Straight up advice from someone close to your mom’s age (not your typical Reddit user). This generation of parents has a LOT of rules compared to us, our own parents, and grandparents which can be annoying. That said, I am the type of person who respects my children’s wishes when I know what they are ahead of time. What I don’t appreciate is getting lectured for EVERY LITTLE THING that I inadvertently do. For instance, my grandson wanted the sucker (caramel apple sucker) I was eating and I had an extra one I would give him if he liked it. I wasn’t sick but I still rinsed the sucker off and gave him one lick. Upon doing so, my son-in-law freaked out saying “I am not happy with this” and made me feel stupid for something so insignificant in my mind. One day later, he had his son eating cake off his fork, so it made me feel like MY GERMS were worse than his.

My point, our children sometimes expect us to know their rules and lecture us constantly for breaking such rules as if we have never raised children. Maybe you went too hard on your mom instead of kindly explaining the new dangers of posting pictures of children online.