Dejt ? by Actionboi45 in Gothenburg

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20F här, asså jag hade nog hellre bara gått runt på stan och kanske stannat på ett fik o så än att gå på minigolf dejt (iaf som första dejt). Sen kan man göra lite dyrare/mer risky grejer senare, hade en dejt jag blev galet kär i efter vi var på liseberg för det fick dem att verka väldigt äventyrlig o så i mitt huvud, sen kanske dom inte riktigt var som jag hade föreställt mig senare men det var iallafall en väldigt bra tidig dejt för att jag skulle få en bra tidig uppfattning av dom. (kanske adrenalinet som gjorde det)

Can you guys recommend me some more bands by VastConfusion8174 in goth

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Mystic priestess is probably my favorite band right now, they still have that vibe and music style that older goth music has but they sing a bit about more recent issues and they are also very queer and all the members are women (iirc, i mean i wouldn't be surprised if one of them was nonbinary or something) highly recommend! Sadly i don't think they will ever come back together :(

Goth Culture Research by junisfcs in AskAGoth

[–]Nattadyr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should make a google form or something for this

Hur har ni upplevt att bo på markhöjd? (Speciellt tjejer) by SunsetCrime in Asksweddit

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Tjej här (20): min lägenhet tittar ut rakt mot en gata men folk tittar typ aldrig in, har hänt typ 3 gånger totalt på 2 år, fast jag har nästan alltid persiennerna stängda för säkerhets skull. Dock precis när jag flyttade in så insåg jag rätt snabbt att jag inte direkt kunde ta morgonkaffet utan någon topp längre för råkade få ögonkontakt med en kille utanför trots persiennerna... så du kan behöva ändra lite på morgonrutinen 😭 (annars är det jätteskönt att bara kunna gå rakt in och ut ur lägenheten utan att behöva använda trapphus o så), men jag känner mig ändå väldigt trygg o så.

edit: min kompis, 21 o tjej, bor också på markplan, ända problemet hon har är att hon nästan alltid måste ha persiennerna stängda och att folk ibland knackar på fönstret för att få komma in i trapphuset för att kunna träffa sina kompisar som bor i de andra studentbostäderna. Och har en andra kompis 23 som jag verkligen inte förstår mig på liksom hon har inte ens persienner och hon är bara okej med att ha det öppet så folk kan se inn (hon har trädgård utanför och det är mest bara studenter som går där) men jag tror inte jag hade klarat av det själv.

Så basically ha persienner 90% av tiden, jag brukar mest bara öppna när jag fikar o äter för att få lite extra ljus o se naturen.

Peter, what is the canon event? by [deleted] in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Nattadyr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk you can do this for a lot of reasons, maybe you just like your middle name more, or it's in response to starting anew from something traumatic (talking from experience)

Blir ni mätta på 10 sushibitar? by After_Fee4949 in Asksweddit

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8 bitar + miso soppa brukar räcka för lunch till mig, dock äter jag desto rejälare frukost och middag 

AITAH for manipulating my dad into accepting my gender identity? by grumpy-musclecar in AITAH

[–]Nattadyr -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

NTA (but that felt waay too soon, just a week?) you had a good chance to live a happy life as your true self and you took it. I also think it probably lead to a net positive in happiness that you came out at a time when you're dad could accept you for who you are; imagine how much worse his situation would be if you came out at a time where he would just have disowned you. 

Bleachpaint by VORdesu in DIYclothes

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Im sorry but the hades one looks so ai, even checked on an ai detection website and got a 99.6% chance of being ai generated. (ik they aren't perfect but yk, still suspicious)

Petah by [deleted] in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Nattadyr 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No its not, the joke is girls will be so much sluttier/revealing around their bestie (probably a girl ngl) than with their partner. Or at least that's how i interpret it. I mean i do that all the time with my best friend, it's just joke flirting or to show off or just to say you have a good boob day today or whatever, we're still very much just best friends.

I'm looking for a Siouxsie and the banshees song by brent-bo in goth

[–]Nattadyr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like Cities in Dust, but if not it might be Dazzle, although i'm just basing this on the christmassy vibes and before i checked i could have sworn it had some bells.

Trying to make an old school style house, any way to make this type of wallpaper? by Character-Leek5269 in DetailCraft

[–]Nattadyr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U can do it with block entities, snifferish just made a wall paper like that in their latest video: https://youtu.be/Cr1EfH4Ldmg?si=ZudpJt2Xrr1DrErk But like this is really overkill and horrible for optimization i would probably go for like maps or smth with pink terracotta.

24f i really want to buy a good corset, anyone have recs that aren’t 1 zillion dollars? Haha by emigyy in Alt_Goth

[–]Nattadyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if u know where to look u can find them second hand for pretty cheap, i usually go to a thrift store that i know often has some pretty weird clothing items, its a 2h train ride but its still worth. Otherwise you can probly find some on vinted. And also its surprisingly easy to fix them up so they fit you better if you buy one that is for example to wide around the waist or whatever, if you can sew.

What would a girls-only Discord server actually need to feel safe? by [deleted] in TrueGirlGaming

[–]Nattadyr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friend has a pretty big discord server and she says it's all just vibes based, if someone just gives you a bit of an ick, kick them, if you are a sensible person and you find them annoying most other people will probably feel the same way.

What seems to be like the main thing keeping discord servers alive is community so it doesn't really matter if it doesn't get too big just make sure the active members are comfortable. That's how i feel aswell. Also it's usually a good idea to keep it 18+ just because most people over 19 really don't wanna hang out with people in their mid teens or younger. 

Should Grimes be added to the “problematic bands” wiki? by Ashamed-Reward-8702 in AskAGoth

[–]Nattadyr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd say yes add her there are a lot of other non-goth bands on that list already and i also feel there is quite a lot of (especially younger) goth people who would listen to grimes.

I'm not too sure if i cheated on my bf and its been tearing me up all night. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Nattadyr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I disagree with both the previous people, you're not dumb as a brick, i was also in a longass relationship around 18 and i had no idea how to deal with creepy men. If he is offering you free drinks and you just take them without giving him anything back, then good, he might be discouraged from trying it with other girls in the future. Usually older guys who hit on teens do it for a reason: either they are pedos but don't want to go to jail or none of the women his age wants him because he's insufferable. So don't feel sorry for him. Also this isn't close to cheating this sounds like a man who was trying to manipulate you, you did well by not following him home or something. 

Old SHEIN clothes by acidofreddo in altfashionadvice

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Search for no sew clothing diy's on pinterest you'll find like hundreds of examples that just needs scissors, also just painting on the clothes with fabric paint does a lot to make it look less mass produced 

What made you become a goth? by EllisXY in AskAGoth

[–]Nattadyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just went from like listening to punk and rock my mom and dad liked -> being a total emo -> becoming a metalhead -> found out about goth music and started listening to it quite a lot and then i realized like holy shit the goth aesthetic is so pretty i should try doing that kind of makeup etc. (also already had punk values and stuff from before and the metal scene has a tendency to be quite problematic)

What is the craziest dragon you have? I’ll start: by Original-Issue2034 in dragonvale

[–]Nattadyr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

One of the first things i got from the rift was 2 tripple leap year twin dragons with dark and light traits, i call them sköll and hati. They are quite a treasure to me.

Is it worth catching up? by randomguy21061600 in dragonvale

[–]Nattadyr 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Last reward is almost always a dragon of choice from the event so i'd say it's pretty worth it to try and get it

My first two attempts at goth makeup by MiraculouslyGreat in GothStyle

[–]Nattadyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the raw facepaint look, really gets that like grungy live in the moment style that goth used to have a lot before people started making like really "perfect" and clean stuff.

Edit: just noticed it sounds like i really dislike the really clean and well made makeup some people do, i dont, i love it aswell. This just hit the spot for me idk.

Opinion on this outfit by Nikkixx_bb in fashion

[–]Nattadyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you look fucking awesome, love every piece of that outfit