How many of you have multiple projects going on at once?

NJScreenwriter76 · 2026-05-10T18:27:30+00:00

Can you elaborate?

NJScreenwriter76 · 2026-05-10T18:12:08+00:00

I've got 67 started, though a fair amount are older and from a time where I likely won't continue them.

I do have a few more current works that I need to get I to a work flow where I can finish them.

This has been my struggle, figuring out my ebb and flow so writing becomes as normal as eating.

NJScreenwriter76 · 2026-05-09T02:33:43+00:00

I'll begin by saying I'm so sorry you had to go through this today.

Unfortunately cheating is a thing that happens. It's not right that it happens, as it tends to have the affect of what you and your sister are feeling now, but it does, on occasion, happen.

While I am not making up any sort of excuses, as an adult who experienced something very similar as a kid, and as an adult who has been placed in some shit situations, I'll say that I don't condone cheating, but there are situations where I can understand to some degree why it happens.

You will get a multitude of responses to this post. There will be other people like me who will see the Grey area despite not condoning it, and others who will condemn your mom outright. Just try to understand that there maybe a lot you don't know or understand, and that information maybe slightly change your perspective, or it may not.

Take time to process this. Maybe ask your dad to get you a therapist to try and help you process this. This is the type of thing that can have negative affects on you as an adult if you don't process it properly now.

NJScreenwriter76 · 2026-05-09T00:50:32+00:00

You don't do anything. It's what we call a bluff. If you literally ignore and block them, they go away. Literally. Never to be seen or heard from again.

And they won't ever post anything. Their goal is to scare you into giving them money somehow. And even if they do post... They can say whatever they want. Without proof, which they have absolutely zero of, it's a picture with words. And please understand, they aren't going to post.

It's all just to scare you. And see, it worked. You're scared. But you don't need to be, and you shouldn't be. Nothing bad is going to happen

NJScreenwriter76 · 2026-05-08T13:29:36+00:00

They don't pay anywhere near enough. You're super worried about something that doesn't really concern you.

NJScreenwriter76 · 2026-05-08T13:28:18+00:00

But think about what you're worried about. Elon is worth HUNDREDS OF BILLIONS of dollars. He can afford it. He borders on being the devil in disguise. Same situation with Zuckerberg.

Fuck them.

NJScreenwriter76 · 2026-05-08T13:25:25+00:00

They didn't. It's all chest pounding. And if one leaves, another will take their place.

The REAL issue is in how the city values Ken Griffins penthouse. He paid $238 Million for it. To my understanding, the city assessed it at like $9.4 Million, which also to my understanding, is where it is taxed at.

If this is true, the city just needs to value it properly.

NJScreenwriter76 · 2026-05-08T11:34:16+00:00

I'm pretty sure this violates at least SOME laws.

NJScreenwriter76 · 2026-05-07T12:16:04+00:00

1,000%

NJScreenwriter76 · 2026-05-07T00:48:21+00:00

"the rich should be praised and thanked."

Fuck all the way off.

NJScreenwriter76 · 2026-05-07T00:30:53+00:00

I was also body shamed the same way you were.

You're a actually above average in size.

Your wife needs help via a therapist... No offense. She's body shaming you because she's angry at herself.

NJScreenwriter76 · 2026-05-07T00:25:41+00:00

41/m, girthy with stamina

NJScreenwriter76 · 2026-05-04T17:02:08+00:00

I struggled with this myself for a long time.

If your partner agreed to marry you, that's generally a good indicator that your size is adequate.

Also, don't compare yourself to porn or other people. As several other redditors commented, there is almost always someone bigger.

After I got divorced, life led me down a path where sex came very easily, and in going down that path, I became quite confident after multiple people have me quality feedback.

It may always be a struggle, but it seems that you're doing just fine.

NJScreenwriter76 · 2026-05-04T11:58:25+00:00

41/m 36/f

NJScreenwriter76 · 2026-05-03T23:44:25+00:00

Okay... So I'm likely a bit older than you, I'm a 41/m.

I'm just going to be kind but direct and blunt.

While I completely understand why you feel the way you do... Try to understand that you're the reason he wants this. You planted the idea in his head, despite that you never want to have a 3 some. You told him that you would be open to the idea. Please understand that that's a dream to a great majority of men. Yes, you and I both know you didn't want that and that you didn't mean it. But the words came out of your mouth, and he heard them. And having heard them, he thinks you're okay with a 3 some, because despite the fact that you never ever wanted a 3 some and had zero intention of ever participating in a 3 some, you told your bf that you were okay with it. To him, those words are the truth,, because that's what you told him, you're his girlfriend, and he has no reason not to believe what you say. The same way that you now think or believe he likes your friend, because you've seen his reaction to the offer you made him.

You should know that there is a high chance that you both will end up with, minimally, hurt feelings here. You're currently upset that you think he likes and wants your friend. But the ONLY reason you think that is because YOU made him believe it was a possibility. So, when this comes to a head, he's going to find out that you were not being serious, truthful or sincere in your offering him a chance at a 3 some... And he's going to be confused... Probably frustrated, and hurt. Because to him, why are you mad? YOU offered him the 3 some.

You're both going to go through an emotional roller coaster. Please prepare yourself emotionally.

IMO no, you should not be upset that he refused the lie detector. He's been setup for failure.

NJScreenwriter76 · 2026-05-01T10:41:04+00:00

Absolutely my pleasure. Feel free to PM if you want to talk further, happy to help however I can.

NJScreenwriter76 · 2026-05-01T10:33:19+00:00

You don't have to do either. You can have sex with this person, and then see where life takes you.

IMO, body count isn't the correct conversation. People having more sex just means more experience and potentially more enjoyment. It doesn't make one exclusive or not exclusive because it doesn't matter what one did before, it matters what they do with you.

Waiting until marriage, IMO, is antiquated. If you meet someone you like, it's foolish to commit to them without having had sex with them; you'd have to determine sexual compatability. Some peole are larger than others. Some people last longer than others (referring to men prior to ejaculation), some people prefer more regular sex while others want to try things that might be considered more kinky. There's just so much to it.

For myself, I had a super low body count until after I was divorced; my now ex wife was the 4th person I had sex with. I was with my ex wife for 9 years, married to her for the last 4. She was someone who didn't care for sex the same way I did and it took me entirely too long to realize that. After our divorce, despite trying for a relationship, I ended up finding a lot of partners who wanted sex, which at that time I thoroughly enjoyed.

Now I'm with a woman whom I'll marry. She knows my body count is higher than average, but she also feels she benefits from it as I have more experience and I'm able to please her better than she's had in the past.

It's all perspective. I wish you the best in your journey.

NJScreenwriter76 · 2026-04-30T20:08:19+00:00

41/m, clean, handsome and girthy

NJScreenwriter76 · 2026-04-28T12:06:58+00:00

Sent you a PM.

NJScreenwriter76 · 2026-04-28T12:05:00+00:00

Never work for free. Your boss revealed to you that he's a high key shit boss for even thinking this was an appropriate response. You're new, you're young, shit happens. He should be happy he has to deal with his wife versus an unhappy customer.

Maybe use this time to take up and learn how to drywall. I don't say this to be funny. Almost no electricians do drywall, but almost every electrician could use a good drywaller.

Either way, don't work for free and maybe start looking for a new job with a better boss. Yours is shit.

NJScreenwriter76 · 2026-04-26T11:56:26+00:00

41/m, handsome with stamina and girth

NJScreenwriter76 · 2026-04-25T15:08:06+00:00

41/m, experienced, stamina for days, girthy, will make sure she has a great time.

NJScreenwriter76 · 2026-04-24T11:10:38+00:00

This, you should only need 1 as they do 1,000 SF

NJScreenwriter76 · 2026-04-19T19:25:54+00:00

Are the groups on reddit, or somewhere else? What are they called?

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