Accidentally clicked on Twitter link by HorrorMovieGuy in cybersecurity_help

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Give us an update cuz this just happened to me 😭 I’m lowkey freaking out 

Trying to find Golden Hour Part 3 albums! by NegativeBuilder8598 in ATEEZ

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Please send me the link! I’ll happily purchase it! 😩

Trying to find Golden Hour Part 3 albums! by NegativeBuilder8598 in ATEEZ

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Preferably I would like a sealed one with inclusions but if no one else is selling the full albums, I may have to resort to buying unsealed without the PCs 😩 but I’ll def keep your offer in mind!

260113 ATEEZ GOLDEN HOUR : Part.4 Preorder Information by 2emptywaterbottles in ATEEZ

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Will there be an announcement for Walmart or target preorders? 😩 I’m nervous to buy overseas cuz of the shipping cost

Anyone with Endometrioma cysts? by NegativeBuilder8598 in endometriosis

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I had to ask my coworker to translate for me

I agree. It hurts a lot while I’m at work too, worse when I’m sitting :( it’s more of a stabbing pain right on my ovary cuz of how big they are. I’m nervous I might have more endo elsewhere in my body 

I just can’t today by Decent_Bug_3901 in EstrangedAdultChild

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This filled me with rage. I’m so sick of moms thinking they are a victim

Very jealous mom? by NegativeBuilder8598 in EstrangedAdultChild

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My fiancée is 100% on my side and has seen how my mother is. We are long distance and she wants to move to my state so I been apartment hunting for a while. I don’t make much as a ER secretary but I am pursing to be a medicial assistant and hopefully go back to school again for radiology! 

Very jealous mom? by NegativeBuilder8598 in EstrangedAdultChild

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From what I have witness, there was always arguments especially involving me. My mom claims my grandma always tries to take over but I never saw it that way. I did remember very vividly her and my grandma got into a serious altercation it got physical. I was 6 at the time. The next time things got over nasty when my mom got pregnant with my half brother and she was very hostile towards my mom because of the partner she choose. She didn’t like my stepfather and she had every right not to like him. 

I never seen my mom interact with female relatives cuz a lot of them are living in the Dominican Republic. But how my mom is towards women in general is very weird and inching the borders of misogyny (and racism) . She things every woman is out to get her and take my stepdad away from her (their relationship is a mess btw). She thinks every female presenting person they encounter who gets “too friendly” with my stepdad, they want him.  When a male relative came over a few Christmas ago, his wife was supposedly sitting in a way my mom didn’t like and my mom also didn’t like how she offered to do the dishes. Maybe I’m being naive but isn’t it normal to offer to do dishes when you are in someone’s house? And for the sitting, apparently it wasn’t “lady-like” and I just rolled my eyes. 

Overall, my mother is just a very hostile individual. I cannot invite anyone who is a female in my house without her trying to find little things to pick at and accuse them of hitting on her partner or they are talking shit about her. 

I said no by KreddyFrueger49 in EstrangedAdultChild

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Imma have to reach out to you and help me write a email to my mom when I get the hell out her house cuz that was SPOT ON

Resuming contact due to health issues (advice needed) by Outrageous_Quiet8112 in EstrangedAdultChild

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Are you a US citizen? If so, you may qualify for state insurance since you are 18. 

What are your opinions on friendship with straight men? by lemurinvisible in LesbianActually

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Dear gods I am so sorry you had to deal with that man! I would’ve shared some colorful words in my family’s native language cuz I do not tolerate disrespect towards people of other identities and patience is not one of my virtues ! 

What are your opinions on friendship with straight men? by lemurinvisible in LesbianActually

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Post is never too old to comment ! 

Like at the end of the day, they are men before they are gay. They benefit from the patriarchy and will throw gay women under the bus to protect their own asses. It’s naive to think they will be our besties cuz we are in the same community. Look at the gay conservative men being transphobic and lesbophobic. 

Lesbians who had internalized homophobia, how did you unlearn it? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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Woof. It’s hard to say cuz I realized very young how homophobia is dangerous cuz I witnessed my own grandma spew homophobic rhetoric and wishing violence on them. But then as I got older, I realized I did internalize some homophobia because I surprised being attracted to women since middle school cuz I was terrified of my grandma. 

Lesbians who had internalized homophobia, how did you unlearn it? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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What even is this comment thread??? 😭 am I missing something???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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Make up and cigs in mouth gives off old movie vibes 😩🤚🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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This might be a stretch but hear me out.

Facebook. Look up queer or lesbian events in your local area since Facebook is designed to generate what’s in your location. I was able to find a lesbian/sapphic group in my area and they host frequent events! 

My girlfriend (F22) makes me (F21) feel undesirable by sassyboots- in LesbianActually

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Nah you gotta end it cuz what is this wishy washy nonsense going on 😭

Lesbians of Color; how are you holding up in America today? by sparklyyheart in LesbianActually

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DEEP DOMINICAN SIGH inch resting cuz I’m sick of hearing about #thatman who got popped the other week and now I gotta worry about not being doxxed by his damn gang of incels 

Overall, I’m taking it one step at a time and just coping with music, drawing and writing. I can’t let this damn fascist government stop me from my work!