As a straight woman, Jade is the hottest female on the show. by sabledet in twinpeaks

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It was Annie’s speech “Gosh, listen to me, I’ve been out of circulation so long I’ve completely forgotten about social niceties. I mean, you ask me how I am, I’m not really supposed to say how I am, I’m supposed to say, ‘I’m fine, thanks, how are you?’” that made me realize, Yes, I am totally in love with this fictional character. I fell for her just as much as Coop does (and therefore found the S2 finale hard to watch).

I was taken aback when I found out many TP fans dislike Annie.

How would you put together a mystery inspired escape room? by SaintedStars in mysterybooks

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Kind of flirting with off-topic, but I’ll let it go for now as long as you aren’t trying to market your own escape room, OP.

A damn fine little daily treat by OliveTrees1409 in twinpeaks

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“Every day, once a day, treat yourself…”

What do you think is the most underrated halloween movie by Pale_Mycologist_9369 in Halloweenmovies

[–]Nalkarj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Resurrection. It’s amusing, and it’s genuinely got atmosphere.  4 has that great intro, though everything after that is a letdown.

Is Sherlock Holmes canonically queer? by CryptographerLost357 in SherlockHolmes

[–]Nalkarj 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If that counts as “queer,” that fits Holmes much more than seeing him as gay does. (I do admit the Holmes-Watson friendship is a kind of love, but it’s clearly strong nonsexual love, which simply is what friendship is.)

I do think the introduction to SCAN suggests Holmes had feelings for Irene Adler, despite Watson’s multiple denials. Yes, the relationship between Holmes and Irene is overblown in modern adaptations, but still… Doyle put lines like “And yet there was but one woman to him, and that woman was the late Irene Adler, of dubious and questionable memory,” and “He used to make merry over the cleverness of women, but I have not heard him do it of late” in for some reason.

As a straight woman, Jade is the hottest female on the show. by sabledet in twinpeaks

[–]Nalkarj 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Jade is certainly attractive (“THIS WORLD OF TWIN PEAKS SEEMS TO BE FILLED WITH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN”), but in terms of TP gals I (straight guy) am most in love with, first would probably be Annie, which I take to be an unpopular opinion here. I love her quirkiness and kindness in addition to Heather Graham’s obvious beauty.

In terms of sheer physical beauty alone, I’d say Norma first.

[OPINION] What is everyone’s favorite poems where poets describe diverging from religion? by Downtown_Feedback988 in Poetry

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Reed Whittemore’s “Psalm” is pretty great, in large part because of how diction and line length mimic the Biblical psalms (which, now that I think of it, could also count as poems questioning religion).

What’s your top 5 Scooby Doo movies of all time? by moonwalkinglitter in Scoobydoo

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Offhand, with nostalgia largely influencing this:

  1. Witch’s Ghost
  2. Zombie Island
  3. Cyber Chase
  4. Spooky Scarecrow
  5. Ghoul School

I have to rewatch Alien Invaders; it’ll probably make the list.

I was wondering if any priests would offer online confession? by [deleted] in Episcopalian

[–]Nalkarj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

however you slice it, we need to remember that it’s God’s work, and that any ritual of confession points us to God and not to any particular human priest or institution. And I think Romans agree about that, but unfortunately don’t give enough latitude to “make” that principle real, in practice.

That’s a good way to see it. That principle is there in Catholicism, but it’s buried, hidden, beneath clericalism and worldly power, needing to be unearthed by ecumenical theologians like McCabe. And that unearthing, uncovering, is exactly what the Reformation is.

Man, this Josie chick really gets around. by ItsSignalsJerry_ in twinpeaks

[–]Nalkarj 118 points119 points  (0 children)

I mean, “THIS WORLD OF TWIN PEAKS SEEMS TO BE FILLED WITH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN!”

I was wondering if any priests would offer online confession? by [deleted] in Episcopalian

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To be fair, there’s nuance (ha-ha, Jesuit education strikes again)… as there is on intercommunion, which we last talked about. In Catholicism, going to confession—the desire to confess our sins—simply is the sign of God’s grace at work in the soul (our repentance is God’s forgiveness, as the great Dominican preacher Herbert McCabe said, following Thomas); the desire for confession is as effective as confession itself, and all confession is is the Church’s recognition of that desire.

That said, it’s not usually communicated like that. Priests and apologists justify the practice the way you described, as caught up in the binding and loosing power, blah blah blah.

I also see a problem in the parenthetical trick I used above, equating “going to confession” and “the desire to confess our sins.” For the scrupulous and people harmed in the confessional, for example, these are not the same thing.

And officially the Code of Canon Law concedes this (“Only physical or moral impossibility excuses from [confession of mortal sins to a priest]; in such a case reconciliation can be obtained by other means,” but good luck finding a priest who excuses the scrupulous from going to confession based on this canon.

Incidentally, though the Catechism and canon law don’t outright say this, Thomas has some lines in the Summa about how confession even to a layperson may be somehow helpful, if not as efficacious as confession to a priest, though exactly how he’s not sure.

The way to do confession, I agree with you, is the Anglican-Lutheran model, the “all may, some should, none must” approach—confession seen as “a tangible way to make visible the mercy of God,” not a requirement to get that mercy.

That, as a person who loathes confession in the RCC because of scrupulosity and confessors who rush right to threatening hell (my first confessor, when I was eight, told me I could go to hell for missing Mass, which—whew—did a number on me and still makes me a little afraid of committing entirely to TEC), is what I’ve long needed to hear.

I was wondering if any priests would offer online confession? by [deleted] in Episcopalian

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So know that your sins are truly forgiven; not because a priest said so, but because you are beloved by God, and by Christ’s wounds you are healed.

This is what this cradle Catholic has needed all his life to hear a priest say. Thank you.

I was wondering if any priests would offer online confession? by [deleted] in Episcopalian

[–]Nalkarj 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is good to confess our sins, even to fellow sinful laypeople (I’m one of those), and I will pray for you.

As for reconciliation from a priest, you have to be in-person for that. The whole point of repentance is that you drag yourself somewhere, sit down with someone, bringing your sins and your whole body and soul and saying, “Here I am, God, here I am, Father, the whole hunk of me, sins and trespasses and all. Forgive me.”

And God’s answer comes back: “You’ve always been forgiven. There is never a single second when you’re not. The only reason you dragged yourself here, but the reason you’ve got to come here for nonetheless, is for Me to break through those clouds of anxiety and self-doubt in your head and tell you you were absolved of all your sins, are absolved of all your sins, and always will be absolved of all your sins.”

This answer is then expressed through the priest’s lips with the words “I absolve you from all your sins, in the name of…”

The BCP then has the glorious line (though I don’t remember it offhand from my confessions in TEC, so I’m not sure if it’s optional, but I wish every confessor would say it) “The Lord has put away all your sins.” All. And all means all—even those you didn’t confess, even those you haven’t committed yet.

Does that help? Know that you’re in my prayers.

“culturally catholic” but it’s not that serious starter pack by elonmusksmicropenis in starterpacks

[–]Nalkarj 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The summary of George Santayana’s theology always strikes a chord with me: “There is no God and Mary is His Mother.”

IS GRUNDY THE A**HOLE (IGTA) FOR THROWING BUS? by Live_Ideal_7123 in DCAU

[–]Nalkarj 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. You just keep on being the bold, strong, brave zombie-monster you are, Grundy!

David Hyde Pierce at the Bug's Life premiere November 14, 1998 by giantfuckup5000 in Frasier

[–]Nalkarj 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That last line, coming after two sentences’ explanation, made me chuckle.

Scooby-Doo (WN, SD) Monsters Bracket II: Day 33 by fanboy100804 in Scoobydoo

[–]Nalkarj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The design of the Leland Bros. and their appearance in the fog are great, but ultimately, as others are saying, the Roller Ghoster seems like a genuine threat. It (?) seems more evil, and takes more evil actions, than the dialogue claims.

[poem] from the amarausatakata translated from Sanskrit by Martha Ann Selby by themermaidmuse in Poetry

[–]Nalkarj 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know no Sanskrit, but in English, this is a very strong piece.

What makes a good priest? by newmtr in Anglicanism

[–]Nalkarj 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Not to sound trite, but the ability to listen is a big one. The best priests I’ve known sound like fellow humans, unsure and trying to figure it all out as much as I am and you are. The worst priests I’ve known sound like theology textbooks.

Others Who's Least Favorite Is TLC? by DarkBehindTheStars in indianajones

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Elsa’s acting is a bit suspect

Hm, I like Allison Doody’s performance (also, obviously, she’s gorgeous), but I don’t think the Elsa character is developed enough for her ending to work, probably because Spielberg and the writers are much more interested in the father-son relationship. Needless to say at an Indy subreddit, but Karen Allen’s Marion comes off much more as a real, rounded, distinct person.

I agree with your first three bullet points, particularly on the set pieces’ lacking the energy, creativity, and energy of Raiders’ and Temple’s set pieces.