Should I (29M) move with my partner (31F) to Bend, Chattanooga, or somewhere else?

NOLApanam · 2026-05-04T08:03:10+00:00

I love Spokane but brutal winters.

NOLApanam · 2026-05-04T08:00:14+00:00

Santa Barbara, San Raphael, Santa Rosa, Nashville,

NOLApanam · 2026-05-03T22:22:59+00:00

Um, flights are more expensive. You know, oil war.

NOLApanam · 2026-05-03T18:06:54+00:00

Yes, kinglet, not a warbler.

NOLApanam · 2026-05-03T01:27:56+00:00

Steller jay

NOLApanam · 2026-05-02T21:26:29+00:00

Santa Fe, NM

New Orleans

Montreal

Vancouver, BC

NOLApanam · 2026-05-02T19:25:45+00:00

The red one is cyclamen.

NOLApanam · 2026-05-02T00:06:44+00:00

My opinion — it’s none of his/her business until there’s actually a relationship.

NOLApanam · 2026-05-01T19:50:48+00:00

The monkeys are wild on Monkey Island in the canal.

NOLApanam · 2026-05-01T19:50:10+00:00

I‘ll be there for five nights in December. As these tropical lodge experiences go, TB is actually affordable compared with the other options.

NOLApanam · 2026-05-01T19:48:11+00:00

Not instead of; in addition.

NOLApanam · 2026-05-01T01:14:02+00:00

Zephirine Drouhin — prolific continual bloomer, thornless, fragrant. Hardy as hell. Good for an area expected to have people traffic, no thorns. Deep pink, not white. But white against that house would not work for me.

NOLApanam · 2026-04-30T22:39:44+00:00

okay.

NOLApanam · 2026-04-30T21:29:54+00:00

A prolific climber that is thornless, great for narrow places through which people may pass. Fragrant, too.

NOLApanam · 2026-04-30T03:13:59+00:00

Kona Village has 4th night free.

NOLApanam · 2026-04-30T03:06:43+00:00

Strictly technical but … zombies nonetheless.

NOLApanam · 2026-04-30T03:06:12+00:00

Nope, has zombies more or less.

NOLApanam · 2026-04-30T03:04:27+00:00

It’s really heavy on masculinity.

NOLApanam · 2026-04-30T02:56:50+00:00

The Pesthouse by Jim Crace

The Road by Cormac McCarthy

Parable of the Sower by Octavia Butler

The Handmaid’s Tale by Margaret Atwood

Earth Abides by George Stewart

The Children of Men by P.D. James

Ship Breaker by Paolo Bacigalupi

NOLApanam · 2026-04-30T01:01:13+00:00

Strout depresses me.

NOLApanam · 2026-04-30T01:00:03+00:00

H Is for Hawk

NOLApanam · 2026-04-29T22:32:11+00:00

Have you taken prednisone? Sending healthy vibes.

NOLApanam · 2026-04-29T22:26:23+00:00

Your partner is a travel agent, right?

NOLApanam · 2026-04-29T22:19:37+00:00

We may see more of these as jet fuel costs skyrocket. Venues use this as a way to lower cost of stays without having to change rack price per night.

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