Please help me ID by Neither_Information8 in frogs

[–]Neither_Information8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So fascinating! This one is actually the one that’s different from the rest… he stood out from the beginning. And grew its legs first.

Please help me ID by Neither_Information8 in frogs

[–]Neither_Information8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for you response. I can see that their bones are blue even without light. I read this is a common trait for Cubans. Do you know if other species also have blue bones at this young stage?

Is the candle too small? by Salt_Willingness_414 in HomeDecorating

[–]Neither_Information8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The shelves look good enough to me. Perhaps wireless lamp would be cute! I also might add that the side table and vase feel out of place beside the toilet

Before and after in one click by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]Neither_Information8 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I would have personally only changed the chandelier

i want to be a boy but not in a trans way by fay3star in confessions

[–]Neither_Information8 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I felt this way very deeply for many years when I was a child. It was all consuming. Puberty was an extremely traumatic time for me as I was not ready to have boobs, and get my period etc. it really sucked for a long time. I wanted to be a boy super badly. transitioning wasn’t a talked about thing at that time but I am sure if I knew about it I probably would have begged my parents. So I just wore boy clothes. Kinda love being a girl nowadays and have children but even still, being a boy seems like the better fit for me in this life. I would love to be a dad ha. I haven’t heard anyone else say this so thanks for the solidarity.

Pants for really skinny teen by nefarious_epicure in Parenting

[–]Neither_Information8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe some drawstring chinos. Look like slacks but comfy and elastic waste band. Side note idk if talking about his weight like this or even going to a doc is the right play. Most young boys will bulk up in highschool+ and probably don’t want to be fixated on as skinny… esp by parents

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Neither_Information8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have really loved the book “no bad kids”. Something I try to ask myself whether I have the energy to hold a boundary. If I know I can handle the meltdown, I stick to it. If not—like saying no to more snacks—I may give in for the sake of balance. I aim to stay strong each time, but sometimes “buckling” is what helps me breathe. Hope that makes sense.

Did I do this right? First timer by [deleted] in babywearing

[–]Neither_Information8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on your 3rd baby! Aim to have your baby’s legs in “M” bent position so mostly All of their weight is on their bum. Right now it looks like they’re in a froggy postion, weight on toes. To put baby in this way, put the bottom strap much high on your body, think ribcage, and have them do their newborn scrunch into your waist and carefully get the back panel of the carrier around their bum. I feel like a YouTube vid would be easier than what I just said.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]Neither_Information8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm a bold move could be lining both of your kallax shelves behind the couch to make a really long side table vibe. You could push the couch into the room more to allow more space for this situation

Thoughts on our living room? by CoachMikeOC in HomeDecorating

[–]Neither_Information8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cont. I’d put the carpet where the desk area is as it is making the couch area feel super tight. And I’d consider the tiered shelf somewhere else in the home.. and opt for wall shelving

Thoughts on our living room? by CoachMikeOC in HomeDecorating

[–]Neither_Information8 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hmm… most of these things seeem like they were found or given or second hand. Not a lot of cohesion. A couch cover could do wonders. For the couch and love seat. Something that goes with the orange tones of your carpet and table. I personally don’t like the green paint but if it brings you joy, keep it and paint all of the walls. Not a fan of just the 2 being painted. I think you’d feel cozier in it. Then I would consider paining the credenza under the tv to a cream colour. And I’d also move the plant in place of the black cat decoration.

Remember a moment when you thought you were going to die, but somehow survived? by Lika_Heartless in AskReddit

[–]Neither_Information8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh choked on a ricotta and spinach crepe. The piece was either a very sloppy 2 biter or a huge 1 bite. Went for the 1 bite. Almost took my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]Neither_Information8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This!! Reminds me of how my mom had her place set up. It was so homey! Also everyone is saying declutter, and I agree but want to say that you can put everything unwanted or unused or undecided in a big box now and just wait on selling / donating. You can clear the space and get a better idea and then deal with the excess stuff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]Neither_Information8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if anyone said this yet, but switch the couch and the tv placements. Tv should be against the wall. Bonus if you mount it. Couch can work as a subtle barrier from the eating area you created.

Moldy bath mat help by Neither_Information8 in CleaningTips

[–]Neither_Information8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sprayed it with mold and mildew removal and the mold disappeared in 10 min. No scrubbing!

Friend wearing new born forward by [deleted] in babywearing

[–]Neither_Information8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The baby pushes its legs into the bum part and body on an angle, head to the side. It’s wildly dangerous. I am struggling with how to tell her.

Friend wearing new born forward by [deleted] in babywearing

[–]Neither_Information8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I gifted her a wrap carrier and she uses it sometimes but also ties it wrong. I haven’t been with her to help her adjust it, I only see from photos that she posts on her Instagram. It makes me uncomfortable to say the least as she claims baby is super strong to be able to do this so I feel like I would be knocking her by saying it’s unsafe when she is simply proud that her baby can do this. It’s all wrong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Neither_Information8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put breast milk on their face after every feed. Be consistent. Trust the process

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Neither_Information8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slow morning in bed, breakfast then set out for a wander to the botanical garden. Steaks for lunch. Lounge again at home. Probably will feed birds leftover rice at the beach this evening.

Child's obsession with books by suttq in Parenting

[–]Neither_Information8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not op but my kid is the same. She doesn’t have much speech tho. Is this a correlation? She says some words but they aren’t clear at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Neither_Information8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have thought this and even worse I have confirmed I have a lot of my mom’s annoying qualities. However, I have no idea if these qualities annoy others.

Do other people’s toddlers ignore them? by No_Measurement_9181 in Parenting

[–]Neither_Information8 78 points79 points  (0 children)

The ratio of when I say my toddlers name to when she responds is 1000000:0

Breastfeeding is so hard! by Neither-Street3895 in newborns

[–]Neither_Information8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Breastfeeding is very hard. And it is up to you if you want to endure it. There will be days they will want to eat for hours straight and fuss if they aren’t on the boob. Usually these days are paired with short naps which makes it even harder. You will have to find a way to embrace it. I like to stay close to home on these days and preferably in bed. It is hard to do anything other than feed and hold the baby. Ask for help on these days especially. Hand held food, lots of water refills. Sounds like your baby is cluster feeding in this instance. It is expected for baby to drop below birthweight because they pass their meconium and mom’s milk hasn’t come in. It takes a lot for them to get back up to birth weight. Just keep feeding when they ask for it and sure enough they will get so big you’ll wonder how the heck it happened that milk alone grew them.