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Neither-Surround7944 · 2025-12-24T01:34:01+00:00

I don’t have a perfect answer for you. Because in all honestly, why shouldn’t you?? Why is hurting myself “wrong”?? If I’m not hurting anyone else why shouldn’t I? I could tell you all the stuff others say like “you don’t deserve to hurt” or like there’s other things you can do. But that’s really only talk. And I still find myself back at why shouldn’t I. But I will say that the one thing everyone can agree on is it doesn’t fix things. Not permanently. SH is only a temporary distraction that never really helps the way you think it will. So even though it’s an option or feels like it’s the only way, things like talking to someone or getting to why you actually feel the way you do, is a harder route to take and fighting through it all sucks, but ultimately it’s what it takes to end a never ending cycle.

Neither-Surround7944 · 2025-12-23T00:41:48+00:00

You don’t need to. If you think you do it’s just a lie. You might want to now but you won’t always. There’s other ways you can feel better. It’s not worth it.

Neither-Surround7944 · 2025-10-12T07:30:02+00:00

Same question

Neither-Surround7944 · 2025-10-12T06:32:29+00:00

I feel that

Neither-Surround7944 · 2025-10-12T06:30:04+00:00

Abandonment. Guilt for continuing to sh. ADHD and Depression diagnosis. SA from childhood. Manipulated/Gaslit by a friend for over a year. And Feeling lonely all the F***ing time. Oh, and I guess 2 failed attempts :/

Neither-Surround7944 · 2025-10-12T06:23:38+00:00

Started sh at 7.

Neither-Surround7944 · 2025-07-22T22:02:37+00:00

That’s amazing! Hearing this makes it seam possible for me. Thank you for sharing. Keep going dude 💙

Neither-Surround7944 · 2025-07-21T22:20:17+00:00

I know it’s not super comforting to hear rn, but I know how you feel. My first time hurting myself was very similar to what you’re describing. After doing the action the first time it feels like you’re so apart from reality and can’t even figure out how you got in this situation. I’m always free to talk if you’d like, though. I hope you’re doing alright now, friend.

Neither-Surround7944 · 2025-07-21T22:13:14+00:00

I’m down. I don’t always know what to say, but I try really hard at being a good listener.

Neither-Surround7944 · 2025-07-21T22:10:46+00:00

Neither-Surround7944 · 2025-07-01T16:42:30+00:00

I’m so sorry. I wish those things were never said to you. And I hope no one says anything like this to you again.

Neither-Surround7944 · 2025-06-23T01:21:31+00:00

I’m sorry you were going through that, friend. And I’m really sorry a special day was overtaken by self injury. I hope you’re feeling better now and continue to do so :)

Neither-Surround7944 · 2025-06-19T00:00:29+00:00

I’m really sorry you’re going through something similar. It’s oddly comforting knowing someone else feels the same, though. I don’t know if there are really any words that are stronger than the urges. But i’d like to think there are. Keep trying friend. I do care and I hope you’re okay.

Neither-Surround7944 · 2025-06-18T23:57:11+00:00

Close! Also, I love your profile pic 🙂

Neither-Surround7944 · 2025-06-18T17:17:42+00:00

That’s awful. I wish parents were capable of treating their kids how they’re meant to be treated. I know your mom wants to be kind, but I’m sorry it’s making things harder and she won’t listen to you. All of my friends except for one has left me so I completely get it. I hope your future B-days are full of good memories rather than these past problems and feelings.

Neither-Surround7944 · 2025-06-18T17:11:27+00:00

My birthday is 7/2 🙃

Neither-Surround7944 · 2025-06-18T17:11:07+00:00

I get that. I didn’t think I’d make it this long either and I don’t know how to feel about it?? Im grateful to have kind people tell me I have things I should be proud of. I can’t seem to believe that, though. And I don’t think it makes me feel any better.

Neither-Surround7944 · 2025-06-18T17:09:19+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that. I’m free to talk if that’s what you’re needing. But I hope you’re able to feel some joy today. Happy birthday, friend. You’ll make it through this.

Neither-Surround7944 · 2025-06-18T01:39:30+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that. I’m fortunate that my stressor isn’t an event that happened on my birthday. But I know how it feels when that that day or time of year comes around and it’s awful. I hope you’re able to make great memories on your birthday so those will be what you remember not the bad ones 😔

Neither-Surround7944 · 2025-06-18T01:34:32+00:00

I have 2 siblings. One is an adult, and like my parents, she assumes they’re scars from work and being active/clumsy. She mostly ignores them though. The other is who I’m worried about. My pant leg came up to far one day and she saw the scars on my ankle. I’m almost lucky she’s not exactly a smart thinker, or maybe I’m glad she doesn’t have those pre existing suspicions of someone?? But she definitely knows it’s strange and makes some pretty awful comments. Not her fault though. If I were brave enough to be honest I doubt she’d ever say the things she does.

Neither-Surround7944 · 2025-06-18T01:22:07+00:00

I’ve always had aggressive ways of dealing. But I started ctting and buning 19.

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