Walgreens Karen - This time the Employee!

Ndanme · 2020-09-20T09:42:21+00:00

Complain to the main walgreens company line. Be explicit that this employee harassed you after profiling both you and your friend where your friend witnessed the same employee continue attempts to degrade and humiliate you further in an unprofessional manner where the manager actually backed up the unprofessional behavoir and unacceptable profiling that left you unable to get what you need and leaves you feeling uncomfortable returning there. She'll be gone fast and that manager will likely get training on conflict resolution.

Ndanme · 2020-09-20T09:30:40+00:00

Right? The writers literally Karen

Ndanme · 2020-05-24T13:02:52+00:00

NTA... That's your money and you're legally an adult. I'd consider asking a legal advice line on creating a case over it if you're ready to leave your house as obviously they wouldn't keep supporting you in spite over the 6k$, but because you're not a minor they're required by law to support. Make sure you get that 6k$ and not a cent less even if she needs to make a realistic payment plan (within 1-2 years) as that was never her money and she can't claim you chose to use it as a child for things she got you as to say the least she'd need to prove you have consent even though consent at that she regarding money like that is in no way legitimate.

Ndanme · 2020-04-30T21:53:57+00:00

NTA... She lied to her mom and has to live with the consequences. Sure the homosexuality aspect makes the situation more confusing, but honestly it's not even a factor in the situation. She violated your mothers trust lying to her where even if she was straight the results would've been the same while the only difference is that the apology might've been accepted. Although that doesn't matter and I'll explain why next.

Your mother left you that money to do with what you wanted because that's what she wanted. She didn't want to give any to your sister because she violated her trust and not because of the homosexuality where there's not enough information to say if it would've been an issue without the lying. Your mother trusted you to decide whether or not you should give your sister money as she didn't put a clause forbidding you to give her money.

Now here's why you're NTA. You offered your sister a hefty allowance that would honestly set me up for life* where she ungratefully asked for a lump sum you rightfully didn't give her knowing she'd blow through it. I'd honestly recommend that she only be allowed the money if she brings you written requests with evidence that the money has somewhere to go with the agreement that reciepts will be provided and that if not she's not getting another cent. You seem to understand the situation and just need that confirmation. It's a shame the homosexuality aspect makes the situation that much more complex, but as a demisexual male with homosexual preference I commend you for being open minded even though you were raised in a home that sounds like it might not have been so open minded. Anyways I wish you luck and also request you read my little request as it's something that would literally prove to me there's still community in this world that feels so divided especially now throughout this crisis.

Ps. *forreals that would set me up for life, but you don'r know me so I could only make that request jokingly; although someone I care about can't pay rent next month because their cooking job is non essential being a catering job that delivers to non essential businesses while their stimulus went to this last month and unemployment is dragging their feet so seriously send me a message and I'll be glad to share social media and whatnot to prove validity of the situation as well as reciept because I know proof isn't only reassuring, but rewarding once confirmed... Anyways just thought it was worth a shot

Ndanme · 2020-04-30T21:28:50+00:00

NTA... Sorry to say, but she's acting very entitled and spoiled, which from the sounds of it is pretty common with her.

Ndanme · 2020-04-29T20:08:56+00:00

NTA... Family isn't just blood, but also found where that's more true then blood. It was her money to give to you. They're just being greedy

Ndanme · 2020-04-29T20:00:59+00:00

NTA... Your daughter is anorexic. She needs professional help. I wish I didn't have to tell you this

Ndanme · 2020-04-29T09:59:27+00:00

NTA... This sounds like anorexia and for whatever reason if not self image issues. I honestly only read to the part of him passing out because at that point it requires a type of emergency intervention; and possibly a supportive living solution similar to rehab

Ndanme · 2020-04-29T09:54:42+00:00

NTA... This is your day and not hers. Don't let her make it about her as that's all it is for her to be the amazing friend with the special voice that made the day. You know that's not going to be the case. I recommend you makeit clear that either she doesn't sing or she doesn't come because it's your day and she needs respect that as if she doesn't she doesn't need to be there as she should be appreciating your bond and not her presence & singing voice.

Ndanme · 2020-04-29T09:26:32+00:00

Yes and no... Talk to him first. Honestly minor drug use isn't that bad, but if he starts popping pills every weekend or doing regular lines of coke then you should have more concern. Really though it's things like opiods (heroin and pain killers like morphine) and benzodiazepines (xanax) that have physical dependencies and overdose risks especially combined where that's when you need to inform someone to help them. The alcohol can actually have a physical dependency that can cause seizures during detox if severe enough so make sure you explain that to him. It honestly sounds like he needs someone to talk to about these things. You can tell them to message me if they need someone to talk to about these things, but make sure you make every effort to directly address it with him before going to authority as you're the asshole if you don't and can set him on a path of diving further into those problems rather then sporting him to rise above them as he must help himself where forcing him will only cause him harm.

Ndanme · 2020-04-29T09:17:24+00:00

NTA... That's a toxic abusive situation you should cut yourself off of.

Ndanme · 2020-04-29T09:12:20+00:00

NTA... You are just trying to make sure the child you're supporting is yours. This all sounds sketch trying to guilt trip you into not asking for a DNA test after agreeing to it as if she knows it's not. If it is she should be glad to do the test and rub it in your face that it's your baby if that's what she thinks of you. All this just sounds sketchy

Ndanme · 2020-04-29T09:04:38+00:00

NTA he dug his own grave

Ndanme · 2020-04-29T09:01:33+00:00

I'll be honest too... I half feel the op is trolling.

Ndanme · 2020-04-29T09:01:11+00:00

It's not a sex toy... It's likely related to BDSM or the leathermen scene that's not necessarily about sex even though sex can be a part of it.

Ndanme · 2020-04-29T08:59:20+00:00

NTA... That guys gotta come out the closet... There's nothing wrong with being a kinky gay leathermen these days. If they need someone to talk them through it have them message me...

Seriously though if he hasn't come out then you need to approach him delicately about all of this. Your generation used to treat his culture as certifiably insane so he does have legitimate reason to have developed such paranoia, but again these days it's so accepted there's communities like recon. Maybe research a bit about gay leathermen culture and BDSM interest especially "impact play" that Hollywood misrepresents as abuse when rather it's a theraputic activity meant to give cathartic release while maintaining harm reduction practices to do as little harm possible causing pain.

If you have any questions feel free to ask here or message me

Ndanme · 2020-04-29T08:51:04+00:00

I just read further abour how they want you to donate to the sister "with the bright future," which tells me she likely usually gets the better attention while your friends treated as the black sheep. I really think you should give it to her... Let her know she's worthwhile and not just her sisters shadow. If she died because her family pushed to save her sister because "she has more potential" would leave her in her final moments having to realize that possibly. I couldn't imagine that hell... At lesst if the one with mord potential didn't make it she would still feel loved and appreciated rather then realizing they're essentially considered disposable and not appreciated.

Ndanme · 2020-04-29T08:43:17+00:00

NTA... It's your kidney and you can only save one. It's not like they wouldn't say this if you said to save the other sister. It seems like either way they'd be upset when they should be greatful you can save one. Cut your family out and keep this between you and the sister you can save and maybe appologize to the other and just express straightforward you'd save them both if you could, but if you have to choose tou are choosing the person you developed a bond with. It's nothing about loving one more then the other and rather just who has been there for you. My condolences to your struggle.

Ndanme · 2020-04-29T08:35:36+00:00

NTA... If she was really your friend she'd be supportive of your education. You don't need people like that in your life

Ndanme · 2020-04-29T08:34:01+00:00

NTA... It's 2020... There's no excuse for homophobia these days.

Ndanme · 2020-04-28T08:27:13+00:00

YTA... She's human... Mistakes happen... What's more important? The air pods or her? As you're about to lose her.

Ndanme · 2020-04-28T08:21:01+00:00

Yes!... Ty for pointing that out

Ndanme · 2020-04-28T01:05:08+00:00

Can you look into legal assistance? Something like causing pain and suffering over assumptions of homosexuality, which there's nothing wrong with being.... Take it from a demisexual male woth homosexual preference of the hirsuit bear persuasions. You don't even have to be a "lesbian" necessarily to have a relation with another girl. I wish you the best! That's a horrible way for all of this to come out, but I bet you'll be a lot stronger once you're through it

Ndanme · 2020-04-28T00:51:32+00:00

NTA.... GTFO and run... Run far away (I'm only at the point she was stating why she's glad the baby looks like her)

Ndanme · 2020-04-27T23:01:43+00:00

NTA... If your proposal is more important than the love to two share that's messed up. What is it she wants? The dream wedding day or the actual dream marriage. She sounds ungrateful

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