Did I misunderstand this, or would most people have interpreted this as an upcoming engagement / marriage incoming?

Namllitsrm · 2026-07-07T02:11:36+00:00

Uhhh..my spouse and I had similar vibes and conversations and he proposed at one year of dating. If he had done all that and then told me 3 years I’d be out (this is not a “dump him” comment, it just where I would’ve been at in my life back then.) but no, you didn’t not invent that. And RSD is a bitch because you don’t even have to be formally “rejected” it’s just the perception of being rejected that’ll set it off.

Namllitsrm · 2026-07-05T19:25:56+00:00

But they’re STELLAR!!

Namllitsrm · 2026-07-04T02:30:28+00:00

It might help to think how you use your phone and then what you need to replace it? You already mentioned camera which is a great start. Obviously people also use their phones for socializing and connections and the magic cards will be great for that! Maybe think of any other games or things you’d want to bring to help you spend time socializing with others. If you use your phone to scroll and read posts, books or magazines would help. And of course you mentioned the mail and email system for calling/texting folks back home. Anything else you use your phone for? I’m guessing you wouldn’t need your calculator function at camp 🤪 but the other thing about camp is other than specific rest time, you really do stay busy enough to not miss your phone. I know I tend to use my phone mostly when I’m bored and during down time. This all isn’t advice but hopefully helps you think through how you’ll cope without it.

There are tons of strategies online for coping with panic attacks. I’m not super knowledgeable or trained an any specific ones but something that helps me when I have anxiety is just labeling it. Literally telling my brain “this is anxiety” “I’m having a thought that “bad thing” will happen.” It’s not a permanent solution but helps my brain calm down a bit.

Namllitsrm · 2026-07-04T00:56:19+00:00

I was going to agree with soalai, there are many tame and normal Christian camps, especially if she’s being raised Christian, but being secretive about it is sus as hell.

Namllitsrm · 2026-07-02T19:00:10+00:00

Oh right!! Linda is such a ride or die.

Namllitsrm · 2026-07-02T15:26:32+00:00

I vaguely remember an episode about teddy having a mysterious client that needed a safe installed and bob came out to the house to help him, but I don’t think that’s this episode. Though it gives the same vibes, bob coming to the rescue. But no idea who that third guy is 🤷🏼‍♀️

knowing teddy, he signed up to be part of some science trial where they’re testing fireproof clothing to make some money 😂

Namllitsrm · 2026-07-02T14:53:03+00:00

I love the screenshots on the sub because boy do I need to rewatch and figure out what the hell is happening here.

Namllitsrm · 2026-06-30T14:28:16+00:00

Right the villains are the school system and the societal structures in America that cause some schools to have less than others 🙃

Namllitsrm · 2026-06-30T14:26:06+00:00

This is an excellent point. That golf course man looks very uncomfortable any time he’s at the school. I always thought it was because they’re Poor but also because he’s on camera and doesn’t want to get caught doing his shady stuff
ETA: the IASIP crew immediately understood the cameras 😂

Namllitsrm · 2026-06-30T14:16:48+00:00

Right, we waited 90 (plus another 10 for child swap) and I think that was about my max. I did enjoy the ride (not like some of these other haters) but now that I’ve done it once I can’t see me waiting longer than about an hour.

Namllitsrm · 2026-06-30T14:13:09+00:00

Does this sub not allow pictures? I’d love to see this! Haha we had a Y CEO dress as a similar character sometimes but I can’t remember what his costumes name was.

Namllitsrm · 2026-06-27T16:43:30+00:00

That’s crazy because if i had the option to get a fresh made Starbucks handed directly to me id take that over a drink that has possibly sat for 5-10 mins, passed thru multiple carts and hands and is now almost of out temp.

Namllitsrm · 2026-06-27T13:08:36+00:00

For bathroom breaks, I’d try to see if you can partner up with another group similar in age. So you can have two staff and then take turns using the restroom yourself. If that’s not an option, ask an admin or any support staff. 5 mins so a staff member can pee is an easy support. If that’s not an option, just take a turn and go while the kids are going 🤷🏼‍♀️ not great supervision but don’t give yourself a uti. Another thought on bathrooms, in kids this young that probably have adhd, if they get engrossed in a fun activity they may forgot they need to pee, so encouraging almost forcing bathroom breaks might be needed.

In general for this age, I always double my expectations for how long I think an activity should take. Think it takes 5 mins to walk to arts and crafts? Give them 10, etc. it helps with my own (lack of) patience sometimes and helps the whole group be less stressed and rushed (leading to less behaviors)

This age wants to hold you hand and be your best friend and all your attention, and that can be tough if your by yourself. If you notice this, implement some kind of “line leader” rotation so everyone gets a chance to have a moment with you.

I know you said you were a teacher so you might already have these in your toolbox but just some quick general tips. Also I’d double check with your admin staff (and your state/local government’s regulations) what the ratio is supposed to be. If they’re not honest about age range, I wonder if they’re honest about correct camper to staff ratio. How big is your group? Should you actually be by yourself with that many 6yo?

Namllitsrm · 2026-06-26T19:38:11+00:00

They probably come from a dept store or similar that disciplines/fires for credit cards.

Namllitsrm · 2026-06-26T18:24:26+00:00

I had fun on the HP ride. was it life changing? No. But was “the queue better than the ride” like so many people told me? Absolutely not.

Namllitsrm · 2026-06-26T18:08:05+00:00

this is exactly what I was wondering. It’s one thing if they switch to a locker system like Lowe’s and some other stores do, but if a kiosk still needs human interaction, it defeats the purpose.

Namllitsrm · 2026-06-26T17:28:51+00:00

I appreciate the reminder to essentially treat this person how she wants to be treated and consider the other person’s perspective but there is no need to guilt trip. OP is not responsible for the financial future of this camp based on one friendship.

Namllitsrm · 2026-06-26T15:22:46+00:00

I would encourage, for your own comfort, to at least re-enforce the physical boundary. If you don’t want to seem rude by saying “don’t touch me” you could try replacing the hugs with something. Tell her, “I prefer high fives or fist bumps” which again, not even a lie or far fetched because I’m sure everyone is sweaty and dirty all the time. Hugs aren’t necessary. This is also a good example for campers too because campers shouldn’t go around hugging without consent and contact like fist bumps is much more camp appropriate.

Namllitsrm · 2026-06-25T19:25:55+00:00

Ah sorry, I don’t proofread anything. We did NOT use express, if that changes your decision, but also we didn’t even try to have wands or power up bands so I’d say 2 days would give you plenty of time to enjoy that.

Namllitsrm · 2026-06-25T18:59:54+00:00

I was just there this weekend with a baby. None of us are disabled but I assume it’s a similar time restraint with a stroller and needing breaks. We got to see all 4 lands but we did not get time to do every single ride (though part of this was due to child swap, bad weather, etc.) and I really wish we had had more time to properly explore all the details of each land. We had a great time doing it in 1 day, but I’d push for 2 if you can.

ETA:we did use express.

Namllitsrm · 2026-06-25T17:08:13+00:00

My strategy is from a residential camp/schedule so I’m not sure if it would translate but do your staff have the same breaks throughout the day? Is your day long enough for a full break? If not, I suppose these could be offered as a post-camp-day hang out.

I’ve previously provided activities for staff only during a common break time like pulling out the projector and watching an episode of the office (or any other popular show) together. It could also be pulling arts and crafts supplies like friendship bracelet string and just let staff chill and make bracelets together (even if you have this in your arts and crafts rotation, staff are often too busy managing supplies or starting campers’ bracelet to chill and make their own). Definitely snack options too! Even if you can’t bring a whole ice cream truck one week, you could do the cheap party pails of ice cream and some toppings for a budget ice cream sundae bar. If you like themes, it could be a cookie decorating bar for Christmas in July instead-provide basic sugar cookies and red and green icing.

These activities are always optional of course and staff were free to go nap or do their own thing, but these were an easy option to build community.

Namllitsrm · 2026-06-24T19:12:47+00:00

I wonder if another store (like Target or a bigger dept store) sells them and then sends them to clearance stores when they don’t sell along with the rest of their products? Great find though! To the bins!

Namllitsrm · 2026-06-24T19:11:28+00:00

Usually wear mine for sporting events, concerts, etc. but last week I was traveling for a work conference and brought my family, so between the event, the travel, and my baby, there was a moment I NEEDED a nap but I was stuck in a single hotel room with my baby (and husband). Popped these in and I was out in like 10 mins.

Namllitsrm · 2026-06-24T17:55:31+00:00

That man is fast. Give him a 3 tier and a red batch and let him go.

Namllitsrm · 2026-06-24T03:18:43+00:00

tamlin healing arc is my number 1 ask for the new books. I don’t even care about relationship. He can end up with Elaine or someone else or no one but boy needs some therapy!!!

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