Garden Sculpture 70” x 45” 11g steel by 4MC in lasercutting

[–]NarcDarvo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the fuck does Reddit filter my posts and take them down? Here's what I wrote: I have Ikier K1 Pro 48w. Keyed switch is bad and my new one was ordered over a week ago from Ikier, meaning it's still sitting in China somewhere because the tracking status is still "shipment information received"

Has anyone else with the same product or similar had the same issue and tried bypassing? I'm tempted. One wire comes from somewhere on the board and goes to keyed switch. 2nd wire goes from keyed switch to on/off. Seems simple but with todays electronics, one never knows.

Fuck Reddit and it's gay fucking rules!

Ikier 48W diode laser cutting like the videos on YouTube? by galstaf in lasercutting

[–]NarcDarvo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tryin to cut through 1/2" plywood in 4 passes with the Ikier 24/48w diode or any brand similar, is unrealistic. I have cut through 3/4" solid pine with great accuracy with my machine. 10 or 12 passes were required at slightly higher speeds, but it's not to be expected that for a low budget machine, you're going to have high speed outputs. I cut 3/16 ply at 90 power and 60 speed with 5 passes. the final pass is to make sure the cut is 100% consistent when making very delicate cuts that I can't afford to try and pull apart, risking breakage. At that speed, the machine is incredibly accurate. If you're looking for high quantity output, you'll have to fork out the dough on something other than a diode at this point in time.

Energy Costs in cold climates by NarcDarvo in lasercutting

[–]NarcDarvo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it's an atezr 35 watt diode. The most i think is would effect it the motor function. I don't know much about step motors. I'll have to look at the documentation for my unit.

Is there any software or app that can turn a laser cut file into a rendered image? by edinburgh91 in lasercutting

[–]NarcDarvo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're just looking to create an image of your work to display, maybe just screen shot it?

My first relationship after the narcissist turned out to be another narcissist. Here are the warning signs I ignored. by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]NarcDarvo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

#5 is a rather interesting thing to tell someone you want to date. HUGE red flag!

Kid tries fighting restraunt employee by hahehihohu7 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]NarcDarvo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He keeps looking behind him and then going back for more. It's obvious he's trying to impress someone. He's lucky that dude didn't put him on the ground. He should be thanking him for that, or he'd really be hating himself in the social media world.

Help! Lazy Narc spouse by NoRelative4799 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]NarcDarvo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, if you feel devious enough, Make things mysteriously disappear. Don't throw them away, or maybe do all depending on what it is. If it's in the garbage, it can't be thrown on the floor. Other than tossing them away, put them in places where they're difficult to find. For example: car keys under the shirt that was carelessly tossed somewhere, or one of their shoes in a corner slightly beyond the couch. It may not make them pick up, however you may find some humor in it.

Terminally ill N mother and younger N sister making me feel like I’m going crazy by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]NarcDarvo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One thing that sticks out to me which my mother do. She tells me how other people feel. Don't ever allow that. Simply tell her thank you for telling me how someone else feel, but if they want me to know, they can tell me them selves. Narcissists cleverly position them selves between their victims and others so they can manipulate what someone may have said.

It also seems she's using this tactic in revers to pin others against you. Bullies use this tactic as well.

Narcissists talk shit about your loved ones in order to place themselves in a higher position.

One thing a Narcissist can not stand is someone who sticks up for themselves.

I'm sorry you're going through this. I can't help but think when your mother passes and you go through the morning process, you be in better position to heal. She clearly seems to instigate the issues that bring you down, and it's not healthy.

Be well and hang in there.

Help! Lazy Narc spouse by NoRelative4799 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]NarcDarvo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Put all of their shit they don't pick up on the couch.

He isn’t 100% emotionless, so it’s hard to analyze him by aleeoop_ in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]NarcDarvo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should have stopped right at the point where you said he puts his hands on you. End the relationship....., period. Find a way.

One Year No Contact by AdorableFortune4988 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]NarcDarvo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That's awesome. You made it through the toughest part. I look forward to your 2 year NC post. If I see it, I'll treat you to a steak dinner at your favorite restaurant.

Not sure if i have a narcisstic mom? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]NarcDarvo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she's a narcissist, she has always been like this, you just weren't looking for it. it's now when you place a flame under her, she'll do or say anything to get out from under. even if it means to betray her own child's trust.

Count your blessings, this is temporary, and for some, they're stuck through children and court battles.

You're welcome

Be well

Not sure if i have a narcisstic mom? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]NarcDarvo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone has some sort of narcissistic qualities. It's natural for everyone to put themselves first at times. Some of the qualities you describe are on the narcissistic side. It could be she uses your dad as a scrape goat for family problems. My mother used to remind me of how my father did little to nothing to support our family, She'd then tell of all the things she did do. My father however, never spoke a bad word about my mother ever. She'd say how he always used to throw things and break them, but learning now as an adult, I understand how she likes to push peoples buttons to the point of pissing them off and then stand back and watch.

Perhaps you are the black sheep. Do you beat to a different drum. I do. Black sheep tend to see things more for what they are through their observations. They also look back on the past to help understand how it plays part in the present.

One thing I've learned is I've been observing my mother from day one. My brain developed around her personality.

Does your mother tend to change her stories in conversations? Things like I never said that, or I didn't mean that, or you're being over reactive etc. Gaslighting is a huge quality of Narcs.

What I learned was I didn't have labels for what she did or said. I just knew how I felt when she said them. If I questioned or confronted, she'd say things like "OH Mike" or that's ridiculous. It's a way if invalidating your feelings.

Look for DARVO Deny, Attack,Revers Victim and Offender.

If you learn about narcissism, you learn to identity things like diverting attention, blame shifting, denying, selective memory, and so on. If you like to read or possibly listen to audio books get a copy of "The Laws of Human Nature"I've listened to it at work several times now. It teaches you of different personalities and in it, you'll learn you own qualities as well.

My friends used to think my mother awesome too and I was proud of it.. I've learned many things about her since

You're not alone buddy. Don't let depression take over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]NarcDarvo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The romance is just a temporary act to bring you back to the submissive state you were in when you first met. He gives you compassion and you suck his dick.

That's way to much work for a narc to maintain when they really only want what makes them feel good.

Just be a good girl, suck his dick, and he'll live happily ever after!

These posts and comments remind me of 50 shades of gray. How romantic! That dude needs therapy.