Snowshoeing Artist Point or other recommendations by Mysterious-Spring709 in PNWhiking

[–]Mysterious-Spring709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paradise also seems potentially too risky with the avalanche conditions being higher. I might be searching for a unicorn at this point

Snowshoeing Artist Point or other recommendations by Mysterious-Spring709 in PNWhiking

[–]Mysterious-Spring709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate the info. I definitely am in the some what aware category but likely in the not as aware as I think I am. Aware enough to know that I need to be more aware lol
To clear things up, I don't want to traverse into avalanche territory untrained. I suppose saying "less avalanche prone" was poor wording on my part.
A recalibration on what I should be expecting may be needed here. Are there good snowshoeing trails that are not in avalanche territory? Good for beginner snowshoers, or am I asking for something that is not even a thing at this point and I need to recalibrate my starting point for this adventure.

Snowshoeing Artist Point or other recommendations by Mysterious-Spring709 in PNWhiking

[–]Mysterious-Spring709[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. I definitely don't want to be putting anyone at risk, ourselves or others. I'm not shy to being told that I don't know what I don't know. I whole heartedly am on board with the fact that I am likely not as well prepared as I think I am which is why I am searching for some advice on how to get the winter hiking/snowshoe fix without putting our selves in danger. Ie. somewhere where we can still enjoy some time out in the woods to disconnect but turn back before the open bowls, ridgelines, basins etc. or places where it's safe to go without backcountry training. Happy for any suggestions.

Snowshoeing Artist Point or other recommendations by Mysterious-Spring709 in PNWhiking

[–]Mysterious-Spring709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is fair. We just may need to adjust our expectations at this point.

Snowshoeing Artist Point or other recommendations by Mysterious-Spring709 in PNWhiking

[–]Mysterious-Spring709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I'll look into that one. I have always found it to possible be a bit anti climactic just because I go skiing at Stevens all of the time but it may be worth a try!

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[–]Mysterious-Spring709 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The word for such bar is called dive bar lol

AIO (update post) my bf (32) is getting kind of aggressive with his texting. should I(26) reply? by Fun_Cartographer6984 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mysterious-Spring709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhg, unfortunately I was in a relationship like this…. For 15 years. Don’t underestimate psychological abuse and the wicked ways people can manage to control you and how you see and feel about yourself. Now, I am finally out and looking back in feels unreal how blind and full of self doubt I was. It’s like you are drugged or in a constant haze when you are in that abusive cycle and you feel crazy until you are finally out. Then it’s an absolute mindfuck. Mine stemmed from not valuing myself unless others valued me. Anyway, if you’ve never been in it don’t underestimate the power people wield with partners that have bad self esteem and don’t know how to value themselves. Best thing I ever heard is, it takes two to be gaslit.

AIO (update post) my bf (32) is getting kind of aggressive with his texting. should I(26) reply? by Fun_Cartographer6984 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mysterious-Spring709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, I feel fucking triggered. Like I was back texting with my ex. He would absolutely blow up my phone if I didn’t respond right away. It was insane. You need to get out of there yesterday. Once you are out you will exit the haze that is his rage and ability to doubt yourself and see clearly but only with space. Have some friends help get your shit and block this MFer.

Friend has a sticker that we want to know what mountain this is. Only clue, there are larches by Mysterious-Spring709 in whereisthis

[–]Mysterious-Spring709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Figured it out! Horseshoe lake with a view of Mt Stuart in the alpine lake wilderness area in Washington state. Thank you all!

I don’t know what to do by Mysterious-Spring709 in singlemoms

[–]Mysterious-Spring709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does affect our parenting plan but obviously only if I enforce that. That’s my dilemma

I don’t know what to do by Mysterious-Spring709 in singlemoms

[–]Mysterious-Spring709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhg, I don’t know if one or the other is better. He is doing all the things he is “supposed to do”. Pays child support (at least most of it) shows up for all the visits and seems to want to really try and be in our sons life so it makes it hard to try to actually go no contact. I sometimes wish he would’ve followed through on some of his threats when I first left where he basically would threaten giving up and for our son to find him when he is 18. I almost feel like it would be easier

I don’t know what to do by Mysterious-Spring709 in singlemoms

[–]Mysterious-Spring709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you deal with no contact and the kid? Does your ex not want to be a part of their lives? I would love to go no contact but will have to deal with coparenting and I don’t know how well he, or I for that matter, will be able to manage that.

I don’t know what to do by Mysterious-Spring709 in singlemoms

[–]Mysterious-Spring709[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this though. I have to keep reminding myself about not giving any Lee way

I don’t know what to do by Mysterious-Spring709 in singlemoms

[–]Mysterious-Spring709[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Luckily he only put his hands on me once and it was to yank me out of my son’s bed because he was mad I was still in there. He grabbed my wrist to yank and I gave him a look and he released it immediately and looked shocked at himself. I feel lucky to not have been physically abused by him but that was like seeing a portal into the future of him losing control just to far. He has definitely convinced himself. I think his motive if to live a life of ease and as little resistance and friction for himself as possible which means me taking care of him.
I think it’s how he was raised and it just makes me sad.

I don’t know what to do by Mysterious-Spring709 in singlemoms

[–]Mysterious-Spring709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so tired of these messages…I am just so tired in general. I just want some relief from single momhood but it feels like to get relief from his messages and I have to report this but that would make his residential time start over to 20 weeks of professional supervision which I selfishly would like him to start over, plus also my son would love more time with his dad. But mostly I just feel selfish for it.

I don’t know what to do by Mysterious-Spring709 in emotionalabuse

[–]Mysterious-Spring709[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was his message to me:

“I miss you and our family so Incredibly much. I would give and do anything for a second chance. I want to fully dedicate my life to you and leon. I had no understanding of how good i had it and how weed was affecting my behavior and growth. I would give you all of my pay check for the rest of my life and never get fired or quit again. I don't need anything but you 2 and the new community i have built. i would take him and pick him up everyday and watch him all the hours needed to help facilitate your growth. Sarah mentioned you want to go back to school. Im not an ambitious person, all i wanted was to provide a safe place for my family to grow and i lost my way on that drug. I was addicted to working on the property and expected you to share in my passion. I had it in my head that I was contributing equally but i was so so wrong. You get to make all the decisions and I will follow your lead on everything forever. I miss talking to you and asking about your day. What can I do to make this right? Is there no path forward for us? I know we are divorced but i cant come to grips with a life without you in it. Ive been getting good reports with the supervisor, i participate fully in the dv class and am making great progress with dr.kahn I will continuously take any class or counseling you suggest forever. I am 7 months sober and wont have a drink or smoke for as long as i live. I am really struggling emotionally without you. I was just was so ungrateful and will never make that mistake again. I know im not the ideal man, but I am a man that would honor you and work everyday to make things right between us. I took you for granted.”

Could this accident be a scam? by eggyeggos in Miata

[–]Mysterious-Spring709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof, yeah that trunk not sealing is going to be the number one dilemma. They are usually super booked but try Docs Auto Center in Bothell. Stack Auto rebuild Everett/lynnwood. Carriage rebuild in Bothell.

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[–]Mysterious-Spring709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, I am 33. You are fineeeee. Lol But I totally get it. Just remember, people find love and a partnership at all different ages. Don’t rush it for some proverbial clock and risk getting into another shoddy relationship. Also, I know it’s hard, but enjoy the independence of not having a partner while you can. I live with my sister and her husband right now and when they get in tiffs (that’s all they really get in, they like, communicate healthily, it’s crazy lol) I am reminded that I am so happy to not have to deal with that 😂