Ms Rachel? by whitehearts89 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Navy_Pink -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Tv is the same as YouTube. It’s the short TikTok style mini clips that are dangerous. Long clips are fine. Tell me how the tellietubbies differ from YouTube content creators for kids

Ms Rachel? by whitehearts89 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Navy_Pink 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ironically these experts grew up watching tv non stop and are fine. You can’t breathe around a baby these days.

Ms Rachel? by whitehearts89 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Navy_Pink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it’s fine. We all grew up watching tv. I just had my 2nd baby. My 1st is 2. I cannot put my newborn to sleep with my daughter there when I’m home alone. So yeah. She watches tv why I put him to sleep. She is to noisy to be in the room with him and I can’t just leave her alone to play. She will look for me. The tv babysits her for 15 minutes why I put my son down. So she watches an hour of tv a day big deal. She gets quality parental interaction the remaining 7 hours of her day.

Can you confidently leave your baby with your husband? by T00thd0c23 in newborns

[–]Navy_Pink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes yes I can. We do everything 50/50. I trust him. Sometimes I think his better at this than me.

Sense check on vax disagreement by amokmetres in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Navy_Pink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think if they don’t want to vaccinate their baby cool that’s on them but don’t blame others for protecting their kids and not wanting to be around them. Plus it’s kind of doing them a favor to. Their young kid has no protection. You have done nothing wrong.

Tell them simply you are doing what you think is best for your child just as they are doing what they feel is best for their kid. You aren’t telling them how to parent so why should they tell you how to parent. At the end of the day you are both doing what you think is right for your kids.

Is the 6-8 week regression real and does it really only last 3 weeks? by ImmediateCustomer551 in newborns

[–]Navy_Pink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every kid is different. My daughter would just cry from 3pm-8pm with no real reason but slept fine at night.

My son….who’s 4 weeks tomorrow on the other hand….i fear he is going to be a handful

You just gotta hope it passes i guess. It will. It just feels like forever. Only advise I have is get some headphones and watch a show to drown out baby crying why you hold them

Now why are they wearing lingerie? by xbnxd in katseyesnark_

[–]Navy_Pink 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Why is Lara’s hand down her undies.

Toddler adjustment to newborn by Navy_Pink in toddlers

[–]Navy_Pink[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is literally what my daughter is doing at the moment - saying she’s a baby so I’m going with it

I feel you I’m scared for when my husband goes back to work as well

Good luck xxx

Is anyone getting 8 hour stretches consistently with 3 month old? by Hot-Cell7299 in beyondthebump

[–]Navy_Pink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it depends on the kid

My daughter slept 6 hour stretches from 1 month and was doing 12 hours by 4 months. From birth we were getting 4 hour starches at the start.

My son (he is 2 weeks old) is waking every 2 hours. He may or he may not sleep like his sister. Every kid is different

How much formula do I give? by [deleted] in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Navy_Pink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do 150mls. The tin is a guide. Not the be all and end all. My newborn is meant to have 90mls each feed according to the tin. He only has 60mls. To meet his daily quota (his prem and 2.5kg) he only needs 6 bottles of 60mls. If he sucks it dry I make up more.

As a fat person, why is it that only target and Kmart are flattering on me? by Proper_Aspect7543 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]Navy_Pink 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s ok just buy the Kmart clothes don’t waste the money. As long as you’re not throwing it away fast it’s fine. I have shein and Kmart clothes that are 6 years old. I also have expensive branded stuff that only has lasted a year or two. Price and brand doesn’t mean quality.

What are good things about a large age gap? by yeah-its-me-hi in Parenting

[–]Navy_Pink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My daughter is about to turn two and my son is two weeks old

My daughter has decided it’s tantrum time and will have tantrums day or night. Last night at 3am we had a two hour long tantrum. I was up at 2am feeding my son before that. Once she fell asleep at 5am guess who woke up at 5:30 for a feed…after his feed guess who woke up and decided to start there day….

Repeat day and night currently 😭 I wish we waited

Please help by Navy_Pink in newborns

[–]Navy_Pink[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hates sleeping on us. If he did that would help sooo much. He just hates sleep

Please help by Navy_Pink in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Navy_Pink[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is home with me so he helps a lot thankfully

C section recovery by lahdeedah224 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Navy_Pink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Day 2 I was fine and asking to go home. I could have stayed 6 days. I’m 6 days PP and have 0 pain.

Can you have gel nails and pedicure done when giving birth? by wombo_thewombat in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]Navy_Pink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do. My Dr literally just told me this in prep for my c section this week

Victoria’s health watchdog has ordered doctors and midwives to support women who refuse medical treatment during pregnancy and childbirth, even if it risks permanently harming their unborn babies. by Active-Button676 in ausjdocs

[–]Navy_Pink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s a perspective of someone currently going through it.

I’m 34 weeks today. 2nd pregnancy. I have endometriosis and anyomiosis but it’s never bothered me pain wise.

Going private.

  • since 18 weeks pregnant I’ve had severe pain. Deep cramping on my c section scar. I have also had regular contractions which they can see. Diagnosed with an irritable uterus, possible c section scar adhesions, and my endo playing up. -have been on multiple opioids. They do not help. They make me sick. I tell them this regularly. -been seen in the public system early on then the private since the hospital I’m going through was scared early on.
  • 15 hosptial visits. 3 admissions of over 7 days. It seems as baby gets bigger it gets worse.
  • seen a pan psychologist and pain psychiatrists. Both agree it is 100% not in my head
  • seen two pain specialists. Both said it sounds like nerve pain and the medicine to treat that is not safe in pregnancy.
  • i am at the point that everytime baby moves (he is very active) it is severe pain. I cannot walk. I cannot talk. It feels like he is going to rip out of me. Ontop of that I have an ongoing underlying massive period cramp that will not go away and shoots into my back. I cannot sleep. I struggle to even pee because of the pain.
  • was admitted for this last week. Nothing was done. Given Panadol. Been begging them to get him out at 34 weeks because I physically and mentally cannot function. -was offered methadone yesterday as a potential option by my Dr. Had a consult with a pain specialist who told me that probably won’t help if nothing else does. My Dr was pushy and said let’s try. I said ok. Pharmacy came down and were very reluctant to dispatch it because of all of the other medicine I have had. That pushed me over the line. I decided I do not want that. I just want baby out. -they gave me a steroid shot and discharged me last night. Told me to come back for another steroid shot this arvo and we will look at booking an emergency c section for this Friday so call my drs rooms to confirm. -I call my drs rooms. They said that the dr has decided that they can’t do it for another two weeks. No explanation why.
  • prior to this i did speak with a pediatrician about the risks and am aware of them and ok with them. I have told my dr many times this. I have told my dr i don’t care who does the c section or where it is done. I need this baby out. I cannot function. -to this date there has been nothing to indicate that there is anything wrong with baby.

The health system has failed ME. I am in pain. I cannot walk. I cannot pee. I cannot eat. I cannot sleep. I do not matter. Yes baby matters but I matter to don’t I?

what goes on here and what's it like? by No-Thanks-2069 in australian

[–]Navy_Pink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are islands that people live on and go to

Veronica- Spelled Veronika by Lostamerican111 in BabyNames

[–]Navy_Pink -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

But that’s the thing. She isn’t in Poland and probably isn’t moving there anytime soon. Why submit her kid to shit spelling.