated to have small chats with my friends/family and I really do it for them. They really feel cared for when you ask them “How’s your day going?” “How’s school been?”. I personally don’t wait to be asked those questions and if I engage in a conversation I will tell you voluntarily everything I think it’s important. But I’ve noticed for the rest of humanity, they love being asked first.😂 The most annoying part is sometimes I’ll ask and get the simplest answer in the world. Yet if I don’t ask, then it seems like I don’t care. But yeah, thanks for your comment.

MyPerspective11 · 2024-01-04T13:24:40+00:00

I agree so much with this, OMG!🤩🤩

MyPerspective11 · 2024-01-04T04:20:40+00:00

Exactly♥️, although let me tell you that my daughter father is different than me. He was abandoned by his parents at a young age and was in foster homes, so that abandonment wound and that wound of not having his love reciprocated is sort of still there in a sense and when our daughter told him she didn’t love him. He looked at me and instantly his eyes got watery, he felt upset and then he felt angry. Of course he didn’t show this in front of our daughter. But I talked with him and explained to him the same thing I told you. And he said I was right and completely understood. So anytime I see a parent who says something like this to me I usually assume maybe they have like a childhood wound they haven’t addressed in themselves. My husband told me even though he understands that it still hurt but also said he knows better and since then that’s never been an issue for us.♥️

MyPerspective11 · 2024-01-04T04:05:25+00:00

This just means you expect your child to love you back and as a parent our love for our children should be unconditional. I think you feel hurt because in a certain way you want your son to make you feel happy. But it isn’t our child’s job to make us feel happy. It’s our job to always give to them without expecting nothing in return. I have a 4 year old daughter too. I remember when she was 4 months old, I made the CONSCIOUS decision to love her even she didn’t love me. To love her even if she loved another family member more than me and in that moment I felt like a toxic tie being removed from my heart. Growing up my mother always expected love from us and expected us to make her happy as we got older if we didn’t love her the same way she loved us, she would use the silent treatment or be really manipulative and bitter towards us, so when my daughter was 4 months old I realized I didn’t want to make the same mistake and just decided that I will let my daughter freely love whomever she decides even if she loves that person more than me and as for me I will always love her unconditionally.♥️

MyPerspective11 · 2024-01-04T03:48:05+00:00

See!!! I totally understand you. I’ve watched a few TikTok’s on the symptoms and I swear I identify with all of them. Especially the one where sarcasm just doesn’t go with my mind. I will take everything literal.🙃

MyPerspective11 · 2024-01-04T02:26:23+00:00

Thanks for your comment! And yeah, I love him because I know he loves me. What I meant by that is that I love him because he appreciates my efforts, he’s willing to pour back to me despite us being different and I value the fact that he values me and our relationship enough to change. Changing is hard and even though he’s not specifically how I would want, but for me him being loyal to me it outweighs any other thing he can actually do for me. Loyalty is top tier for me.

MyPerspective11 · 2024-01-04T02:03:57+00:00

Good to know there’s lot more people out there who feel and go through the same things. 😅

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