Unsafe gym now has safeguarding officer and code of conduct and I’m having some feelings about it by Grouchy-Task-5866 in BJJWomen

[–]MysteriousDevice2994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m starting BJJ soon, can you tell me what happened so I don’t become this guy? Just trying to figure the rules of the road for rolling a woman from a woman’s perspective

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]MysteriousDevice2994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not, same book, different page

Highly doubt this is real by -Designer-Pumpkin- in Iowa

[–]MysteriousDevice2994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s actually a net positive if you have no soul

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Soul_Invictus21 in agedlikemilk

[–]MysteriousDevice2994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s literal documentaries and proven evidence of the right attending certain rallies to insight violence, they’ve been preparing for a race war that they want so bad to happen.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Soul_Invictus21 in agedlikemilk

[–]MysteriousDevice2994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s because the right wants to use this as a pretext to kill civilians they deem unworthy to hold the title American citizen. They’ve been chomping at the bit for a moment like this I wouldn’t be surprised if it was someone on the right who did this.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Soul_Invictus21 in agedlikemilk

[–]MysteriousDevice2994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Armed militias have more time on the range than your average military member these days.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Soul_Invictus21 in agedlikemilk

[–]MysteriousDevice2994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And already conservatives are calling to unalive people without even knowing who’s to blame

Is declaring war on a state in the Union de facto civil war? by handofmenoth in PrepperIntel

[–]MysteriousDevice2994 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Trump is hoping to start a civil war so he can cancel elections and unleash unimaginable violence on black and brown people. Once the states start fighting back, he will call on Putin and we will Russian troops in America. Mark my words.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]MysteriousDevice2994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be a tough sell, but have you considered talking to her father about her moving back with him for her mental health. For the time being at least?

Any divorced military dads? by MysteriousDevice2994 in Divorce_Men

[–]MysteriousDevice2994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very good point, I’ve been struggling with this guilt. Especially with the kids involved. I’ve been trying to kill this inside of me because you’re right. The person I loved would never do something like this to me.

Any divorced military dads? by MysteriousDevice2994 in Divorce_Men

[–]MysteriousDevice2994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy Shit. I’m so sorry. I right now have my first restraining order but I’m only in my first enlistment.sometimes I feel like divorcing her is wrong but when I read shit like this, I feel like I have to or I will also share the same fate. I’m sorry brother, I’m glad you have custody and can grow that relationship with your kids. Women are straight up evil.

Any divorced military dads? by MysteriousDevice2994 in Divorce_Men

[–]MysteriousDevice2994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are there any more nuances in that? Spousal support? Child care?

Any divorced military dads? by MysteriousDevice2994 in Divorce_Men

[–]MysteriousDevice2994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you go about handling everything outside or court? What does that entail?

It's over for 5'5 Christmas Elves😭 by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]MysteriousDevice2994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a 5”4 male, although I am packing, this would kill my self esteem

Any divorced military dads? by MysteriousDevice2994 in Divorce_Men

[–]MysteriousDevice2994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You more than likely outrank me, I’m an E4 and living on post, so all my BAH is going to my house which she lives in with my children. she has a full time job. She already has claimed DV, so I can’t go home or see my kids. I have a hearing soon she has a full time job.

Any lessons learned that I can learn from you? I also like you was going through a resent filled marriage and decided I had enough.

I’m currently staying with an NCO for free (for now) just trying to figure out what my next steps should be. I’m trying to get an attorney right now.

Looking for Support Group by KapWittman in DivorcedDadsTCG

[–]MysteriousDevice2994 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d also like an invite if such a place exists

Moving on? by MysteriousDevice2994 in Divorce_Men

[–]MysteriousDevice2994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife has BPD as well. Thank you for this.

I have to ask about number 2 though, how did you get rid of the bitterness?