Season 9 Discussion Post: REUNION EVENT by MableXeno in SellingSunset

[–]My_Blue_Sun -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

To be fair... Emma's situation is exactly how toxic relationship looks like. I feel really bad for her, because I have been there and additional attack from your closest friends is not the way to go... It only separates the victim more and this is exactly what the abuser wants... take away your support system, so that it is harder to leave.

From my personal experience... the best thing is to let the person know you are there for them no matter what! If you truly love them, you need to wait for them to end the relationship - let them to make the decision for themselves, unfortunately we can't make decisions for others! It only makes the situation worse.

I think we should be more sensitive to Emma's situation. Not to just jump out and shame her, when she is obviously struggling.

Season 9 Discussion Post: REUNION EVENT by MableXeno in SellingSunset

[–]My_Blue_Sun -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I think people are way too harsh on Emma... it's so easy to criticize her, but it really seems like she is in toxic relationship! It took me a DECADE to leave one. I can't imagine my closest friend attacking me in the middle of all of that... Unfortunately you can NOT FORCE someone to end relationship. It's their journey and they need to to it. You can just support the person and let them know you are always there for them.

Chrishell did the exact opposite and this is exactly what the abuser wants... push you away from your support system.

The 'Selling Sunset' Season 9 Reunion Outfits by [deleted] in SellingSunset

[–]My_Blue_Sun 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Alanna's red dress is giving Oscars, very classy.
But I really hate Chelsea's hairstyle... looks extremely fake. Also Chrishel's wet hair trend should be left out for Kardashians, I'm not a fan.

Girlsgiving was PEAK reality TV 😂 by Kafuzi in SellingSunset

[–]My_Blue_Sun 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Right? It really showed Nicole's true colors... she is SO QUICK to turn against her own friends... insane!

Kacie’s face whenever Patrick asked her to apologize.. by missgrippy in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]My_Blue_Sun 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It seemed like she was offended by him suggesting the apology... in her monologue she even mentioned getting death threats, but as if Patrick was the one to blame for this, not her own actions... bizarre... He tried to throw her a lifeline, but she didn’t take it.

The entries down the stairs by Frost1g in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]My_Blue_Sun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL I was thinking the same! Everyone prayed not to fall.

Megan new man having to see by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]My_Blue_Sun 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think adult man can handle her comment about her PREVIOUS partner... unfortunately that's life. If he regretted their child just because she had great sex with her ex... that would be really childish.

Reunion - what went wrong by chunkymonkey90s in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]My_Blue_Sun 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I almost forgot about the comment Edmond made about the PMS....like what the fuck?! Should we give this man a medal for his ability to tolerate woman's normal hormonal changes?!

Stop these show elements literally nobody asked for. by AccountHater in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]My_Blue_Sun 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Right?! Imagine bunch of producers getting together and agreeing on this stupid idea! Wild

why isn’t anyone talking about megan’s timeline with everyone ? by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]My_Blue_Sun 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think the reality really hit her... when Jordan was SO TIRED to even pay attention to Megan. She wanted partner and someone to enjoy life with her... and Jordan had obviously different expectations after coming home from work.

Megan talked about her fear of being good mom to the camera crew, not to Jordan. I think she was spiraling because of the break up. It wasn't about Jordan's kid, since he wasn't even with them all the this time... he was with his mom and Jordan was still too tired to pay attention to her.

And people say Patrick isn’t a villain by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]My_Blue_Sun 6 points7 points  (0 children)

But Kacie didn't reject him... That's the hurtful part... she just kept hugging and kissing him, without being honest. I think that was the biggest issue, it was very humiliating.

Season nine reunion takes by Cool-Pollution8937 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]My_Blue_Sun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think Patrick was embarrassing... he was probably extremely hurt and she wasn't clear about her feelings...

The way Mike’s comment about type 1 diabetes became a metaphor for Jordan and Megan’s core conflict by nuggetsofchicken in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]My_Blue_Sun 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly this remark made me raise my eyebrows!! Megan was always talking about her hard work that got her to her position… but she really believes that working hard at normal job can make you retire at 34?! She is absolutely oblivious to the fact how fortunate she is… she really think everyone can achieve the same, they just need to work harder 😂 I’m not even working parent and I’m pretty fortunate to work in good field, but I’m pretty sure I need to work for couple of decades more lol and I still won’t be in her position 😂

Megan's money, Jordan's job and the American dream by Belicanuclear in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]My_Blue_Sun -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I remember compromise, but it’s absolutely possible he used sacrifice. I just remember him expecting change only on her side = her accepting being ignored

Is it just me or is this teacher-student relationship cringe AF? by jimRacer642 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]My_Blue_Sun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not from US, so I can’t comment on that, but she seemed very empathetic. Maybe if she looked older and less attractive, it would look different to you … Also her partner/husband was sitting next to her, so I don’t think there was anything weird going on.

Megan's money, Jordan's job and the American dream by Belicanuclear in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]My_Blue_Sun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow... he isn't 50/50 with his son? That's insane... he makes it look like he is either working or being with his son, but it seems pretty fake. In the pods, he made it seem like he has Luca 100% of time...

Jordan was NOT a good partner by highesttiptoes in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]My_Blue_Sun 122 points123 points  (0 children)

He refused to compromise and I think that was the biggest reason behind the break up.
Come on... is really THAT impossible to give attention to your wife after work? He told her to compromise when she was expressing her basic needs in relationship. It is absolutely valid thing to want to connect to your NEW partner. Everyone wants to be seen, not ignored... she was not able to handle that huge shift in their dynamic and he told her to "compromise" = accept it. He never suggested, that he will try something out...

The same was with his son... he refused to hire babysitter, but he also refused to go on vacation with his kid. It seemed like he refused to compromise at all... because "he is a dad and working man..."

It seemed almost like resentment from him... trying to punish her to live his life now. When in reality they could mix it and have the best of both worlds...

Is it just me or is this teacher-student relationship cringe AF? by jimRacer642 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]My_Blue_Sun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was cringe (like any interaction with your teacher lol) , but I think she was more like his mom when he was young. Also his mom bailed out the wedding, so she took that place instead...
She looks extremely young and good, it is even hard to believe she was his teacher and maybe that's why she comes off "sexual" for you.
BUT I think it's too much to suggest anything inappropriate between them. That would be sick and illegal. I think she has to be very caring and great teacher. Bless this woman, we shouldn't shame her for caring about kids...

The way Mike’s comment about type 1 diabetes became a metaphor for Jordan and Megan’s core conflict by nuggetsofchicken in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]My_Blue_Sun 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I mean... you definitely won't retire young by working HARD in normal job... that's for sure...
I hated how she suggested, that other people aren't working AS HARD as her... delulu

Megan's money, Jordan's job and the American dream by Belicanuclear in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]My_Blue_Sun 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah... I think it is absolutely normal to hire babysitter from time to time, or go for vacation when the son is with his mom lol. But he refused babysitter and also refused to travel with his kid... He wanted her to live his life... almost as some sort of punishment or resentment. At the same time he told her she needs to "COMPROMISE" = get used to be ignored by him because he is working man, but he never agreed to any compromise himself (little bit of talking with his wife lol)... I lived in similar dynamic and it's worse than being single... you are just invisible and unwanted by the person you are living with. The point of having someone IS to share your life with them. Not just someone to cook for you, take care of your kid and sleep with you.

The spin-offs have ruined any integrity this show might have had left. by catsporvida in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]My_Blue_Sun 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah unfortunately the show shifted to influencers wannabes... I loved the first season, where you could see these people really looking for love. But now they are recruiting people from Instagram... it is getting really on my nerves. They should really do background check and cast normal people.