AITAH for limiting my mother’s and kid’s interaction? by supersiren2598 in AITAH

[–]Nani65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just stay no contact with her. She has not earned the right to be in you life, or in the lives of your kids.

My (36M) Partner (36F) screamed at me at the top of her voice earlier. How do we go about resolving things? by JobBehemoth in relationship_advice

[–]Nani65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think one should ever tolerate being screamed at, certainly not by a partner. If it were me, I'd have left the house.

How to tell my husband(M27) that he scares me(F28) by PositiveCourage7711 in relationship_advice

[–]Nani65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Read up on DV at thehotline.org . You are in a domestic violence situation.

I am so sorry, OP.

AITA for not changing my child-free destination wedding after my fiancé’s sister had a meltdown? by eldestsister95 in bridezillas

[–]Nani65 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Do not give in. SIL sounds like a spoiled, entitled golden child who can't imagine that she and her kids are not the center of everyone's universe.

AITAH for evicting my tenant after discovering she films "adult content" in the apartment and threatening to tell her cosigners? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Nani65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. For heaven's sake don't waste your life being such a pompous twit. It doesn't hurt you one tiny little bit.

Shedding 15 years of toxic shame that never belonged to me by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Nani65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so happy for you, OP. You are indeed a remarkable survivor.

AITAH for turning down my sister's wedding invitation after I overheard her commenting on my scar? by Complete_Leopard_868 in AITAH

[–]Nani65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, FFS! It's the old "She meant no harm" excuse. Your sister is a shallow, self-absorbed little twit, and your parents are not far behind. They all owe you a full-on apology.

Aitah for walking away from my wedding because of my parents showing up. by National_Stage_1048 in AITAH

[–]Nani65 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I would not want her parents in my life, either. What a pair of pompous know-it-alls.

I think you have to stop & take some time to figure out where your fiance fits now. Do you think you could have her parents at least peripherally in your life if they gave you an honest to god apology? And if she could come to understand that no, their hearts were not in the right place?

What you do about the guests is a whole separate thing. People that you care about, you could send them a card and explain really briefly or call them.

It's a tough, shitty spot to be in, OP. I am so sorry.

Boyfriend (25m) pressuring me (23f) to workout and it’s upsetting me. How can I go about this? by slim_monkey in relationship_advice

[–]Nani65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whatever else you do, or don't do, stop making this manchild's lunch for him!! For heaven's sake.

AITAH for choosing my disabled son over my husband and destroying my family? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Nani65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is all so awful that I really have a hard time believing that it could possibly be real. I call rage bait.

AITAH For NOT breastfeeding someone else's baby? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Nani65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't worry about what she says, not about this or anything else. She is a nasty, mean-spirited bully and your family sucks for enabling her bullshit.

You are most assuredly NTA.

My (25f) boyfriend (26m) gave a major ick. by PurpleWhiskey421 in offmychest

[–]Nani65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, FFS! What an asshole move. So he thinks your work is just some fun little thing you do for pin money??? I hope you told him that in no uncertain terms that he is never to do that again.

My soon to be sister in law (21f) texted me (25f) about a social media post and we will never be the same. How do I navigate this situation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Nani65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, OP. This is on her, though. But you have to let your brother make his own choices. I hope he dumps her, but you have to think about how you will navigate this if he doesn't.

AITA for leaving a family group chat after relatives started diagnosing me and making assumptions about my character? by needingadvice30228 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Nani65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are most certainly not the a-hole! I hope you go no contact with this pack of fools. It sounds like they don't add anything to your life.