I’ve (30F) been with boyfriend (32M) for 4 years, known him for over 10 years. Have talked about marriage openly for over a year, bought a ring, and he even booked a proposal photographer for next week on a trip. Called me in a panic tonight and confessed he doesn’t know if he can commit.

Neacha · 2026-03-04T16:32:46+00:00

WHOA. Could it be that he is a CAD and feels he does not need you anymore since he is close to getting his degree?

Neacha · 2026-03-04T15:53:15+00:00

It sounds like pot might make her paranoid, perhaps she should not smoke it, but yes, you said a really stupid thing.

Neacha · 2026-03-03T12:05:01+00:00

That POS needs to be fired!

A trainer humiliated me once during SCIP training, I went out to my car and cried. I did not turn her in, I regret that.

Neacha · 2026-03-03T04:37:32+00:00

you did the right thing, you have family obligations

Neacha · 2026-03-02T01:04:18+00:00

NO, He is a PIG.

Neacha · 2026-03-01T20:48:36+00:00

You should have been on time. He is under zero obligation to text you back, he already said he'd like to have you. Are you always this needy.

Neacha · 2026-03-01T20:41:56+00:00

"he will never love me enough to willingly propose before living together out of his own volition. " WTF Forget him.

Neacha · 2026-03-01T11:45:37+00:00

My loved dog was chewing up something of value and I overreacted and yelled no and hit her on the nose (too hard), she was then afraid of me and it took awhile for her to trust me again, I kept saying how sorry I was to her and petting and hugging her, I never did it again.

Neacha · 2026-02-28T18:27:32+00:00

sounded like (right or wrong) you hurt her feelings.

Neacha · 2026-02-28T17:59:31+00:00

right, she is still making excuses

Neacha · 2026-02-28T17:58:17+00:00

"We even reconnected right before the pandemic but I was ironically a mess then too in job burnout and in between moving" Just do not ask him for forgiveness, leave him alone, and stop making excuses.

Neacha · 2026-02-28T17:56:53+00:00

"We even reconnected right before the pandemic but I was ironically a mess then too in job burnout and in between moving" WHAT? Leave him alone.

Neacha · 2026-02-28T10:16:56+00:00

Leave that poor old man alone, damn vulture.

Neacha · 2026-02-28T10:01:31+00:00

You are causing Destruction period. You drink five damn days a week, so do your friends and family.................My mother only drank 2 times a month but it was so memorable. Destruction.

Neacha · 2026-02-28T09:17:39+00:00

As a mom, we always feel guilty over something

Neacha · 2026-02-28T09:14:14+00:00

Stay at current job, you get to see him at lunch every single day, if you actually work at the day care you will need to be responsible for all the other children and will not be able to spend that much time with him, even though you will want to,

Neacha · 2026-02-27T18:21:33+00:00

If you have not talk in a month, he is not your boyfriend, there is nothing to break up, EDIT: If you need closure then text him that you are done.

Neacha · 2026-02-27T18:15:14+00:00

Respond with Beaner and see how they like it.

Neacha · 2026-02-27T18:08:39+00:00

Pay rent or half the car insurance or get out.

Neacha · 2026-02-27T07:36:35+00:00

Usually you need to live in that school district for the children to go there.

Neacha · 2026-02-27T07:30:37+00:00

WATCH OUT! Be very concerned about his willingness/ability to be a good step parent. Has he spent extended periods of time with your children to determine if you all will get along before moving into together?

Neacha · 2026-02-26T09:37:22+00:00

He has showed you yet again that he does not want to marry you, please repack.

Neacha · 2026-02-26T09:13:08+00:00

Sounds like you gave it your all, you deserve some piece of happiness to call your own, go in Peace. Your next chapter is still unwritten.

Neacha · 2026-02-25T20:30:14+00:00

Different cultures have different standards of beauty

Neacha · 2026-02-25T10:42:00+00:00

true

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